Hi Shelden. How are u? U need to try and relax about your situation. Try and be cool. She’s saying the right things to u now, that’s what u wanted ye. Try not to come over needy or it will scare her away. You need to control your emotions and take it a day at a time. No stress. I know it’s hard but you got to try dude. My situation looks dead in the water but I’m trying to play it cool, play the waiting game. It’s a hard game but it’s better than stressing out about things dude
Yeah that’s true she just is wishy washy man! Like one minute she wants to work things out and then the next she is cold towards me and acts like she don’t care?
Mate, I don’t know what to tell u. If I was you do no contact and stick to it. I know she’ll try and contact you but stick to no contact
Idk if that’s the right idea though? What if she leaves me or something cause she just started opening up to me?
Bump?
She just called me in the middle of the night and told me she had a really bad dream! It was about her dad! Her dad was never in her life but it sucks cause her bestfriend and others always mention stuff about her dad to her and she gets upset and angry! Anyways she just needed to vent to me about it and then she said she locked herself out of her bestfriends house and couldn’t get ahold of her! I offered that she could stay here and I could sleep in another room but she said she didn’t have gas and stuff so I said okay that’s fine and she kept saying she was cold so I offered to bring her a blanket or something but she said no! Well finally her friend answered the phone so I don’t have to worry about her Sleeping outside in her car! What do you guys think?
Do you think my chances are good?
Okay so if she is reaching out to me now and working on things slowly and always texting me and calling me now do you think I should go no contact? Or should I stay in contact with her?
@patrick d
Mate I don’t know what to tell u. My ex doesn’t contact me at all. I wish she did. Your going to have to do what u think is best! Everyone’s telling u to do no contact but you say it’s hard with her contacting you all the time. I know you can’t ignore her so I’m not sure what you best option is. All I can say is don’t mug yourself.
I’m gonna do no contact so she knows what it’s like when I’m really gone
I’m losing hope! I haven’t talked to her today and she texts me and goes “I’m good on you” “ignore me all day”
I miss her so freaking much!
I didn’t talk to her yesterday and she was like “I’m good on you” “ignore me all day”
I’ve decided I’m gonna go no contact
Good on you, be strong don’t give in to her