I’m not going to
Well guys I think I’m done! She went back to that same guy she was talking to the last time and of course I had to find out on my own and she wouldn’t tell me! Idk what to do now guys…
Any advice?
Now I find out she’s with this other guy everyday and he “makes her happy and treats her like a queen” what do I do now? I feel so hurt and lost:/ she still tells me she loves me more than anything and says she still cares for me
No contact
No contact
No contact
Let her enjoy this guy for a little while. Right now she seems so happy and so does he, because they are in the honeymoon phase of their relationship. Sooner or later she will get tired of him and start to wonder if she made the right choice. She will look at you, and she will compare the 2 of you.
3 thing could happen after that:
a) She will see that you haven’t changed at all, in fact you are a bigger looser then ever and she stays with him
b) She see how much you have changed and is impressed, you are happier then ever and living you life to the fullest. You are a bit mysterious in her eyes now and becomes so interrested that she comes back to you
c) she realises that both of you are losers and finds a third guy. Both you guys could then spend the next 6 months crying together.
Wich option do you prefer? I know what I would go for.
Option b forsure and I am doing no contact now!
What are you doing to improve yourself?
Well to show more affection is a really easy task and I’ve been listening to this guy names Michael Griswold! And I used to text her and go off when I heard about her and her new boy but now I just lay low because I know she wants to see me react and I’m not going to you know? But I’ve been going to the gym and working out and hanging out with my friends and becoming a better man and just being a gentleman
Sounds like you are doing ok. Try making a plan for like 2 weeks. You have to do at least one thing every day that can help you improve as a person, and one thing that will make you look interrresting 
Sounds pretty good! Like what do you mean by making a plan though?
Plan some stuff for you to do the next 14 days
1-2 things every day. Things that can help you become a better person, and make you more interresting
Okay I see what you mean! But I have become a better person you know? I just gotta learn how to control my anger when I panic and not text her!
Why is it so hard to believe its a rebound though…
It always is
But good you,are improving. Keep it going, so this new guy wont stand a chance against you.
And of course I got drunk with a few old friends of mine and she texts me and says “lol I feel it shelden,I can’t believe you did that. I will never speak a word to you again. " but she kept texting me after that and of course I said something like " I will always love you even though you hurt the fuck out of me” and she goes " I’m sorry I just have to make myself happy"! Why do I feel like it’s really over…
She called me and said this will be the last time we talk…
Bumpppp
this girl is creating way too much drama. tell her you will not talk to her while she is seeing someone period. then do not reach out to her and do not respond to any calls or texts from her. if at a point they break up maybe she will contact you or you can reach back out but staying in contact while she’s seeing someone will drive you absolutely crazy, make it impossible to move on, and give her her cake and allow her to eat it too. you will be helping her get over you.
Yeah I haven’t talked to her in five days and I’m back being friends with this one girl she hates and she sends me a text today and said " I lterally hate you"