Hi Andrew. Hope you are well. Kim says you have been in touch with her and she passed on your sentiments to me. Thank you for those and please don’t worry, there are no bad feelings on our part. You are always welcome round. It is a shame things don’t appear to have worked out as both
Nigel and me thought you two were good together. Never mind these things happen. I am pleased to say Kim has returned to her “normal” self again after coming off the pill. I couldn’t believe
how much it affected her! She has not really got on with it before but never to that extent. She has even fallen out with her sister lol. Anyway, normal service resumed now. I hope the two of you manage to sort something out in the future even if its just friendship and it was lovely to have met you. PS I am messaging you from a beach in Antigua
@Mj having faith, feeling better about it all. I’ve forgiven myself for the situation I got myself into, and I know I’ve changed and I’m out of that place, if he doesn’t want to believe that or just doesn’t want to think about it then that is up to him.
Yes get back to your letter! How are you getting on so far?
@Mj that seems to be a common feeling amongst us, I feel exactly the same about mine. I think it’s a pride thing more than anything. A decision has been made and they must stick with it to not be seen as weak. It’s convincing themselves that they have done the right thing, which is why I also think they won’t meet us. Because they know if they did, those feelings would be back in a heartbeat. You have nothing to lose by sending it.
@KD1988: Your mom is funny, I’m sure her message will put a smile on his face
That’s really good! The first thing we have to do in order to improve ourselves is to forgive ourselves first, You did your best and you should feel happy about it, and I’m sure he will notice and acknowledge it.
As I said before, some people are really stubborn and need some more time than others, but from his responses I can see that he still has feelings for you. so now you just have to wait until he realizes it.
@Oshi she is funny haha. Yeah I don’t think it is a bad message she sent, and I hope he replies to her because she took a lot of time thinking about what she wanted to say. I don’t think he can be angry at her message.
Yep I had to forgive myself. I kept beating myself up about what went wrong, and what I did, and I took him for granted etc but I had to stop that, because it was making me ill. I was not myself the last month of our relationship, and it was nothing that I could control. I am back to normal now but HE needs to see it. I think he knows he has feelings, he just isn’t willing to act on them, probably because he is thinking it won’t work between us (when I know it would).
@KD1988: I feel the same. I was angry about myself for a long time, but then I realized that there is nothing I can do about it anymore and instead I should improve and forgive myself
@Mj: LOL backstreet boys!
I started listening to happy songs now, my dad said he doesn’t want to hear sad songs anymore xD
@Oshi I think forgiving yourself is the first part of properly moving forward. I’m at peace with myself for things that happened. There’s no point in buts and what if’s, it’s done. If we were to ever get back together, it would be a completely new relationship anyway!
@Mj LOLOL no idea what that is! I try to listen to happy songs. I listened to one sad song and was an absolute mess lol never again!
