So I sent my ex a letter. Just explaining that I accept the break up, that I’m sorry for how I reacted, where my head was at when we were together.
This morning ive had this text
“Thanks for the letter. Very grown up 
can I have your postcode so I can send one back? X”
What should I do? Is this a good sign? Help please!!
Well. He is willing to put in effort for you so I think it is good. Now you just have to be patient and wait for it. That way you will know how he feels about stuff be strong. I know its hard. You can add me on kik if you want to talk kailak19
@kaila he’s gonna send me one so that’s good. He said he wanted to return the favour. But I don’t think it will be what I want to hear. But trying to stay positive!!
That’s good. I’m hoping things go your way. If he wants your postcode to send a letter he must have something to say. I hope it’s what u want.
I’m yet to give my letter, I was going to send it out then she txt me about final bills etc and I asked her out for coffee. She said it was a nice idea but she didn’t feel like she could. Which is fair enough. I said I would meet her quickly next week to sort out our final bills etc and I thought I might give it to her then. But now I’m thinking I might send it out next week and wait a few weeks till I see her to sort the bills. Wait till I’m ready. Not sure what to do?
@gingerone
He’s told me he has sent his letter to me and that he has so much respect for me sending him one. I don’t know what he wants to say, but I don’t think its gonna be a “we should get back together” letter. But at least I can then put it to bed and just move on.
I don’t know, it might be good to give it to her when you see her! Then it’s done. I felt like a
Weight had been lifted after sending mine!
I’m in the same situation right now. Sent him a letter after NC and he told me that he sent one back, also thanked me for sending it.
I’m afraid that the letter might be a goodbye letter, even though he was nice when we talked on the phone and I felt some mixed signals from him, maybe this could be just my imagination, so confused.
Do you think that a response letter could be a good sign? or maybe if he wanted to get back together he would have just called already?
@oshi I feel the same. I don’t know what to think about it. People have told me that its a good thing that he wants to send me one back, but I don’t think it will say what I want it to say!
I think it’s a good thing in some way because it means that they took the time and effort to write back but I honestly can’t say if it would be positive or not…
Nope. I don’t think he will say what I want, but at least he didn’t ignore me I guess
hey KD i completely missed this post sorry! hope i’m not too late.
I’m glad to see that he had shown a positive reaction to your letter! Hopefully it ends up well.
I on the other hand am not doing well, guess the signs she showed weren’t that positive after all.
Oh KD did you show us your letter before?
@mj
Part of me feels it’s positive, but part of me feels it’s going to be negative too. He just
Kept saying he had a lot
Of respect for me for doing it, but wanted to return the favour to me. I don’t think it’s going to be what I want to hear. But I just have to deal with that when it happens. I should receive his letter tomorrow.
What’s happening with you?
No, my letter basically just said I accepted the break up, I was sorry for how I reacted, I explained where my head was at when we were together and I hadn’t been in a good place, and that I had sorted myself out and was back to being me again.
It could also be him trying to be polite. Guess you will find out when you receive it tomorrow…
I unintentionally saw the guy post of a pic of them together. I wasn’t stalking, and didn’t even follow him on Instagram. I just happened to see someone like it. I shouldn’t be affected but the thought of it just… sucks
@mj yeah I think he is just trying to be polite. But if that’s the case he’s not going to say anything different from what he said when we broke up. I prepared for that but now it’s come to it I will be crushed!!
Oh no, I think anyone would be affected by that 
doesn’t necessarily mean anything though
I really hope he sends you a nice letter, at least a step up compared to before!
I tell myself it doesn’t mean anything too, but when her friends are starting to follow the guy you know things are going down. I’m still gonna go ahead as planned tho!
Yeah just keep going hun. It’s never going to be a straight road!
I just hope we all get what we want
Let us know his response KD!
I hope so too…
I will mj. Should get it tomorrow. It makes me feel sick thinking about it! If it was anything other than bad I think he would of already said it
Hahaha I feel sick whenever I think of them together >.<