They always say to keep in touch but don’t initiate chats!
I’m gonna definitely send it this week, meeting her or not. Don’t think I want to wait much longer.
@Oshi I haven’t heard from him yet today… I don’t know if I should have that conversation with him in person or through texting. He is more open though texting. But how would I intiate that conversation? I definitely do not want to come off as nosey or judgmental!
Haha, you guys are so funny! I agree with everything you guys are saying! Lol!
@ellie96: Maybe you can start by asking him how he’s doing or how does he feel, I think you should initiate a conversation with him and see where it goes.
@Oshi He is also supposed to find out today whether or not he got this job. Like I said, he never texted me back yesterday, so I didn’t know if I should text him now and just be like “I hope you got the job!” or something supportive just to let him know someone recognizes what happens in his life or if I should wait for him to text me?
im so sorry for posting! please help me!
@ellie96: It’s hard to know why he didn’t text you back, maybe he needed some time to think or maybe he was busy?, that’s what I don’t understand, why they become passive like that after they say they’ll call or text back. I think there’s no harm sending him a supportive message.
@Oshi I mean I really do think he is busy, but he also knows he can just shoot me a text. I feel like on one hand he is busy but on the other he is trying to get my attention. The only thing that doesn’t make sense though is he opened up to me 2 days ago about obviously something important. So I feel like he wouldn’t play games. But I’m not sure honestly.
@ellie96: That’s exactly what I’m trying to understand, I know my ex also keeping himself busy with work but on the other hand he opened up to me and makes me feel like he’s trying to get my attention, that’s really confusing, I guess we just have to be patience and as you said they will stop sending mixed signals when they’ll feel ready to send real ones.
So how do we convince them to send real ones?
hey guys, I just had another of those dreams again 
stupid subconscious…
No reply from her too…
He hasn’t texted me yet… I’m about to start having a panic attack. I texted him through support and I haven’t heard from him yet. I would think that his break would be now. I’m about to cry my eyes out. I have no idea why. I just need someone to calm me down.
Feeling the same as you ellie… heart wont stop beating so fast
So many thoughts in my head right now
@Mj I don’t understand why he’s not talking to me though. Not unless he has been super busy which is completely possible. But it is freaking me out. Literally we were great 2 days ago. I don’t understand at all.
And I think you just need to relax only because you guys haven’t talked and you’ve been separated for so long… Our situations are kind of different just because I have this “best friends” that kiss thing with him right now.
You’re quite right… hopefully she’s still asleep.
Do you think fmgiving uim a call will help?
giving him*
I don’t think its just to be polite. Writing a letter takes time and effort he wouldn’t do that just to say I don’t wanna talk anymore or its not going to happen. I think if he wanted to do that he’d just text u. If its a small step in the right direction than the letter helped
Well I dont think she’ll be replying so I’ll just post it then
Oh guys dunno what’s happened to me. I accidentally text my ex last (was a complete accident) he replied saying don’t think that was meant for me… I said oops no genuine mistake sorry hope you’re good tho. His reply " yeah things are pretty good right now 
life is on the up, I’m happy. Hope your good. Off to sleep now tho x"
Ugh. Stop drumming it in how good you are! Just have this feeling inside now that it’s completely done, he doesn’t wanna talk, doesn’t wanna see me, feels nothing for me, I gotta wake up to reality that it’s done and get on with it but im really struggling coz that’s obvs not what I want!
darn… sounds like he doesnt want to talk much. I feel like I should give up too. just end it. But I can’t!
No he doesn’t wanna talk lol. Hes either playing games or is being genuine. And to be honest, I’m a bit fed up with it all!