It won’t be once she sees your text…
My heart jumps every time my phone gets an alert LOL
I remember those times…I still go through it… Now is the time to move on. Before you know it she will come back. But you have to start moving on. I know it sounds weird but I’m still moving on… You have to in order to stay sane.
I’m moving on too… just not as fast as her!
@ellie96 that’s exactly what I am doing, which I think is why I’m so pained at the moment! Because in my heart and head I know that I am making the steps to move on from him, even though every bone in my body tells me not to lol. But I gotta leave him to it, maybe by the time he wants to meet I will be completely over it (hahahaha)
@Mj You’d be surprised at how much she hasn’t actually moved on!
@KD That’s exactly why it hurts. Trust me, either way it will come out in your favor. You have to start taking care or yourself and finding happiness without him.
@ellie96 absolutely. I know it won’t hurt forever, but am also prepared by the fact that it will take a while before it stops hurting, but each day is one step closer to that 
And we’ll come out stronger!
100%!!!
110%!!!
Haha infinity%!!
Just saw her snapchat, she’s on a date with the guy 
0%…
So ladies, how successful do you think the letter will be if she already getting together with the guy (that’s if she hasn’t already)?
I still think successful Mj. It’s likely to be a rebound to make herself feel better. That feeling won’t last forever!
I dont know KD…
Just the right at the end of last year she was still so into the relationship even though the problems were apparent. Like I could still feel it from her. Then she met the guy (old friend from highschool) at the club and started talking again. So yeah he could be one but I’m not so sure now.
You guys got this! No matter what! Just remember that it is not the end of the world! Yes it hurts, but it isn’t the end. Its a new beginning!
@ellie A new beginning yes, just one without her. Sucks so bad to see her happy without me. Even if I was, its just not the same without her.
@Mj: Maybe she’s doing it on purpose to get your attention. If I were on a date with someone after a break up I wouldn’t take a picture with him and and show it to everyone like that, maybe she wants to get your attention or trying to make you jealous.
I know how it feels, I keep looking at my phone and on every alert I’m jumping from my seat.
@KD1988: That’s good! , We should all move on and do things that make us happy, put the thoughts aside and stay positive, If something is supposed to happen it will happen! we only need to be patience and keep going forward.
@ellie96: I agree with KD, you should ask him his reasons for doing it and support him by lending an ear, that way he would open up to you and maybe start telling you his feelings and why he’s doing it.
How are you doing @oshi?
I thought so too but… I realized I shouldn’t read too much into it. Remember when I said the guy took a photo of her? He didn’t tag her so maybe she doesn’t want me to see it. Then again maybe she is finally posting it cause she is completely over me. Now I’m over analysing it!
@Mj: I know how hard it is, but the best thing you can do is to stop analyzing her behavior. I’m keep doing it myself and it makes me feel worse. Every little thing he’s doing I keep thinking about it and asking myself if it means something, In his letter he mentioned 3 times how much it’s important for him to stay in touch with me, he said he was excited to get a letter from me and read it, but after all this he’s not even trying to keep in touch, he keeps liking every post on my facebook but not even asking me how the exam went. Right now I think the best thing to do is to wait and see what happens, I think sending her the letter will make her feel emotional so maybe it’s a good idea, or maybe if you feel not ready you should wait some more to see how things are going and then decide what to do. The message you sent her was good keep trying and stay cool.