Oh yeah they’re definitely looking for something ‘more’. It’s the typical grass is greener syndrome!
My ex has told me he just wants to focus on his career (he’s in the military - hence him living away during the week) and live the single life! I’m hoping he has realised in the last month that maybe being without me isn’t as good as he thought it would be! Or maybe he’s enjoying it… I don’t know! But we were together for 6 years so you’d like to think he’s missing me! I don’t know… I’m so confused!
There is no way they aren’t missing you. They will just trying not to show it or act on it! We deal with things so much better even if it doesn’t feel like
It right now
Girls I’m not an expert at all 
lol I have just read about the sign’s characteristics after the break ups for myself to get to know and understand him better maybe…so I thought it might be interesting for you to read about them too which may help you a little
6 years! He must be something else other than human if he is not missing you, sorry if it was too much but its what its…well if they are meant to be together with us then they will realize and come back, if not (which I dont even want to think about) life goes on 
I really hope he does as that’s what’s Gonna bring him back 
sorry I’m being really whingey! Just feeling that way out tonight…
Don’t worry @malinda I wasn’t expecting you to be! Just started thinking again that’s all! I think that’s my problem! I wish I could turn my brain off… Haha!
@KD1988 ‘’ Gemini runs circles around the bull, who ambles slowly down the beaten path. It’s really hilarious. Gemini will relive every moment of their courtship telling her sister and her best friend (at least) so she doesn’t get too bored waiting for him to make the next move. One thing is for sure. Whatever he does or says, he means it, to the ends of the earth. When It’s Over: it’s over when Gemini spends too much of Taurus’ money or too much time with friends. ‘’ 
Haha don’t know if that sounds like me at all! Lol. The meaning things to the end of the earth is true lol
@pineappleblue I hear ya! and what is your zodiac sign @KD1988 well I just looked up on the internet haha do you know any Scorpio guys around ?
Your right! Life must go on… There are no other choices! But you can bet your bottom dollar that if he doesn’t come back I am gonna make myself so bloody awesome he will regret it for the rest of his life!! 
This is what I love to hear!! Positivity! Think positive things and positive things will happen
@malinda not sure that I do! Should I meet one? Lol
Lol yea maybe why not! but be careful Scorpios seem so nice and attractive at first then you will get to see their sting, very dangerous! Well I was asking to get some observations from you since my ex is a Scorpio @KD1988
Yeah I’m sure you will be @pineappleblue and I will do the same!! And blody awesome sounds dmn great!
I was feeling miserable and crying from time to time during this NC period, now I feel better a little and feeling encouraged thanks to you and I hope it will continue this way…right after saying these this thought popped up on my head that what if I see him with someone else :S
Try not to think about that! Anyone who he is with now would be a rebound… Nothing to worry about!
I’m a Capricorn let me know what I’m like ha!
I did used to go out with a Scorpio once. He was lovely but switched and I deffo saw his sting!!
@malinda like @pineappleblue says its not even worth thinking about! Would be a rebound!
@pineappleblue my cousin and my aunt whos a year younger than me are Capricorns and they are the ones whom I get along with well most, they are cool and awesome to me! Well I still cant help with not thinking about such things @KD1988 and I do really think I have no chance on getting him back but still I will be fine hopefully, maybe even bloody awesome too as @pineappleblue said
This was my first time with a Scorpio guy, and I have never ever looked up for zodiac signs before him, yes hes kinda switched too and manipulator
Hey one thing, Capricorns are very stubborn and they can beat up people with it 
I’m on day 13, I have no chance but still counting anyway haha…what about you girls ?
Mine hasn’t been ages lol. My ex was contacting me a little bit in nc. I wrote him a letter after about 3 weeks, it went down well, you know the story. I’m back to nc again now since I got his letter back. So that’s only a few days. But I’m not going to instigate anything, I don’t want to risk pushing him further away!