That sounds really great, well done you! I’m glad you are feeling stronger! It sounds like your doing the right thing, keep it up!
Thanks, i do feel strong, and i know that he cares otherwise he wouldnt have acted the way he did, i just worry that maybe i’m clinging onto false hope. I really hope i am not but there is always that seed of doubt.
I had a dream of the breakup again last night, but for some reason it was in my office (wtf?!) and i was crying and begging and holding onto him to stop him from leaving, which is the complete opposite of what i did. I actually woke up crying it was that vivid. Not sure what that means?
I get what you mean about clinging onto the false hope. I think we all probably feel like that. In a weak moment I tend to think “WTF am I doing, it’s DONE” but then I think, well even if that was the case, I would still be doing the same things anyway. It just makes me feel a bit better lol.
ahhh I HATE dreams like that. You’re head just plays mind games on you so much doesn’t it. I have it all the time, except mine are normally about my ex coming over to mine with flowers, apologising for breaking it off and asking me to give it another go. In my dreams… literally lol
I feel stong at the moment, but I have to keep going over things in my head and petty much forcing myself to think positively, it’s hard!
I dunno what the dream means… The subconscious is a strange thing. But just from what you’ve said it just sounds like you don’t want to let him go!
I had an odd dream last night… In the dream I remembered that there was one connection that my ex and I still had, some way of talking. I think it was shaped like two white plastic electric hair curlers connected by a white cable… The dream was so vivid that I actually woke up and looked around my room trying to find it.
If you can interpret that nonsense I’d be surprised haha
@Annakis I’m the same. I have weak moments and I literally have to sit there and talk to myself. I tell myself to snap out of it, everything will be and IS fine, and then I do something to take my mind off it.
That is one weird dream lol. Maybe that was your subconscious talking to you trying to figure out a way of communicating with your ex
Wow, last night was one funky night for dreams. Yours sounds really deep. Have you tried looking on a dream dictionary for the vaguest connection, it might just answer it all.
When we first split up i had a dream about a nuclear bomb and a bomb shelter. I have never ever dreamt about anything like that before but when i looked it up it said that i felt something that meant everything to me was coming to an end and the bomb shelter was that i was trying to protect myself from my emotions. It was all so true it was creepy. I definitely think dreams are wonderful insights into our subconscious.
I definitely don’t want to let him go. I guess ill have a better idea come monday when i send the text… either way! I’m feeling so impatient but nervous to get to Monday now though haha!
As much as I HATE the dreams I have about my ex, I do like how the subconscious works. I have had plenty of weird dreams. A lot of mine involve someone breaking into my house, and my ex stands there and watches and just walks away from me. I’m crying and scared and he looks at me, says sorry, then walks off and leaves me there. They are so real sometimes I actually think people are in my house lol. Hence I don’t get much sleep!!
I know how you feel hun, Monday will come round quickly!
@KD1988 Have you looked at that on the dream dictionary? I just search for being robbed and this is what comes up:
“To dream that you have been robbed indicates that you are experiencing an identity crisis or are suffering from some sort of loss in your life. Alternatively, the dream means that someone has stolen your success or has taken credit for something you did. Perhaps you feel that you have been treated unfairly.”
The fact you see your ex stajnding and watching and then leaving probably means you feel he’s abandoning you when you need him the most.
Not a dream expert, just a thought! They all ring so true!
@KD1988@pineappleblue what are your ex’s zodiac signs ? I started to become interested in zodiac signs after the break ups, his sign is scorpio and he just fits right in
They really do don’t they!! Yeah that makes perfect sense. I’ve lost someone very important to me (my ex) and he left me when I needed him the most. I don’t blame him for leaving, because he did the right thing, but I did feel abandoned after he said he would never give up on me, and that’s exactly what he did!
Taurus, they are best known with their stubbornness I think, I dont know much about it actually but I started reading their characteristics and told myself why havent I read those all before because his behaviors just fits in with it. You know your lover but when you get to see them in big picture with reading their characteristics, you realize things better @KD1988
@Malinda yeah I like horoscopes. Stubborness sounds about right lol. He is VERY stubborn. Even if he knows he is wrong. I think that’s what is happening at the moment. Here is my theory: He thought I was going to end it, he begged and pleaded not to and suggested going on a break, I agreed. Next day he ends it because he thinks that’s what I was going to do all along. It’s his pride. He now feels he can’t go back on his decision now he made it because he will appear weak (and is too stubborn) so is trying to convince himself he’s right. Which he isn’t lol
It’s interesting @kd1988 coz I feel like stubbornness and pride are all in my situation too! I figured even if he thinks he’s made a mistake he won’t admit it to anyone coz he’s too proud!
It will be interesting to see what @malinda says about Saggi’s.
@pineappleblue it says that; Sagittarius natives can be over-confident. They tend to believe that they can do no wrong, and thus actually end up making many mistakes.
Its also about men thing, they are very simple in fact and I think when you push them hard invisibly without them realizing with your confidence then most probably they will be caught bad but there is a very fine point for us to achieve it
He never used to be over confident! In fact he wasn’t confident really at all when we met… He always said I made him feel like the most incredible person in the world which made him confident! Back down to him telling me I made him the man he is today why is that not enough eh?
He’s very confident now, or was towards the end (I couldn’t tell you about now as I don’t know the effects of being without me to pump him up), probably a little over confident! I always used to joke about him being a big head!
@malinda I am a Gemini, what does it say about me? Lol.
Pride and stubbornness are so annoying!! Coz they are willing to lose things Over just a simple thing such as accepting maybe the decision they made could be rectified!
Its the same with me, I made him all confident now and hes leaving me behind without looking back once, hes leaving the country I feel as if he used me during his time here and he is finished with me I feel this way because he kept trying to contact me during our break ups before but now no any contact for 13 days… hes soon going abroad and he doesnt need me no more and hes so excited for his new life. They are looking for new challenges and options maybe
why is that not enough eh?