remember if she is thats her rebound
She’s testing me by listening to stupid music, favoriting stupid things on twitter to seem like she’s moving on? That’s my test? If she gets in a relationship with someone else then it’s 100% over. She doesn’t trust guys, she said that… How the hell can she trust someone new after 1 month if she even decided to move on? I’m depressed so I probably write a lot stupid things…
This sounds maybe stupid, but can I like my friends pictures on instagram? NO GIRLS, only the boys pictures? I want to show her that I’m doing fine socially, but not contacting any of my friends or liking their pictures on instagram probably shows her that I’m weak and not capable of changing myself?
But are you doing fine socially? I dont know if this no contact thing will work… i hope it will for my sake but this is the first time i’ve tried it…
I don’t think you understand what I’m saying… Yes, actually I am doing fine socially, I got friends etc and I’m starting to be more outside. And I want to show her that I do have a freaking life… I haven’t posted anything on snap or instagram, but I just liked a buddies instagram picture and that can’t be bad. I can’t just go complete radio silence with my friends too, it’s her I’m doing NC on, not my friends… I must be able to comment my buddys instagram pictures etc
Yeah, I think that’s fine… just dont do things on social media to get her attention.
It could also be the complete opposit. She may want you to contact her to show that you still care and that you’re fighting for her. If it was me, I’d get pushed away with no contact but for some people it works…
But you saw and read the letter didn’t you? And you know the whole story… I told her to contact me when SHE was ready… I’m giving her time and peace as she asked for…
Omg I’m reading old texts on facebook from 24 august until 30 august, everything was normal… It’s so weird… God I’m a douche, I need to win her back no matter what!
Yes, that’s also true. I’m sorry, I’m such a mess right now I don’t what to say. The no contact is probably the best
Same here with my ex. Everything was until that same day he brok it off… Fuck my life
Do you really think its best i give my ex time?
Honestly, I’m not sure cassie… Neither with your or my situation… My girlfriend seems to be absolutely BROKEN… I look at the old texts and I can see I was a complete douche… I need to gain her back…
Yes, i think we both want them back… I wish i could see into the future. Glad I dont have my phone back yet or i would for sure have called him.
I’m contacting her after 2-3 weeks. NOTHING MORE THAN THAT. She’s hurt, I need to make her happy again and realize she’s the one for me and that I’m there for her. Honestly, cassie, send me your e-mail and I’ll show you the facebook conversations, and tell me if I’m wrong! But she loves me, I can see that!
calm down, remember how I was yesterday and you guys helped me through,it will be okay. @clear don’t stalk her, your only hurting yourself. look at yourself atm your a big mess, poor you. calm down and do the music thing you told me about. I understand she told you that but if she did then shes probably not serious about the guy to start of with then because how can you go from not trusting to trusting, in order for that you must really get to know a person. calm down for now. your doing great. 
@ cassie you can do this,
oh my your both a mess today. this is awful. calm down and I think you both have a chance at getting them back, at least you guys arent in divorce stage so you got this. @clear you can like your friends pics its fine. if you feel you can contact her then and dont want to wait then go ahead, just be careful how you approach things from there on. @cassie you still have a chance, don’t quit you got this. both of you do. now as for me, I may never get him back and this kills me inside. I miss him so bad, I wish it was a nightmare I woke up from. what do ya think?