But whenever I even do NC for even two days she blows me up and asks me how I’m doing and tells me about her problems
Do a 2 week NC, work on yourself and change your style (cloth and haircut) contact her,get to call her set up a date in the day and try to make go late at night! Have sex and go for brakefest and ask her where you are!
But she told me she will have her decision on if she’s willing to give me another chance on Sunday she just needs to think?
I just hate the fact that she keeps saying “even if we don’t get back together” that’s freaking me out the most!
Dont be freaked out! Be confidant pull yourself together be the men she needs you too be! And if its over act like if you dont care and like if you knew it was coming!
I’ll try man it’s so hard to just let your loved one go
Its not letting go, its supporting her decision! See when you love you support for better or for worse! And trust me she will sooner or later realise how good you were and how dumb she was if she leaves you but until then keep on with convos and stay friendly!
Until her decision*
If her answer is no I would advise you start no contact for good. That way she won’t have you as second option anymore. After that no contact you might start trying to be friends if nothing else works. But really, as someone said here who got their ex back, man up. Be confident. Make a list of all your qualities, everything she likes about you, your best moments. Look your best. And she will think twice before saying no to you
Okay so me and her kind of hungout lastnight! We were all over eachother and she secretly kissed me cause her bestfriend was right there! She said all of her wants me back but she’s scared that something will go wrong in the relationship and will just walk out! But we had a good time and laughed and just had fun! What do you guys think? Do you think we will get back together?
Hi shelden. That’s good news, try and play it cool as not to scare her off and if you get another chance make the best of it.
I’m going to make the best of it!
I just hope I get another chance man!
I feel like it’s really over now
whats really over? you and her? i thought u just said she was all over you!?
shelden man… u need to stop overthinking this! the words all of her wants you back came outta her mouth! that means she REALLy wants you! she may have some problems you’ll have to figure out, BUT she wants to make it work! thats a GREAT thing for you if u want it! don’t doubt man… the more confident you are, the more attracted shell be to you~
“Why am I still around”
“Shelden stop?”
“What?”
"Why do you say that shit. Talk to me when your done "
“I’m saying like you are happy without me and everything so why am I still around bothering you?”
“Okay bye, you done set me off”
“I’m sorry caitlin it’s just how I feel”
“Ok”
“Stop?”
"No it’s ridiculous "
“What is?”
"The way you act "
“You can never just be happy the way things are. Like I opened up to even try things and you can’t even appreciate that”
"I am happy? I’m glad to have you in my life caitlin? I’m giving you your space babe? I’m letting you think on things? I just feel like your still looking at the old me? But that’s not who I am anymore! I guess I’ll just leave you alone I’ve fucked up enough
That was our conversation
I’m screwed aint I
maybe… let her cool off if she loves you like she claims its not over. Thats something REALLY petty to be over someone for. and if she’s over you because of that then she’s honestly not worth youur time. Because your relationship will never work if she can’t appreciate you man. Also if she comeback (which i think she will) you gotta not sound so desperate. You’ve given her all the power again! look at your last message. calling her babe when you’re not even back yet, and telling her how you’ve fucked up. It looks desperate man! can’t be doing that if you want her back ya know!?
her saying done you set my off is super immature too. Let her be for now. I think shell comeback. But u need to not act desperate like i mentioned because she smells blood and she’s ready to pounce. and that can’t be the way ur relationship works! or else she’s gonna treat you the same way or worse throughout the relationship until she understands u have respect for yourself