If she does come back, I cant tell you what you should do. I know youre looking for someone to tell you exactly how o fix this and there is no way to magically fix the problems. When/if she does return thats up to how youre feeling at the time.
Last night i broke my NC rule and texted her that i have accepted her decision to breakup the relationship and am moving on. After that my gf replied me immediately asking about my life my health and asked me to invite her if am getting married with 4 messages but again am stuck to NCR and didnt reply at all but does that mean she still love me and has feelings for me or it was just normal behave. But ya her measages made me stronger to be on NC.Also she has unblocked me on whatsapp showing her smilimg pic but i didnt ask her why or why not she unblocked me not to show i noticed that and she is not in my contact list to see my status and updates
Again she sent me a text asking me to stop sending her messages n she isnt interested to know more about me but i didnt reapond her since last night is she trying to talk to me either ways
So you she replied to you asking about your life, than told you not to text her? She sk confusing, you need to just stop contacting her.
Yea i sent the first mag n she replied immediately then after 3 hrs second and third message and more than 14 hrs later she stopped me you are right she is still confused or may be biased with some other guy i havent replied anything till now and not going to even. And ya she has unblocked me completely whatsapp fb all my numbers as well. Just stick with NC again hope for best
Almost 8th day of NC feeling broken n alone need my love back want to cry out loud as not able to stop my tears and no one to explain my pain just want to kill myself
Do you have any close family members or a best friend to whom you can turn for for emotional support? I feel you need to reach out to someone (apart from this woman).
I feel she is behaving erratically with you and thus stirring your emotions further. I know, it’s easy to say but it’s pointless to obsess over someone who really does not deserve you at all - I take that from your posts. Sorry for being harsh, but I cannot see here a single evidence that she has love for you; no way! when someone loves, he/she behaves totally different from how she acts towards you. So be kind to yourself and save yourself further heartache. I sincerely doubt she could ever sustain a long-term relationship with you.
At this moment you are so vulnerable and hurting and your self-esteem is pretty low.At this point you think she is the only woman on planet Earth for you. It’s understandable, we all on this board have been in your position. But it’s up to you to decide if this is the life you want to live in the future (chasing after her each time she throws a bone at you and putting your heart on the line whenever she decides on a whim to unblock you again for a day or two) OR you want to start making some changes to a better self - someone who can get out of a toxic relationship with someone abusive and who can re-build his strength of mind, confidence and optimism.
In the end it’s your call but I would suggest you take time out and think of all these things deeply. You would be surprised with the outcome.
Thanks a lot Laura whole evening I was alone and cried prayed for her. I wasnt able to face my parents so came home bit late coz dont want to cry in front of them.But yaa writing here my feelings openly then crying a lot and just saw your reply. All things questioned me that am I so poor that dying for someone and she’s playing with me all the time almost a month passed for breakup and she’s still on and not feeling shame on her acts and showing me attitude.
You are right its not going to be a long term relationship at all or again I will need to chase her and beg her to keep the love alive.
Sent her last messages that she’s not the last one for me on the earth and God will punish her whatever she has done with me hurted me deeply, I will try to change my mindset may be will take a break from my daily life. But promise everyone here even she try to come back now my doors are closed forever.
Going to sleep friends tomorrow will be a new day new life I promise everyone I am not going to chase her anymore nor am going to cry. Thanks for all your support guys wish u all d best and will pray no one cheat you neither u cheat like this after all it hurts a lot…My sincere thanks and wishes to Leogirl and Laura who always supported me and guided me be there lots of people need U…Love VK
You sound so much positive now! I’m sure you can do this! Best of luck!
Its all because of you and leogirl as well I never met you else I owe a credit to bring my faith in me back as I was alone and not able to express my true feelings to anyone and no one was there to support me and understand my pain.Today i woke up with full of energy and no regrets I messages her she is not the last one and stopped her not to reply me nor to expect I will reply and blocked her eveywhere.till now I was giving her the control but now enough she cant control me whether i have to be happy ir sad its by God and then by me now wont give any control to anyone to make me happy or hurt me. Thanks once again right from the heart fir being there and for all your support to bring me back
Hi all last day i was trying to cope up and forget everyhing but somehow i came to know for that girl kissigg madly someone else and she went wih that guy in some hotel thrice and stayed for more than 2 days there that broke me again and cried a lot like hell and was feelihg again to die why people dint realiE what they do wih hose who loved them truly feel everyone use the true love to play with but one thing am telling you either you come to know or not if you are hurtig someone you are going to be punished badly by God stop playing with someone feelings peopel please
Hey Vk
This news should actually help your emotional recovery and get over this girl for good. You see, as I wrote before, she is not worth your tears and pain. It will take you some time to regain your peace but I am sure you can do it.
Laura is right, she is not deserving of you. You can do so much better and you will find someone who cares about you more than she ever has. Stay strong!
Thanks friends but cant explain you how much it hurts when u love someone truly n deeply n you come to know you was nothing for them just to be used and cut off once you get some better option how someone can be so selfish when they say they love you
I know the feeling your talking about. I just fund out yesterday as well from my ex that he has slept with someone else and has done things so soon after our break. It utterly destroys you and you feel hopeless. But the best thing you can do now is ignore her and make your life better!
Cried whole night madly broken completely but wont allow her to come back ever in my life doesnt matter how weak I feel how helpless how lonely cant express my pain in words wish I forget her completely very soon and if this is love I dont need such a love ever in my life would love to be alone than to be hurted like this.
What she did to you in not love. And you are completely right, don’t let her come back into your life, at least not easily and not until you are completely over her. Don’t let her run your emotions, you are a very strong person and can make it though this!
Yes u r right last nigh i asked her to unblock n she did i talked to her the way she talked tonme doesnt feel that ever she loved me.if u love someone truly u never leave them like u love ur parents irrespective what they do or not u never leave them if u say now my live is over that means u never loved truly hard but the truth is that. I said what if i suicide if u r not coming with me answer was it will hurt but cant come withy me is that love no never n it cant be ppl if someone leave u saying now love is over then they never loved u keep it n accept it hard to accept n hardest to live with this pain that the person to whom u loved truly never ever loved u just fake show off
Over a week passed and i think she is over with me now i didnt block her anywhr nor u tried to contact her but she didnt turn up anywhere now trying to move on it hurts a lot at times but cant be with her coz last time she said to me even if she slept with another guy thats none of my business she accepted she was talking to that guy past 6 months n never told me God is wathing n such people must be punished by him badly missing a lot feeling alone but cant turn bck now ever
Two weeks paased and she messaged me from some other number saying missing me like hell and then she messaged from her number saying that message was sent by her n sorry for that. I havent replied yet should i reply or let it go on as things wont be like before coz when I was about to die she ignored me might be she only wants to know am alive or died what you say