Thank you Caz. I think we can both do this. We have both made mistakes. And if this is true love, we are due this suffering, so that we can learn from our mistakes and make them happy.
Of course we can, and I am hear anytime you need to talk, vent or having a bad day.
What doesn’t kills you makes you stronger
Likewise, Caz. We will get them back, we need faith, patience and understanding. 
We do, maybe in time we might not need them, all we can do is keep moving forward and getting back to the people we were before our ex’s.
It’s an uphill struggle but an amazing ski down
Haha, yes. Does your ex now just ignore you?
He didn’t but I asked him not to reply to me and let me get on with it.
He never responded to my messages I sent 8 days ago.
I see, probably for the best. I think if you let contact go on between both, then it could become stale. So this definitely plays to your favour.
I am finding today really hard, probably because I hears our song earlier and cannot get it out of my head now. I am so scared that the damage is too much now. I regret so much.
That’s what I’m hoping if he sees I’m not needy or desperate he will question and miss me, but I am afraid to much has happened for us to go back.
It is hard when you hear songs or when you go to places and everythibg reminds you of them, but start focusing on the good things about you,
You definitely need to stick to NC, the damage will start to repair itself, keep looking forward not back
I think it can be undone,given time,definitely. But in my case, the parents are involved and would probably disown her if she ever chose to speak with me again.
How are you feeling today?
His parents are involved aswell saying that I’m trouble.
No parents would ever disown their child and I’m sure they won’t they want her happy and I’m sure in time you will do this & prove you have changed.
I’m ok day 8 so getting a little easier. Still miss him but don’t worry about what be is doing because it eats you up.
I think they view us as damaged property maybe? People they love, but who keep hurting them due to their own problems. On a logical level they think this makes us incompatible. But inside, we know we can change.
Maybe they do because we put them through a lot of hurt but we need to work on ourselves.
The NC is working! I’m doing things for me.
I’m pleased to hear that! Keep up the good work, and keep me updated!
You too!
Remember time and patience.
Let me know how your getting on?
Will do! I have a feeling today will be a tough day.
Don’t let it be! Talk to me, get a pen and paper start writing.
Someday a are harder than others but you have got to remember you are the most important person at this time, start thinking what you would like to happen in 6 months time.
Start achieving those goals.
Ha, I will. It’s so difficult. My day will be good and I will forget, and then I will feel this emptiness. I dated so many girls afterwards and I just couldn’t find any who made me happy. I miss her so much. I just fear I have lost her forever and that this other guy will take her away 
Other girls were part of the problem too. She saw me as this playboy character, and claimed I had too many girls in the past.
That’s showing her insecurities, she was maybe a bit jealous of all the girls.
we all feel empty sometimes but what we need to do is focus on the positives of ourselves.
Still give it the full 30 days and then try the letter!
I think it needs to be more than 30 days for me. I would say beginning of March. She is back home right now, and probably misses the other guy. Jeez. We are both at the same stagem how has your day been?
Also, she has blocked me from Facebook at my urging. But I think she made another fake account to spy on me. How private to i make my profile?