If he told you he wants to see you to talk you should just wait and not text him. Then if some time passes, like a week with no contact you text him and say hey you said you wanted to talk. what about we go have a coffee this weekend?
dont go after him with texts everyday like that
My ex and I were supposed to see each others today, but before 2 hours, he called me and said that he wanted to see me to tell me that he’s sorry for everything and wants mento forgive, he said that he didn’t want to see me to get me back but the last period he felt like he’s having fun and he’s sorry, I told him that when I see him we will talk. After one hour he said that he can’t see me, I started to beg him and told him that it’s the last time I will see him or talk to him then he blocked me, I sent him like 50 messages and told him that I’m waiting for him in the place where we were supposed to meet. I know that I shouldn’t talk to him like that but I was so hurt, what should I do? I’m really hurt, it was supposed to be a perfect date, I looked so pretty, I’m sure that if he saw me he would fell in love with me again, but he didn’t give me a chance, what should I do please?
Anyone plz?
I can’t take it anymore, I can’t stop thinking about what he said and crying, our memories can’t get out of my mind, it kills me
Is there anyone who can help me plz?
Hey,
You should start no contact again. This time, at least for 2 months. Don’t end no contact until you have done everything mentioned in the checklist in the Step 4 of the 5 step plan. You are extremely needy and desperate right now. You don’t have a chance of getting him back if you remain like this. You need to do no contact and make some changes in your life and in your attitude about him. If you are able to do that, you still have a shot.
But what if he didn’t came back? Or he moved on so fast? Or he didn’t even remember me? I really do love him and miss him a lot
My ex unblocked me, does it mean anything?
I miss him so much, I wish we could talk right now, what if he didn’t talk to me again?
My ex’s birthday is after one month, actually I don’t know if I should continue no contact period more than one month , it depends, so should I wish him a happy birthday or ignore him to make him wonder if I forgot?
Any advice plz?
I’m sorry but your being to needy. All its doing is pushing him farther away. I know its hard but u can’t contact him like that no matter what happened. U have to move on from it for now and take care of u. There was people telling u not to do it and u still did it. And it made things worse. Stay away from him at all costs. U can do it
I’ve stopped contacting him for 17 days , when should I talk to him again? @ericson
I’m sure he misses you deep inside, but you also have to realize that sometimes it can take a long time before people dare to face the truth, that he misses you. By contacting him again you would do more harm than good in my opinion. Kevin stated 2 months, I’d go with that until that period is over or until he contacts you, in which case you should probably update this.
I went out for NC for a good reason, but it still blew up in my face. Stay strong and try to improve your life in any way possible!
Thankyou so much it helps a lot @Mr. A.
My ex texted me at 2 am on whatsapp when I was online, he told me sleep it’s late, I didn’t reply, then he said it’s not important if you reply or not I just want you to sleep and not getting tired, I didn’t also reply, at 4 am he sent me a voice not saying in it I’m so horny can you come? And there was 2 guys also who were saying that, it really made me nervous, he thinks I’m a b*tch or what? What should I do? I didn’t answer , please any help?
I blocked him cz I knew that I won’t support and I’d talk to him , was it wrong block him? Why did he do that? Maybe because I didn’t answer? Or what he’s really weird he never did that or talked that way to me , the worst thing that there’s also two guys with him he isn’t alone
Any help plz? I’m so in a bad mood