My ex and I were in a relation for 6 months, during this perioe we broke up 2 times because of him and each time I did the 5 steps we got back together, but this time I can’t do this anymore,I’m really hurt, when he really used to want me, I decided to give him a chance, but he used to not give me a lot of his time , he said because he’s busy because of his exams. And one day, a guy texted me and said that there’s a lot of things I don’t know about ny ex, and that he’s dating another girl, I asked hin for proofs but he said that he wants us to be friends first so I refused, I immediately told my ex what happened, he said that I should ask that guy and that he knows nothing about him. And from that day, my ex didn’t reply to me anymore, I didn’t beg him or something, I just asked him where he is and didn’t text him anything else. His cousin and I are friends, so he told me that my ex’s phone doesn’t work anymore that’s why he isn’t talking to me. During this period, his cousin and I started to he very close, but we had a fight and we didn’t talk again. Then, I saw that my ex changed his display picture and status, I talked to him and told him good luck for his exams, he didn’t reply.there’s a girl who commented on my ex’s picture on instagram, in her bio she’s writing 1’1’2015 K.A. and my ex is writing in her bio 《mine》, I’m confused if she dated k.A. or my ex, also, my ex asked me to get back to him after this date (1.1 2015) , is it possible that the guy who talked to me is right and my ex is a liar? I can’t stop crying, I am such a stupid girl, and after all what he did I still care for him and love him like an idiot and can’t get over him, what should I do I’m really so tired.
Never let any third person enter into your relation. All other people interfere only to make your relationship a mess. I am experienced. My so called best friend did this to me. And besides you dont even know that person. These comments amount to nothing and he is studying for his exams. Let him be and give it some time.
Even if that was true and he is not replying to you because of that, he will eventually tell you. Wait till his exams are over and try to work on yourself. Insecure girls are never attractive, i have been one thats why i am telling you.
Trust him and ignore what that guy told you. Time will tell you the truth.
Can you take a look at my latest thread?
But it’s not logic that he has time to post pictures on his instagram account and to change his display pictures and statuses on whatsapp and not even wishing me a happy birthday right? He’s such a liar, he doesn’t care about me anymore, but the worst part that I don’t why he’s going that, we were so perfect together. Thankyou anyway, sure will
I can feel what you’re feeling. My ex too spoiled my birthday.
Go NC and see what happens. Dont look on his whatsapp and favebook account. You can even delete him from both. Just take care of yourself.
I really don’t know, I want him back and I do love him, but I feel kinda insecure, how can I trust him again after he left me 2 times for no reason? And he wasn’t walking over me, I used to have my opinion and everything, I can’t understand why he’s lying and leaving me in that way especially that I don’t show him that I need him or want him at all now
Hey,
You are not a stupid girl, as we all know that love is blind , if you ever had feelings for this guy then its very easy to understand why you didnt agree with the person who told the truth about your boyfriend. He is dating someone else thats the truth… if he didn’ t think about this at least he would have called you on your birthday. But no he didnt . He is over your girl and im sorry to say that there must be plenty of guys for you to make you happy . My suggestion for youbis to move on 6months is a short period of time . My gf ditched me for some other guy after 7years of intense relationship . I decided to move on.
But im still following the plan as i stated earlier love is blind
Actually he wished me a happy birthday from his cousin’s phone, but it is not a perfect way, you’re right thankyouu
My ex called me 4 times and asked me why I’m not answering and told me that he wants to talk to me just for 1 minute but I didn’t reply, is it right?
Yes you did the right thing… he is missing you. Let him miss you more and let him take a decision as to what he actually wants
@divjun he said that he doesn’t want us w get back together he only wants to tell me something and ends everything, it really hurts the way he’s talking to me, I didn’t answer anyway
He is acting like my ex. Dont contact him at all. He is missing you but not admitting it. If he really wanted to end everything he could have left a text and end it. He is going to contact you soon again but i would suggest you to maintain nc and work on yourself and learn to be happy without him!
My ex is calling me a lot and texting me all the day, he’s saying that it’s urgent and that I have to answer and that he wants to tell me something , please anyhelp? Should I answer? @divjun
dont answer, seriously… if he misses you let him miss you more. show him u are independent and that you are okay with him or without him. if it was that urgent he would already text you about the thing he wants to tell you, i think. so, dont answer…
what u think of my case, i could use some advice now, he stillis distant and cold… but at least he doesnt act like i dont exist anymore.
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/re-we-talked-and-hanged-out-after-3-months-of-nc-and-him-ignoring-me/
I totally agree with tami. Dont do anything.
He asked me if we can go out this Saturday cause he finished his exams should I accept or no? @divjun
Did you already break nc?
Nope I started non contact period since he wasn’t answering to my texts so at 7 February during my birthday, he’a texting me and calling me all the day and night but I’m not answering , now he asked me if we can go out this saturday but I don’t feel like seeing him this week, I mean I really miss him and want him back but I’m scared that he would leave me again and again if he saw that I’m always for him. When should I answer to his calls and ask him to go out? @divjun
In my opinion, you shouldn’t even talk to him right now. He is missing you and may be he is throwing a bait towards you so thay you ll talk to him.
He knows you wont say no if he asked you out.
Keep what you are doing and continue with nc!
Thankyou so muchh @divjun
I replied to my ex and called him, I asked him what does he want, he said that he needs to see me to tell me something, I tried to know what he wants but he said that he won’t say anything before seeing me. We talked all night , the second day he didn’t text me, the third day he said hi, I replied, he didn’t talk again. Should I talk to him and tell him that I wanna see him this Saturday? What should I do please?