Does anyone know how long the email series last? I haven’t received one in 3 days. The last one I got was about how to use fb to your advantage. I really look forward to the emails as it helps me go through my day knowing that things will be ok
Yeah me too! the last one was about using fb part 2.
Actually is not the first time that these e-mails take a break…but well I hope the’ll continue
Yeah, I’ve made them my daily inspiration, when I don’t get them my day feels a little off haha.
I sure hope this isn’t the end of them though
How long has it been since you got that last email?
for me…the last one was on the 5th…so not that long =D
Hey me too! Haha. I wonder if we enrolled around the same time or maybe it’s just the way it’s programmed or something. I enrolled about a month ago though
ahahah same!
uhm still nothing…I usually have them by 8:30 pm…but nothing oday either
Same here nothing! I hope that wasn’t the end if them
yeah me too…they really helped a lot during the darkest days!. Especially when I felt hopless and didn’t write anything on this site.
Now I always look forward to them and I feel so good when they talk about something that I’ve figured out by myself,they make me feel like I’m on the right track!.
I hope theres more.
I didn’t get mine yesterday on the 06/07/14 where it was meant to tell me something special about my self. Made me sad man. They have been REALLY helpful actually and combining them with Rewind, I am just waiting to get to writing the letter, my ex loves hand written letters and in all those 5 years, I never sent her one : /
Dezzen,
I’ve never tried that rewind, do you recommended it? What can you tell me about it? What are some good tips you’ve got from it?
What a few people have done is mixed that with the advice from this website and i think combined you’re going to end up in a much better place regardless.
It is three steps broken down into four stages of the relationship during breakup, Bliss, Switch, Drift and deaths Doors, it runs through what to do at each stage, so if you’re in Bliss the best part, it will tell you how to keep it there or even how to improve it and tells you how to get from Death’s Door to and earlier stage or even back to Bliss.
If you look around you can find free samples of it on the web which I found useful as well. It tells you what to say, how to act and how to best go about making her/him feel close to you again. I wouldn’t call it a miracal book or anything and I frankly find Kevin a better choice for all this and the people on this site but if you can, it is good to try and find a preview you so you get a better idea and see if it’s for you.
Best tip I got so far was how to treat her like any other friend aespecially in groups and how it should effect her as she would of been used to years of me treating her special or paying extra attention to her. It seems simple looking at it now but in break up mode all I wanted to do was plead and beg and hope it worked. So all of this stuff is just something new and better to try and it does involve putting a lot of faith in these techniques
Thanks, I checked it out! It’s pretty helpful. Defiantly good combination with what we get here.
Guys I finally got the next email! Hope you guys got it too.
The email he sent me talked about your the way you smell and how that can impact your ex. It’s true when my ex and I broke up, we meet up not too long after I was wearing cologn and she hugged me and smelled me told me I smelled good. She opened up and told me she missed me. We ended up kissing for a while. So thanks Kevin for the emails again!
Ahahaha! I was thinking that! I have an aftershave I used to use for the first 2 years we were dating and in bliss, I stopped wearing it because i got new ones but i just ordered a new bottle for after NC ends thinking that it would be a good trigger.
Yes i got my e-mail today as well about not giving up, big help I’m looking forward to the rest
Yes!! Glad to know we got our triggers down. I see it as a secret weapon haha.
Dezzen, if you don’t mind me asking, when is NC over for you? Mine is coming up soon, next week. Hating the anxiety I’m getting.
i got to day 6 and broke it but Im back on track so it’s still a ways off for me I can’t imagine the pressure frankly, just act confident and that you’re happy without her and that you’re all new! LA 2.0
Ok the last e-mail I got today was about triggers n°2 =).
this one was more important to me because the one about perfume ecc ugh didn’t get me especially because I never wear the same ones too long,I always change them.
But this one about the clothes and your imagine …wow…this gave me confidence!
I’m feeling so attractive right now , ahahah the ego is really really big. I’m still tan from vacation, I hitted the gym and go running like everyday,I eat so well that I lost so much weight but I’m still toned.
The only problem is to create the occasion to let him see … ugh
Geulia,
That’s great! That’s the key to show your ex you’ve changed. I’m in that same place right now! I know exactly what you mean. I’v ready made changes in my life. I’m a new person. LA 2.0. But how can I show my ex this?! I know Kevin lays out a plan for us but it’s easier being said than done. That’s what I’m anxious about. Once I contact my ex how will she react? I have a feeling she wants to forget about me and therefore wond reply or respond to any to anything. And if she does that there’s no way I can asker out and have her see herself what a change I’ve done.
I didn’t receved my e-mail yesterday
LA:
hey ! I recently finished my NCP and I finally contacted him. We actually went out with everyone in group and everything was great! I think I’ve already leave a different impression on him and also our friends, a sort of great and positive halo and we had so much fun .
It’s a bit long to write on this becasue is not the right post but if you go on my last post you could read what I’ve done if you need ideas