Aww it’s so nice to see how all you’ve changed!!! I’m so happy for you, LA 2.0 and Giulia 2.0!!!
So happy so see everyone here is on the right track!!
Aww it’s so nice to see how all you’ve changed!!! I’m so happy for you, LA 2.0 and Giulia 2.0!!!
So happy so see everyone here is on the right track!!
Hey Giulia,
Id love to to read your story. Please if you can add a link to it so I can see.
LA
yes! sorry I forgot that!
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/my-evil-plan-more-like-what-i-did-in-nc-and-what-ill-do-to-have-him-back/
Does anyone know how long will Kevin’s email series last?
They have been very, very helpful and I really need that dose of inspiration every day!
Hi I don’t know you, but I find them one day yes, and one day no.
My last one was about the post break up competition.
Hi Giulia!
How are you doing?
HEY!
I’m actually feeling great!..still love my ex and I still didn’t give up on our chances, but…man I feel great about myself.
ahahhah the old sad and pitiful me?..pfff in the garbage ahahah
I’ve never felt like this before, and I think my ex is starting to see that, I just need more chances for him to see that this me is permanent and that I’ll never become like before.
I’ve learnt so much from this site and from relationship rewind about my past relationship with him that I think I could make the relationship in the Bliss stage forever , even if not with him.
for the rest I’m just studing,working out,talking to my friends,and waiting for all the occasion to go out all together. I even asked my ex to go see a movie we both like, he couldn’t that night because he needed to study for an near exam, but he didn’t say not ever, so I’m hoping that he’ll ask me when he can.
So in general I’m great!.
how about you? =)
Giulia,
That’s awesome! Love your attitude! I totally agree. This website and Rewind opened my eyes. Wish I would have stumbled on these a little earlier and maybe I would have saved my relathionship.
It sounds like you’re in a good place right now even with your ex. You may not have him yet but you’re getting there. Honestly after everything that’s happened to me I’ve realized that whether I get my get my ex back or move on. It’s going to take time, no matter what.
I’m doing well too. Seriously! A couple weeks ago I was super needy and sad. But I’ve worked on myself and now look at me! I have a positive attitude and I may be starting a new job soon! New beginning for me.
As for my ex. I ended no contact with her. Sent the letter. Couple days later I run into her! I say hi and we talk for a while catching up. Sadly, the time I talked to her I thought id feel love for her again…but I didn’t. I still care for her but I realized that I no longer want her back. We text for a little bit too but yeah things arnt the same. We both have changed and are no longer compatible.
I’m okay with it. Now I’m working on moving on and anything I learn here I will use in my next relationship!
that was one of my fears!
But after ending NC , I understand that I still want him in my life as a patner not just as a friend. I’ve grown up and I know that if he gives me the chance we’ll have an awesome relationship …I just have to come to that talk ahhahaha
Good for you!
Seriously, that talk is probably the hardest part.Don’t worry the right time will come for it. Don’t rush it. I wish you the best!
I didn’t get yesterday’s e-mail of the series. The last one I got is “I like you ”. Since I don’t think the series was this short, and the FAQ says I’m supposed to get an e-mail every day, I have a reason to believe it’s a technical problem. The e-mail didn’t even reach my SMTP servers, which suggests the problem is not on my side.
I also missed a forum reply notification e-mail (if it’s ever been sent by the engine), though those used to come from different servers than the e-mail series, so probably there is no connection between these.
Hey Torma,
There is a gap of one day after that email. Sorry for the confusion and thanks for reading the FAQ and pointing out that it mentions an email every day. I’ve edited it now.
There are a few gaps and with time time, the gaps between the emails slowly increase. After about 30 emails, the emails will come after every 3-4 days. The reason for doing so is because most people are in a much stable state of mind after a month and they don’t appreciate getting an email every day. These gap days are to slowly taper off from daily emails to an email every 3-4 days.
The forum reply notification might have landed in your spam box though.
Guys if you don’t get an email, it doesn’t mean you missed it. It was probably a gap day. If you are worried, check your spam/junk mail folder. If it isn’t there, then it was a gap day and you shouldn’t worry about it.
Kevin, hopeing to catch you here. The last e-mail i got was number 31 and it’s been 11 days now and i still have not gotten any. Is it a mistake or something? I know you Said 3-4 days but 11 is a lot of days. I check my mail both normal and spam but Nothing.
Yeah the last time I got an email was in November titled “I just heard from my ex [and it was not what I expected]”. I am sure I got all the emails at this point. I feel much more stable since but not going to lie, it would be nice getting advice even now.