My ex (omg it still hurts to call him “ex”) told me that he needed a break last Monday, and we officially broke up (ok hurts one more time here) last Thursday. I couldn’t eat or sleep or study during the whole last week while I have a super, super important exam on next Monday (I don’t blame him tho, I know this is hard for him too). I kept being good and bad, kept switching from positive and negative, I am currently sort of positive but who knows what I’ll be in moments…
Anyway, just want you to know that I understand you A LOT. And I know this is so hard but bettering myself is a MUST do. I keep visualizing that time I talk to him is “I passed XXX!” (He knows that is a hard exam, especially after we just broke up…) That must be a plus so I just keep working hard!
And today I’m not feeling horrible, although I still couldn’t really eat… I have lost 8 pounds since last week and every one says I’m skinnier, which may be actually a good thing haha
You know I’m not a native speaker so please don’t be mad at my grammar mistakes or something… Just wanna let you know that I understand you so much and I’m sure it will get better.
A. Z.
You know eversince I can see the closeness you have with Dara. And I would like to tease you before a long, long time ago since we started here but I am afraid you’ll get mad. But with you taking the initiative to say the dating thing with Dara, invite us on the wedding! Lol
Wow. I like the retirement home dream, Steve. And it makes me laugh that when we are old you still foresee Dara chasing girls!
And with Rihanna’s comment that being religious saved her from having random sex with some Daras. Ha ha ha!
Festival David, hey are you touring the whole world? Lol.
Rihanna is so quiet today. Aaargh!
Sunshine,
Hi! I think you meant Raed when you said Read, right? Ha ha! Okay. I will check your post! I hope I can find it though!
Hey, you are always welcome! Not what you think. No girls are lining up. Lol. I am trying to improve myself and I would like to do it in solitude so I guess staying single for a while is better. I’ve got lots of plans already with myself and I have never been this thrilled and excited!
So I might ask the girls to get home tonight and I’ll just ask them to line up outside my room when I feel ready. Lol!
Raed,
LOL,Dara is already sick of mind games,he can’t tolerate one more mind game player :))))))) now our ex back website is turning to a dating website??? :))))
LOve you everyone
OMG you guys make me laugh so hard every time I log in! You’re all amazing! The retirement home sounds like it may end up having different wings for people as they come considering how popular this site is getting!
FestivalDavid- I’m so excited to hear about your euro trip! that would be an amazing thing to go and do, maybe one day for me.
sunshinegirl- I actually failed a big exam because my ex left me less than a week before it came up. I was a wreck, couldn’t study or think. I’m glad to hear that you’re feeling better though! I’ve gotten to the same place with it. We deserve to keep our lives going forward in a positive direction!.
Joe- I had a seriously hard time not checking in on him as well… It’s insanely difficult but I’ve been very very good with it lately. The longer you stop yourself from doing it, the better you feel though! It’s worth it to keep that cut out.
Im not touring the whole world just yet…but I do have some more places to tick off this year and then next year who knows
I am from UK remember, so Euro isnt that far me unlike some of you
But yes Im very looking forward to the trip and tbh, as much as I still like my ex etc Ive just been doing so much over the past month etc One of the girls I met on my last holiday want to come to England in the next few weeks and I even got an offer to go to canada at anytime I want from another girl…so who knows where I will be soon
Oh and the best thing…Ill be having my bday whilst im on my Euro trip haha
I know what you both mean about the luck of the ex’s both my ex’s are now settled with kids and happy…both after me ha
P.S Ill come to America for the wedding of Dara and a.z hahaha
Festival Dave is here and so envious of all the trips you have done this year. That’s one thing I haven’t done this year is take a decent holiday somewhere. I went over to South East Asia last year for 5 weeks and had a fabulous time, I got back and was sick for nearly a month. So I went into negative leave with my work. No holidays this year
Sunshinegirl - Love the name, its just so happy. Don’t worry if your not a native speaker here. Welcome to our crazy thread. I hope you know how to knit, play checkers and can race a walking frame. I know the feeling of being up one day and down the next. That describes me in a nutshell. I have good days and bad days. More bad if I was to be honest. At least I am sleeping better. The first month was horrible for getting a decent night sleep.
Haha… Ok so if this is a new dating website then I will start with my profile
“Single male with major emotional issues looking for a female. I love to cry while thinking about my Ex, listen to sloppy love songs, daydream about getting back with my Ex, drink wine and think about my Ex and oh yeah I can actually cook an amazing Lasagna.” Ladies I expect to see my inbox fill with all your messages tomorrow when I log on
Hello. Welcome here. I am glad the Oldies radiate such a positive vibe. I love your attitude towards NC. You may be around for quite a while but I have only seen you now.
A. Z.
Hey! I think you are the only one who can tame Dara. Ha ha! And I know there will be no mind games between the two of you because the Oldies will be your referee. Lol
Festival David
Wow. Such a traveler, man. Ha ha! I believe travels can be very helpful in healing. I wish I could travel any time I want too Send me plane tickets so that I can come to the wedding too! <3
Steve
I love your description about yourself mostly about the ex ha ha! Will it be fine if I will just have cats instead? Lol. And oh, I think we are gonna have a problem. Man, i love lasagna. Cook for meeeeee! Omg this is so gay coughs manlyflex
clears throat overly manly voice
Hi, I am Raed! 22 years young. I love foods and music. I like to overthink and end up hurting myself. I am ever curious but mostly I am dying to know but afraid to find out. I like my girl how I like my steak, well done. Still on the crossroads. And my ex left just when I needed her most and sobs and so I have truly, madly, deeply fallen in hate with her
a.z. has already commented on your thread. Moreover, the approach has been described in Kevin’s articles. I suggest you to read other links on this site including, “Frequently Asked Questions” and Kevin’s earlier responses on the main wall. believe me you will find most of your answers there!
OMG I was gone a day and I’ve missed out on so much that’s been going here hahaha… I had such a busy day, my first productive day since ice age lol…
I like how the guys put their profile… Raed hahahaha, you feel in hate with your ex? I love that lol you’re so young you’ll find a better love one that will last if she’s not interested it’s her loss :(…
Well here’s my profile:
Hi, my name is Rihanna, I’m 32 years young (young like Raed:P) and I recently propositioned my ex to put his lips on my lips, so yeah I hope all you men out there like someone who seems desperate… Apparently, and according to that text I sent, I’m easy (quite surprising to me too) but at least Dara likes crazy girls so I might meet someone like Dara and get ditched or hitched hahahahahahahaha…
I love you my oldies you keep me going and happy xxx
Oldies,
Do you guys think i have moved on? there are times that he comes to my mind but its like nothing.i feel nothing.no special thoughts about him and nothing hurts me.i ask myself what if i never see him again and it doesn’t hurt me.i think of our good memories and then our bad memories and i feel nothing.i don’t miss him and i expect nothing from him.its been more than a week and i’m feeling this way.its more like its been more than a week and i’m not feeling anything.
What do you guys think?
