Hey Raed,
“What ive learned about breakups is not owning anyone’s feeling in a sense that whatever he feels and however he reacts is a reflection of him, not of you”
Your sentence really impressed me,it seems like we are learning more and more everyday and i love it.i will always remember that from you.
Its really nice to have you here.btw i miss FestivalDavid and Edward so much.I don’t know if Edward is going to visit us here or not anymore 
And thank you so so much Raed ,OMG i feel embarrassed now LOL.i do it more for myself,i feel good when i make someone feel good.
And you oldies are the reason i’m happy in my life and i can never forget you.
I feel like we really are family <3 <3 <3
Hey a.z, thank you for your advice, I feel a lot better knowing that I haven’t acted needy or desperate, it was just a message and he can deal with it lol… I learn so much from you, thank you 
… I enjoyed reading your comment filled with encouragements, you’re the best!
Raed, Your advice is always GOLD! Yes, you’re right I agree with a.z that your quote: ‘breakups is not owning anyone’s feeling’ but I have a feeling that my message no matter how wrong would’ve made him happy or at least smile, and I laughed out loud when I read “his heart became heart shaped and he blushed” hahaha… How are you doing now? I’m sure the lovely ladies are lining up for you 
Dara, take it easy with the ladies hahaha… If you’re looking to just have sex steer away from religious girls cos you’ll get disappointed when she says: “it’s against my religion”… I used to be one of those girls and though not as much now but I like to keep a bit of those morals at least it’ll save me from having random sex with the Daras out there hahaha… Good luck finding what you’re looking for… you’re a gem!
Daniel, you seem to be doing strong so good on you (I’m bit jealous lol) but keep us updated…
Miriem, I haven’t met you but you seem close with a good friend of mine, Dara. Are you guys an item now? LOL… jj. It would be so cool if we had an online marriage with two ppl from this site though (I’m not saying you and Dara, but think about it hahahahahaha)… nice to meet you anyway
Has anyone been in touch with Festival David? I wonder how he’s been lately? I miss reading his stories, his story is one that stuck with me… What about Edward, or Steve? etc…
Anyway, always a pleasure catching up here with my Oldies, A.z I think this is the best you’ve done to keep us all oldies united… Big Love to you all xxx
a.z.,
I read some of those stories! They were touching! I did not comment because you guys had already given them the golden advice! I still admire you on commenting on those post! Great job!
RAED,
Believe me, I’ve talked to a lot of them lately but could not get in touch with any one of them really for a long term. However, I still feel good about it! Take it easy, if you see a girl go for it. After some time you will enjoy it! However, sorry for lecturing, I am sure that you are a master and just joking on us!
Rihanna,
Once upon a time, I had a religious girlfriend. She was really crazy in sex! ha ha ha… About this girl, she chose me as her partner in dancing, she asked me invite her to any occasion I went, she followed me wherever I went, she told me that we should hangout, etc. ha ha ha… I hope she is hot and crazy! LOL
Hey Raed - You finally made it over to the dark side of this website away from the comments section, great to see you active with your comments again Bud
Rihanna - I’m here. Gee I only been gone 24 hours from this website and you are missing me already, steady on girl 
A.Z I will have a look at those threads you recommended tomorrow, got late real quick today and time just flew by
BTW just to throw the thought in everyone’s head when we mention “Oldies” I have this image of everyone being 75 years old plus and we are all in some retirement home with our walking frames and wheel chairs getting up to antics. Dara is out there chasing young woman. Some of us are on medication and every now and then those young folk with relationship issues need our help, but back in our day…
Steve and Dara :),
Steve, your presence put a big smile on my face :D… I’m acting needy towards this site and you guys here since I’ve stopped my neediness towards my ex hahaha… I like your idea that we’re all old in a retirement home, you never know perhaps we are in the old home and reuniting in our dreams the way we are now lol… In this case, I think Dara’s having the best dream chasing young ladies aged only 69 hahahaha… Good for you Dara … I’m having thoughts perhaps that crazy religious girl you once dated is me lol… But sadly I’ve only had one sexual partner in my life…
Anyway, I’m glad you’re doing well the both of you … I no longer care what my ex thinks cos i think I’m AWESOME! LOL… and he’s been quiet everywhere lately… And Steve, if you missed out on the crazy stupid thing I did well here it is, I sent my ex a text saying: “I miss your lips on my lips lol… But an innocent kiss (red face)” … Feel free to judge me my friend
a.z : yes i’m good and i’m sorry me too i overreacted because i wasn’t okey at that time but it’s over now and i’m happy to have you as a friend. Raed : thank you very much Rihanna : oh my god i didn’t know that dara was a guy the name seems to me like one of a girl i’m so embarrassed cuz i thought a.z was a boy too the first time i saw her comment on my story nice to meet too. THANK YOU GUYS ALL OF YOu
Hey Guys and Girls,
Im still around
Been very busy lately going to gym, seeing friends, sorting out my euro trip which I have in less than 3 days!! haha and I havent packed or planned much at all!!
I have still been reading as much as I can but not commenting as much as looks like you all been helping each other greatly and usually when i reply, it takes me like 30 minutes to get everything out that I want to say! haha
Think before my busy weekend, there were only 2-3 pages on this thread, then I went out Fri,Sat,Sun and checked this thread on Sunday night and it was 7 pages! ha
Havent heard from my ex since she apologized for having a go at me, so that was about 4days ago. Then Im going away for 2 weeks, So I not sure if Ill have any updates to post or not
But its great to hear how you are all doing! Seems a lot of us are a lot happier recently,
Good morning oldies,i love you 
Rihanna,steve,
LOL,i’m unlucky i can’t be with you guys in our retirement home like full time.they take me to psychiatric hospital every other day :)))))))))
meriem,
Good to see you here again,hope your feeling better today.
FestivalDavid,
Keep up the good job and have fun on the trip
Awwww good luck everyone!
FestivalDavid - that’s actually good news IMO!
i’m doing great thanks a.z
Haha just saw earlier posts of Meriem… I thought Dara was a girl and a.z. was a guy too… Now I know…
Could anyone seeing this check my post and say some advice for the next? I really appreciate
ps. the good thing is I finally am able to prepare for my huge exams… Still thinking him a lot but I know bettering myself is a MUST do no matter to get back with him or have an amazing life myself
sunshinegirl : hahahaha i’m not the only one then good luck for your exams
Guys!
Things could not be as funny/irony as this:
This girl I met last weekend, was supposed to met one of her old friends who came here from California! They hadn’t met for a year!
This guy proposed this girl for marriage yesterday! She accepted it! So, no lunch together! ha ha ha ha ha… I can’t stop laughing!!! I started to believe that there are some strong forces acting against me in getting into another relationship! ha ha ha…
The good news is that I don’t need to clean my house! ha ha ha…
Dara -
That’s funny but also makes me believe that everything is possible, which helps me to stay positive!
ps, this is my post if you don’t mind sharing your thoughts a bit
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/may-seem-impossible-but-i-want-to-try-my-best-to-get-back-with-him/
sunshinegirl,
I love the name you username! There is a song that says, “sunshine in my winter, that’s what you are”. I promise you that I read your story and comments by tonight and let you know my opinion! Stay strong and best of luck!
Awww thanks a lot Dara!!! You too!
ps, I love this forum and more importantly the people here
Hey ALL!!
I had a really really rough weekend with all of this… I started thinking about her a lot. Yesterday was the worst!!! I couldn’t focus on anything… Had to stop myself several times from going to her place… I think I need therapy or something!!!
I was doing so well… This morning I woke and drove by her house at 6:30 am before I went to work!!! I broke my promise to myself…
The only bright side is that I haven’t broken NC yet… Today is 3 weeks since we last spoke… I am having such a hard time with this…
Help
Dara,
OMG,thats kinda what i say about my life :)))) most of the guys i break up with start a new life and become amazingly lucky in their lives and then find a girl and they live happily ever after its like i bring them good luck :))) and now you are doing the same.maybe we should start dating each other:)))))))))) LOL
JOE,
I’m sorry you are having a rough time and i really understand you.but you should do something about it.no matter how hard it is,stop yourself from driving to her place.you should really help yourself to become happy before you try to get her back.i know its tough and you may say “why don’t you understand me,i’m saying i can’t be happy when i’m dealing with too much pain” . but again,we understand you.3 weeks is not really too much and you need more time to deal with it.
but during this time,get yourself busy,go out and have fun,do anything you want,cut even a smallest dose of you ex.don’t look at her photos.concentrate on yourself and your plan.if you want to get her back,you should be strong,happy and confident.
Best of Luck