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meriem,
You tried to wrote a summary of your story and i really tried to make you feel better.because i thought you have said what you though was enough to conclude.
But you never heard my full story and i didn’t mean to make you sad.its not like i don’t want to hear the truth.i know the truth and i’m fine with that.but i don’t like someone to judge my story without even knowing it.and other guys here have told me the truth weather sad or not so many times and i am even happy about it.i’m sorry if i said something i shouldn’t have but i’m done with even a smallest thing that makes me sad.and we don’t need to communicate if we don’t understand each other.

i did nothing wrong i want to support her too maybe i said something that made her angry but she could just say that i was wrong why she said those hurtful things to me.yes english is not my native language is that makes may opinion less valuable than the others or what i don’t get it why she brought up this subjet .i like that girl she is the only one who comented on my story i saw her helping other people and when i knew she has a problem too i liked her even more.and i swear that i just wanted to help but she replied so harshly like it was my intention to hurt her even after i said sorry and explained.but it’s okey i’m not angry at her and i understand her.i’m sorry again a.z

I don’t hate anyone,i really wanted her to feel happy with her relationship.she is freaking me out.you tell her i’m not good in controlling my anger.its my fault.but i don’t really want to continue this.i don’t even know her.why would she want to continue this and convince me that i was wrong.i know exactly what i did.and the reasons were acceptable for me.i don’t regret it.i don’t understand what she is trying to tell me.

Meriem,
Its cool now. Ita time to stop. It was not her intention also to hurt you. She accepted your apology so dont try to emphasize what Az did wrong are made you feel awful. She also acknowledged that she might have offended you. Its okay now. This mini argument is over. Its just a misunderstanding.

Thank you Daniel x

i don’t hate you too in fact i like you’r personality and you’r attitude.i was not and i’m not triying to convince you that you’re wrong in fact i didn’t say that you’r wrong even in my first comment.i said my opinion you said you’r wrong and you don’t know me and my story i said okey i’m sorry and if you remember i said a generale idea if someone loves you he will do everything to be with you everyone knows that and everyone says that i wasn’t judging you or your story in fact i said that to make you happy and to make you feel better and also to let you know that you deserve better from what i read.but you attacked me i don’t know why.i understand you but you don’t understand me but that’s okey.i’m sorry again for freaking you out.bye

a.z & meriem,

We are here to talk about our problems. We are here to support each other. We are not here to argue with each other. I respect both of your points and believe that you both are right.

At least in my case, I should confess that I have made lots of mistakes that have made reconciliation a lot difficult. I don’t say that I had tough times as compared to some of you here.

Our point is not to highlight that we made mistakes, we all know that we did. Our point is to find the next step since we are already in this situation.

meriem, first few days are really harsh. a.z. has been through it. Reading her stories really touched me. Now she is a lot better. I believe you are new and you really have rough days now. I will be glad to read your story and see if I can comment. a.z. has also been doing a great job spending a lot of energy reading and commenting on others stories. I admire that

meriem, I also welcome you to comment here on your thoughts. Your English is awesome! I wish all the best for you.

Daniel,

It’s great to see you doing well! I like the fact that you have started dating now! If she’s not okay, lets see how’s the next! Your post up there made me happy!

Best wishes to everyone!

thank you daniel it’s okey i didn’t want her to be angry anymore that’s all

Dara,
Yep. We are here to suppoert everyone in need. Hey man you sure are good at fixing arguments haha. How you been doing? Got a new girlfriend already? Haha

Dara : thank you very much i really appreciate it and you’re welcome to comment my story anytime you want to.i don’t want to make anyone upset here i wish she could understannd,forgive and make a new start with me that all.thank you all and i’m sorry for disturbing you

meriem,
You are always welcome commenting here.sorry i was being aggressive.i really don’t want you to be sad.and it was a simple misunderstanding.i have been through terrible days and thats why i overreacted on what you said.sorry again i don’t want you to be sad. if you can forget that,i want us to be friends.are we good?

Dara,
Thank you very much,you always say whats going on in my head/heart.

Daniel,

Thanks!No big achievements yet. I got a tentative date for Monday or maybe the other day. She had toothache on Saturday we met and she has it still. I am a bit skeptic about it because she belongs to a religion in which says no sex (LOL). But when we dance we were so close and I grabbed her and swayed her but still slightly doubtful. If it doesn’t work with her, I’ll try another one! LOL I keep starting new communications until one (relationship) is fixed! LOL

I truly like that you are now in a position to act so strong! That great dude!!

meriem,

You are welcome! I will read your story by tonight! Stay strong!

a.z.,

You are welcome! You always make me feel good! It’s been our pleasure to have you among us! Thank you!

The pleasure is all mine sir :smiley:

a.z.,

If you find any story touchy or interesting or thoughtful, let us know. Thanks!

I find almost all of them interesting.but i feel a deep connection with some of them.one of them is My evil plan…more like:what i did on NC and what i’ll do to have him back by Giulia , complicated as can be need help asap. by sevensevens.
These guys are really doing their best.

And there are some of them that make me cry for the pain they are dealing with.
like,new to this by Alexmick15 and some others but i don’t know why i can’t find them.

Oldies,
There is a title i want to think there is hope by dejan .he broke NC lately,please check his thread and encourage him to restart and continue NC.he is kinda disappointed.i think he needs more help and support.

Rihanna,

Hey! As you said whatever happens, happens. If you think it is a dumb move to text him the i miss your lips on my lips but somehow it made you feel better because you were able to express what you truly feel in that moment, then don’t regret it. An emotionally strong individual is someone who can express and acknowledge how she truly feels. And it is courageous of you to admit that to him despite you being ‘just friends’ so I don’t see anything wrong. If he finds it offensive and crossing the line, it is his feelings not yours. What ive learned about breakups is not owning anyone’s feeling in a sense that whatever he feels and however he reacts is a reflection of him, not of you. Anyway, i think he might have fainted when you texted that because you said he had been affectionate lately and he might have blushed too much and his eyes became heart-shaped so he wasn’t able to reply :smiley:

Oldies.

Meriem,
You may be new here but everyone is welcome. I guess, you just don’t understand what each other is trying to say but i believe that you both have the best intentions. I am glad the dispute is over and we would love to have you as an additional friend. We just have to work out on some getting to know each other. Ha ha :slight_smile:

A. Z.
Hi, i am glad you are already at peace. It is humble of you to say sorry too. And i find you sweet to go around and cheer people up. It is a good sign, A. Z. Because the only time you have to look down on someone is when you are helping them up. In behalf, of those whom you have helped with your pieces of advice, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my hypothalamus :smiley:

Daniel & Dara,
Hey, man. The next time you date, find me a girl. No, i mean a lady. Ha ha. I am so happy you two are dating girls and doing so much good! bro fist
I think i’ll be focusing first on career then the love will come after. I am so involved now on improving myself and I am loving the me time. I have never felt this free and happy!

I would like to congratulate everyone. Looking back i am laughing at our so desperate attitude. Like, what the hell?! Are we drunk during those times?! Lol. I know we are not yet fully moved on but I am glad that our batch did so much betterrrr! It doesn’t matter because a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. And out of the brokenness emerged an unbreakable friendship. Oh, i love you guys.