see if he comes to you, if he doesnt, try to send him a text to see how he responds if he acts cool then you know what to do, if not do more no contact for a while and see where it goes from there. 
I think you still have a big chance at getting him back.
cassie how are you doing and hoes everything?
I feel like i’m on a crazy rollercoaster ride. 1 minute i believe i can get him and that he still really loves me and is just hurt and the next minute i feel like he just doesnt love me anymore and doesnt see my being part of his future. It’s really hard. I havent contacted him since our long talk and i’m not really sure that I should :S And he also hasnt contacted me :S So i’m thinking that maybe he is just slowly getting over me and doesnt need me in his life.
cassie I feel you, lol, I feel the same way. hang in there your doing great. dont loose confidence in yourself. He stills misses you. its a bumpy road yes but not an impossible one. how long have you been no contact with him? and when was the last time you contacted him?
We last talked sunday night so 4 days and before that 10 days where he contacted me twice without me calling back. I’m starting to think he’s just playing hard to get and he’s waiting for me to call/text him… It’s not something he’d usually do but i have a feeling that he keeps checking his phone to see if i’ve called or texted. I really hope I can get him back but it’s really really difficult.
you can and you will, you will see, and knowing him the way you do its funny how you know how he acts. lol. remember if hes cold your cold and if hes nice then your nice. you got this, thats the samething I was thinking that this sounds like everyone is playing mind games here, lol, this is crazy, lol
I dont think his intentions are to play mind games - if it were up to him, we’d speak on a daily basis - he didnt want us to have no contact. But i think that it is just a mind game - he’s waiting for me to make a move… and i will just not until next week… I want to make him start to worry but i also know that if i give him too much space he’ll doubt whether i actually meant the things i said so i cant do full no contact for a month. Knowing him, it will 100% backfire.
yeah for some reason it seems that thats what it turns into. :-/ im glad your making him wait as they always think that they can have us when ever they want, keep doing what your doing. your doing great.
I really hope I get him back!
you will, you got this, your doing really great and by the way your talking seems like he misses you and wants you to be the one following him, so keep doing what your doing, you got this.
cassie hows everything going?
I’m still doing no contact and I haven’t heard from him at all for the past 10 days… I think I am gonna call him next week… I’m not sure it’s a good idea or a bad idea … I’m really starting to think that i’ll never get him back and that i should just wait for him to come around… i really dont know
dont think that way your doing great. if you’ve done 10 days no contact I think you should finish it, but its really up to you. you still have a big chance so I think your doing great. stay strong.
So a little update:
I called my ex yesterday after no contact for 13 days. I was actually going to wait but I found out he had been snapchatting with this new girl at his job and I kinda freaked out… He NEVER uses snapchat so I freaked…
Generally the conversation went well. I asked him how he was doing and he said that he still felt up and down - sometimes he was happy with the decision to break up and sometimes not (we broke up a little more than a month ago). He brought up the fact that hunger games would be out soon and what we were going to do because he feels like he cant watch it without me so i told him “then we’ll have to solve that and watch it together” and he said something like “yeah, we’ll have to and the hobbit is coming out as well, so we’ll have to watch that too”. I feel like it’s kinda a good sign that he wants to see me and asked to do something together (when i spoke to him 2 weeks ago he didnt even want to meet for a coffee).
I purchased some soccer tickets and the game is in 2 weeks. I told him I had a surprise for him and whether he wanted to go or not and he immediately said “yes, i want to go” - so i’ll be seeing him in 2 weeks… is this good?
Then he said some things about how he’d really like for us to go back to thailand right now (we went there on vacation during summer). I just kinda ignored it but i figure he said it coz he misses me? Then he asked me whether or not i left my perfume at our apartment on purpose when I moved out (he had apparentlu just found it) and i said “no, it’s just empty - you can throw it away” and to that he replied “No, i like to smell it - it reminds me of you”…
I’m so confused whether he’s still into me or not… He’s in contact with this girl at his work and I’m not sure how i should react to it. I didnt say anything to him about it and i highly doubt that he knows, that i know. At the end of the conversation I said some thing i shouldnt have said like “do you think we’ll get back together” and he said “i dont know” and then he said “do you hope we will?” and just says “Yes, i’ve told you this so many times… i hope we can be happy together again”… and then i was like “okay, i really would like if we’d start having more contact again” and he said “yeah, we can talk once in a while” and i just said “cool, anyways, i should go now”…
It’s so strange… he’s sending me so many weird signals… What should I do now??? Please help…
Cassie sounds like everything is going really well. it also sounds like my husband throwing me mix emotions and signals. ugh lol, dont think too much of what he says, you’ll get yourself very confused and thinking, and you’ll find yourself in the same place as I’m finding myself in now, thinking to much of what hes doing or saying means. I’ve been told my his mom and cousin to not pay to much attention to what he means by it, but it’s really hard not to. 
its good that he mention you a lot and wants to go to the movies with you and to go on vacation with you again. I wonder if hes trying to see if sparks are still there? do you think? so when you go out with him is it going to be the end of no contact for you? dont worry about the new girl to much as shes probably his rebound. if you could try to do those things with him “as friends” to see where it leads, it’d be great. whatever you do dont get your hopes up in case nothing works out. but your doing very good and should feel proud of yourself. you should wait a few days and then send him a text and see how he reacts and where it leads from there. see if you could plan a meeting with him some where. wear new clothes and a perfume ypu’d think he’d like. I feel so happy and excited for you, I really hope everything works out for you. good luck
I feel really really bad today. I’m afraid that I am misunderstanding all the things that he’ saying. I’m seeing him in 2 weeks for the “surprise” and i’m not sure whether I should contact him or if i should only contact him the night before telling him what time it is at. Someone please help?!
calm down your doing great. dont think to much of the things he said until you meet up with him. this way you wont find yourself going crazy till then. how long was it since you last talked to him? timing would I think determine when is better to contact him.
I spoke to him on saturday… But the thing is… should i contact him before or not?
I think its still to early, I think you should give it a few more days before contacting him again. maybe Friday. cassie can you give me your opinion on what I just wrote. I feel confused,depressed,sad, and broken. thanks
In that case, I will wait a bit. I am just really really depressed today… I feel like he is shutting me out and wants nothing to do with me…