@Mj he did sleep with his boss, but remember how I said that he didn’t deny being with her of Valentines Day and how she wrote “I love you” on a note and its in his room? Well he said he lied about that and then he was like “how many people did I say I slept with?” and I said “four” and he laughed and said he lied about that too. I don’t know what he really lied about and what is the truth. I’m so confused about what’s the lie and what’s the truth.
@KD1988 You just don’t do this to someone you love… That’s why it is so unbelievable… 
@ellie96 I know hun. Some people work in ways that I will never understand.
It really does sound to me like he is playing a bit of a game here, and see how far he can push you, I don’t know WHY he would want to do that. But I would try really hard not to rise to it. If you are having a “moving on” meeting tonight, then I would make it sounds like it is your choice and it is the right thing to do.
@KD1988 I feel like he realizes now what he has done and he is trying to make up for it, but he really can’t now… This is all just so hard…
If he can’t make up for it now then you need to tell him that. For your own sake. Just take some time, breathe, have a little think about you really want to say to him tonight
U need to compose yourself if your meeting him tonight. Try and relax easier said than done I know. I feel your pain @ellie96
I hope tonight goes well for u
Well we didn’t talk about anything. We decided to stay in instead of go out because we were both so exhausted. We out on a movie a literally passed right out. I woke up at the middle of the night, gave him a kiss goodbye and rushed out. I got a text from him at 2 in the morning saying “Thank you”. I haven’t talked to him since because he’s still sleeping. So nothing was accomplished -__-
@ellie96 oh no… maybe you both wanted to avoid the goodbye conversation subconsciously?
Hey guys today is day 30 of no contact for me also today is the day she should recive my letter. She’s been on my mind a lot today because of both these reasons. I went out last night to see a band play and I kep thinking about her she would have loved the band was right up her street. I was going to txt her but decided against it because hopefully she will recive the letter today and read it. I didn’t want to over push the contact thing.
@ellie, how was it all even though you didn’t talk about what u wanted. How was his behaviour towards you?
@Gingerone
Let us know how you get on mate. All here for you if she gets in contact. The band can be used at another time after the letter is out the way. You could use it as a reconnection message like “I went to see a band play a couple of weeks ago, you would of loved it” sort of thing
@KD1988 Im not sure how it really happened. It was as if there was nothing serious to talk about! Kind of like it was forgotten. But we were both so tired so maybe we just didn’t feel like dealing with it at that moment! Im not sure…
@Gingerone I mean it was fun! It was as if we never broke up. We only bickered a little because he is very testy when he’s tired, but even then he was a lot nicer about it than he used to be. I’m not sure what to think about this or if I should even mention us talking. I mean I think I’m going to because it shouldn’t be ignored, but idk!
@Gingerone Just wait until you get a text or call from her! I’m sure you will!
Thanks guys. I’m scared she might not get in touch even after the letter and where would that leave me then? I’m hoping this letter triggers something inside her. I’m missing her a lot. And no contact with her hurts I thought she would have reached out in some way
@Gingerone have faith, she will contact you when she is ready to. It may not be straight away after she receives the letter but I can’t imagine she won’t do anything at all.
@ellie96 man that is confusing. But I understand how you ended up there! So many times I’ve known I need to have a conversation about something and I just don’t lol
@KD1988 yeah! Like I don’t even think we tried to avoid it, we just didn’t talk about it. I just don’t know whether to say something or not and I don’t know why he texted me “thank you”!
@ellie96 maybe text him and ask him why he said thank you. That is a little bit confusing! I would want to know!
@KD1988 I did text him and said “For what hun?” and I haven’t heard from him yet because he is still sleeping (I’m assuming that’s the reason).
I’m thinking he said thank you because he had a good time. And that could only be good news
@Gingerone I mean I haven’t heard from him yet! He normally wakes up a little bit before he has to work and I’m not sure when he works today so idk! Hopefully he contacts me though…