He’s text me just now asking if I can pay his phone credit. So fed up.
Just ignore him. He already knows what he’s doing is wrong you don’t need to tell him so.
The last time I went NC he threatened to block my number. He wanted my PayPal. I said no. He said he was worried something had happened to me.
I didn’t quite get it. Why would anything happen to you if you said no to him?
Amyways, don’t worry. If he wants to block you because you don’t give him money, let him.If he really loves you he’ll come get you. I mean come on, asking for money again and again is not ok even during a relationship. Don’t let him think he can break your heart and still use the advantages of having a relationship with you.
Please be strong and ignore him. He may realise his mistakes and try to make it up to you in the future but right now you should just be strong and focus on yourself.
Don’t worry about his reaction to this.
I’m gonna move on. If he ever wants me back it’ll take so much to prove it. And even then might not be enough. Thank you for the advice. Will update when necessary (or when I feel like messaging him lol)
Wow you ex sounds like a free loader and needs a job ASAP. Do yourself a favor and block him for a while. If he wants you back is because he will use you for money. Let him grow up.
Kind of processing the sad side of it.
He treats me worse than dirt
He says he cares but doesn’t
I’m nothing to him except a meal ticket
We won’t get back together unless he changes and after today I’m not even sure I want to
I don’t miss him I miss the person he pretended to be.
You are right. After a while you will get him off the pedestal and realize he wasn’t as kind as you thought.
My ex didn’t do what your ex did. I was always blaming others for his doings. Then I realized hes the piece of **** who decided to do it. He is not even near to the man I thought he was.
I’ve been invited on a date on Friday by an old old friend. Idk if going is wise.
Why not go out? I think you summed up the situation pretty well up above. Is it bad to say I laughed out loud when you said he texted you to pay his phone credit? like… “hey, I’m one a date with this other girl and can you pay my phone bill next week?”
whats wrong with going on a date? Take tjinhs slow and think of it like you’re just gonna have some fun. It will help with your self confidence but don’t think about having a relationship or don’t compare anyone to your ex it only makes you miss him more.
Things*
Yeah you’re right. I’m gonna go on my date
Hey how are you feeling?
I’m feeling okay today thank you. Just resonating that I do deserve better. And if he does want another try it’ll take a helllll of a lot to prove it. And I don’t honestly thing he has the clout to do it. I’m just trying not to think about him. Lol!
How are you? Xx
You’re doing the right thing I’m glad you’re feeling better Xx
I’m going through an emotional roller coaster but I’m ok, I know it will get easier in about a week or so.
Feeling really down today. I do miss him. Wish he’d change.
Im sorry you are in one of those down days. Keep up the good work by not contacting him. You can do it!
Thank you for the support. I have no urge to contact him. I just want him to change his mind.
Changing his mind doesn’t mean changing behavior. If by a chance he does want to change it will take time.