We know each other from 4 years. We were in love in this 4 years and I left her alone twice but she gave me a third chance. Again I left her alone. I yelled at her very badly, made bad comments about her. She was broken. Now 5 months after the third breakup I approached her and asked forgiveness.
She said she has forgiven me already. Then I shamelessly begged her for one last chance. She said ” I’d rather die but not a chance to you again”. She also said she likes one more guy and she is very close to her. She said he is very good and she fell for him. They have plans to study abroad together for which they have given exam.
They spent Valentines day together. She met his family members too. She told me he wants to marry him and she is very happy about it.
But we both were so close that we shared everything about ourselves. She became close to that guy within some months and are planning of marriage.
There existed true love between us. She texts me as a friend even now but she says she’ll never give me a chance
She told her mom about the pain I gave her. Everything is against me. Please please help me.
She is an angel. I just cant loose her. Please help me.
@RustyRed YUP!! They look very serious and planning of marriage. They are seen together quite often and he keeps her happy. Their relationship is just 4 months old.
Time is not the essence of any love story . Its the memories you leave behind. If she was not happy with you or if ypu disrepected her before theres no way you can try and change those memories but you can only work on yourself and try be at your best … if you tell her not to go with that guy she will obviously before you can even sit and think about what happened . So my advice is to let her do whag she wants … your begging wont help… and now you need to improve yourself … may be go on a fe w dates with someone else. And may be its just that since youbhave spent 4years with her you are attached to her and you miss her but that does not really mean that you are still in love woth her. Coz if you were you would have never repeated the same mistake thrice .
It’s not like I didn’t make her happy. The good times we had is just being overshadowed because the other guy is keeping her happy. We both loved each other and felt the love. It’s not like only I hurt her, even she did to me.
They are inching closer every day. I didn’t tell her that guy is bad and stopped begging long back. I started NC.
Once in NC she herself messaged and was saying how good he is.
I completely agree with aman.
You need to heal from this break up and work on yourself. You both have spent so much time together which is hard to forget. She will remember your good times when she would be missing you which can only happen if you maintain a strict NC.
Good luck for future: )
Can u take a look at my latest thread?
That is because he is her rebound and her escape. They are going to move fast and end fast too.
Dont check on her. Focus on yourself else you’re going to hurt yourself more and more!
If you have read about NC carefully you must have read that if you follow nc seriously then after a certain period of time, all the negative memories of the break would start vanishing and only good ones will be on your ex’s mind and she/he will miss you.
@divjun Dont mind me asking this. They both are seen together in college. Chat whole day with each other and are very happy together. She has met his family too.
Do you still think there is a chance for me? Is it greener grass on other side for her?
She always compares me with him and insults
She is being competitive rubing everything in your fave trying to make you jealous
Start NC for 2 months
Dont answer her
Work on yourself (new clothes, haircut, perfume, go to the gym)
Go on dates bring that confidence up!
Are you sure she will be better with you? Cuz this guy will treat her good and you seem to not be serious i mean you keep on dumping her… like bro if you love her youd never do it you may be in love with the relationship more then with her
