I somewhere agree with samuel
But if she was really in love with you, she will revisit you for sure.
He might be her rebound or something like that and thats the reason why they are moving that fast. Dont worry about it just be cool and calm.
Well this is obviously a rebound and i say go and read everything in “understanding my ex”
@samuel and @divjun today is my 4th day of NC. We were face to face in college today and she turned away. Even I didn’t speak.
But in the evening she messaged me asking why no messages? Some days ago you wanted me badly, now your fever is down?
So I told her I just don’t want to disturb her because she told me she is happy.
So she said she’ll ask the same question after some days. I said okay.
Wat is this now?
She is still interested in your life.
You shouldn’t have replied to her.
Do strict NC it will help a lot:)
Can you check my updates? I am feeling very low and alone at this moment:/
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/feeling-hopeless-and-confused/
@divjun how should i deal with my ex being in rebound?
You shouldn’t do anything and let the time pass. Dont see what she is upto. Heal yourself and be the confident guy again.
The thing is that I’m meeting her and our mutual friends tomorrow. Thought it would be a good time to show her the changes I’ve made.
@divjun she was texting almost like she is close to me. But I decided to stop the conversation. Is she just being friendly or?
Well,imo she still thinks about you if she texts you.
I am in same situation like you,she got with other one in her class. but i’m not in sane school.
Just do NC 1-2months (atleast for you ,she text you,but mine just ignores me and shes moving really fast,trying to piss me off).
Try to hit the gym,new haircut,and socialize more with people.let her think you just got over it ,this will make her reallize and miss you(atleast i think she already miss you),and after the NC when you are a new start,try to message her ,date ,take all cool ,and i think you will be back with her.
For how long have you done nc?
What i am going to tell you are just my thoughts.
According to me if someone breaks up and it is not mutual then i dont see a single point of being friendly towards eachother. because when someone breaks up like this, he/she doesnt like the person or there are so many fights and grudges then why would someone like to be friendly with a person they most likely hate being with?
As you left her so many times alone and she always accepted you back but not this time. There is a reason she wasn’t accepting you. Why would she like to be friendly?
Its obvious she still has feelings for you and cares for you. She still wants to be part of your life. All these feelings are temporarily overshadowed by the hurt and anger. She is with her rebound and soon she will realise what she truely wants.
You both were together for 4 years and even a heartless person will miss something or someone which was there with him for that long and which was so close.
If you have done nc then its a great opportunity to show off your changes. Its clear she wants to be in your life and obviously she wants your little attention.
Don’t give her so much attention and treat her like your rest of the friends. No special treatment. Let her miss the thing you did together. She wont say anything to you but being a girl i can tell that will hit her hard!
Dont ask her things related to her love life.
Dont ignore her as well but be strong and confident. Dress smartly and look your best. Wear a different deo/perfume.
All the best:)
@divjun you really reignited my confidence. Tysm 
@eddygod thanks man. My girl started messaging after a long time. According to me you should be patient and transform yourself in to a attractive person just like you told me. All the best bro
I know how it feels and we cant think straight when we are carrying so much hurt in our hearts.
I am here if you ever need someone to talk and share:)
@divjun yup you are right! Same here! You can talk share with me anytime
Hey @divjun I am feeling very low today. Feeling very very lonely. Missing her badly.
Its normal to feel that way. But you gotta understand it will only make you weaker. You are strong!! Give it some time and everything will be alright. Take your mind off her. Watch a movie or go out with friends!!
@divjun I fear every day they get more and more close and I just cant do anything. But my hope and faith are alive.
I don’t want her to be carried away by him. She looks very happy with him.
This is the start of their relation and even a worst match will be happy in this stage.
Wait for sometime. When reality will hit her, she will regret her steps. You just focus on yourself.
Thank you girl @divjun . Yeah just like you mentioned, I was shocked she selected him! He may be a good person but they don’t suit.
The thing is college is almost done and I am very lonely. That affects.