So I text her back just said “yes it’s pretty exciting , but I’ll let her know :)”
Think you are right prolly shouldn’t completely ignore it 
Any update?
I’m having a rough day today…
Dopierk… I meant “bad” day. not bday bday…
Why is it rough?
And yeah copiers any update?
I have decided about what to say to my ex… I think I’m overthinking it.
I’m going out to eat tonight. I’m thinking about texting him tonight, “Hey, I just found a great Mexican place tonight. It made me think of you. I know how much you love Mexican food!”
He always said he couldn’t leave without Mexican food.
But I don’t know if that’s good enough haha.
Or “I just stumbled upon my Mad Men Cookbook. It reminded me of you and how we made those yummy vodka gimlets. It actually made me smile. :)”
Or maybe that text without the vodka gimlet part. Just leave it at…It reminded me of you.
Note, Mad Men is/was both of our favorite tv show.
Thoughts?
I’m sorry you are having a rough day. 
*he couldn’t live without Mexican food, it’s literally he’s favorite!
Our exes are so much alike… that’s my ex’s favorite too. too funny.
I think both of those options are good. Anything that is between the two of you, anything that would spark something inside of him.
That’s sorta what I’ve been doing when my ex and I talk. Just making little comments about “our” thing. Each time he’ll say “he misses that” or something along those lines.
Are you guys friends on facebook or anything?
Thanks! I think I’m going to text him tonight, hopefully I get some kind of a response. Wish me luck!
Yea, they really are. Is your ex 28 too? Haha.
No, unfortunately he removed me as a friend when he was really upset the day after we broke up. But I think he still checks on me. Maybe just wishful thinking. But anyways, I make some of my posts public in case. 
always happy positive stuff.
Lol ? I’m glad I’m not the only one who does that, makes post public for that reason.
My ex deleted me though, because after the break up I over killed on the “having fun part” and she didn’t like seeing how much fun I was having post break up haha
Oh man! That sucks. It really doesn’t matter that he unfriended me. I mean yea my stuff won’t pop up in his feed obviously but he never posted anything so it’s not like I’ll learn anything about his life on there.
Yeah my ex doesn’t post much either so it’s really no lose, But I think Facebook is a good tool as far as growing attraction again, as long as you don’t use it for evil purposes like shoving a new relationship in someone’s face or anything of that matter
Hahah… no… my ex is 32. We’re a few years older. Still friends on facebook. Still very civil.
He asked me to call him with an update on my health/dog. I haven’t talked to him since Monday night. Starting to freak…
Mosis, what do you think about the texts I suggested for my ex? I need a guy’s perspective.
I wouldn’t call him. Make him call you! Chase, remember
I know… but I could really use his advice/shoulder right now. It’s more than just the chase right now. I need a shoulder to lean on.
It sounds fine to me
Maybe "I just stumbled upon my Mad Men Cookbook. It reminded me of you and those yummy vodka gimlets. It actually made me smile. :)”
Just to make it less wordy
And ras217
You gotta hold strong 
know it sucks , just going to him for that though could make him be sympathetic but not any closer to being together
But it really depends on how you feel if the jokey one about the towel is good if you don’t really know where he stands, that one is more sentimental and if you kind of know what’s going on in his life alittle and that he is single I think that is a good text
Yea, I don’t know if he has been dating. I know as of September 27 (the last time I saw him) he was not, or so he said.
So the towel one only if I know where he stands?
Ras217 i think he will call if you just give him space. He should follow up.
I really think he will follow up too, it’s only been 3 days.
And no the towel is if you don’t know where he stands, it’s more mutual and light. The new text is more sentimental, and if he is missing you I think that would give a great emotional reaction
So don’t call you even tho he asked me to keep him updated? I think you’re right. It’ll mean more to me when he reaches out again… if you guys are sure he will reach out.
I like the Mad Men Txt too. It’s sweet and sentimental.
What are you thinking? What does your gut say?