Its normal only because you can’t make it seem like you want her…that’s why I said lay low with the messages to her even if she text or call you…You was suppose to wait until her birthday…every move we make in trying to get our ex back is crucial that’s why on relationship rewind they explain what steps to take and how to react…She contacted you for a reason not just to talk about some job interviews…I think you should just focus on yourself NC at all with her for 30 days…and if she contact you after 30 you’ll know at that moment if you really want to try to get her back or not …women like the chase not to be chase …if even you and her had a serious relationship…show her that she means nothing to you…if you need to vent on here that’s fine but don’t give in because I did and I made a fool of myself …just don’t do it
The thing about your situation and why she’s being immature is because she know you want her even though your trying to act like you just want to be friends so she’s using that as a advantage to tell everyone “he so thirsty,he want leave me alone” but in reality she was the one contacting you about her dream job or whatever …just keep calm
I still haven’t talked to her after we texted and I ended the convo fast. I was just chillin and you know how friends be all negative and bitter around you lol I’m like damn especially guys. I try saying same things like she still care if the day she don’t wanna mess with me she text me first but they like she using you and you a back up plan. I’m like let me play my role because even if there is a new guy she obviously not that close to him to open up to him. I was just in my feelings from all this negativity lol so after her b day and I send video go nc ? I already did a Minh remember so I go another month? Btw my old ex gf hit me up and we talked a lil weird how after a year she talk to me now lol. So ignore the he irritating or why won’t he leave me alone and stop trying to be with me talk? Everyone saying that’s how she feel and just take it because in this month and week period we talk twice so idk how I’m thirsty or on her head she doing the most lol. I know she knows she has me and she has the power again because I didn’t end the phone convo quick like I was suppose to but is there a way to turn it around ? And you saying it’s not as bad as they make it because I been a good dude to her whole time except the beginning I was kinda bad but that doesn’t matter lol.
So today her b day I’m gonna go with your plan and send the video along with a happy b day and keep it at that. I been very chill as of late and realized all this unnecessary she childish and gone need to grow up. Also as I said my ex came back even if it was a year so that makes be believe they all do eventually. She chasing me hard and want me back after three days and she told me if I just left her alone after break up she would’ve came back lol. Also she got her hurt broke so I think that adds to it sometimes ppl have to experience bad to know when they have good. Me being 21 I expected it. Now it’s choosing who I want that’ll be hard lol I could do both jk. Think my current ex will like me sending video
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Seriously youre better off with no drama drom a small girl who has yet to grow up and blast you on soacial media. Respond back by saying at least im not trying to hook up with random men on my instgram! Then screen shot all the messages she sends to you and blast her of fb so all her friends and gfamily can see what a terrible person she really is. THen just say this no contact with my cunt of an ex really pauid off as shes flipping out and im sitting back and enjoying the show. #innocence