Its okay to rant…I actually like reading your story because you laugh about it so even though you want her back your not being sad and moppy about it…lol…
But yeah she trying to play this game with you. Deep down inside she want you and the other part don’t so she keep telling herself she don’t want you…so she cab convince herself that she feel that way …I say give it two days no contact than she hit her through text message just a simple text remind of something she like to do that you started doing or something y’all have in common than end it with just had to share that with you okay bye…It keeps her wanting more because what you been telling me about her texting back so quick means she was eager to text you …and after you do that give it about a week or so and try to invite her out with a group of friends that your friends with and she Is too…see how it goes just don’t show no emotions and just act like your fine being her friend but don’t conpletley ignore her just a little…hope I’m giving you good advice lol…but I think she still want you but you have to show her how much she misses you
I’m just naturally like that a joker or just really chill lol I never try to be sad causes wrinkles and stuff. She moved out of state I’m in michigan she in illonois so I can’t meet her at all. The text we had really lowered me again I feel and were disrespectful hurtful and showed she still has the power. She really playing a game also I wish I could screenshot them on here but yes she was still texting fast and I kept it positive and became a friend as much as I hate it. She said she will date and mess around and honestly that posses me off and idk how I remained cool lol. You say hit her up but a lot of ppl say give her a lot more time because it’s to much games and drama being played and if she want me she’ll come back. I thought we could be mature but nope not in real life lol. She treating me like I cheated or hit her and even though I had my flaws I treated her like a princess to the best of my abilities. But she displaying disrespect hate and the willingness to move on without even talking or trying to work it out. My cousin gf said she still a kid that don’t know what she wants and need to find herself. But why push me away when she said I taught her to love herself what love was In general and gave her self confidence? Isn’t that backwards I’m her only good bf while I there’s hurt her and I’m getting dogged out lol wth. I honestly start to feel like f her and let her come to me I can get any girl I want I just love her so much it hurts I’m being treated like this. My girl bf said I was suppose to be her superman and sweep her off her feet to take care of her that’s why she hate me. I’m also being told even if she hates or shows anger that’s still emotions and shows she still care because if she didn’t she would respond and would be indifferent is this true? What’s next more space or contact ig?
I thought maybe if you gave her space for two days than text her and maybe that will work
…all you want right now is to get on her good side…
but like I said the first time you may have to continue NC until you feel ready to have another conversation with her because you and her wasn’t ready
…let her find herself …and you just work on you and yes if she shows you any type of emotions that’s a good thing …because my ex not showing me none lol so your good…but for now on let her contact you
My ex isn’t showing any either… He’s too busy with his new rebound girl 
which I’m beginning to think might just turn out to be the real thing…I have this terrible feeling that he’s going to get her pregnant… I don’t know why
I have the same feelings…I’ve had dreams about it and seen signs everywhere…don’t know what they mean but I will just be torn …but I’m trying to get myself together I hate when I think about him.I can be at work and he pops in my head.I’ve been trying to meditate, and its kind of helping me not to think of him so much…but than my mind wonders again and the image of him and the new girl pops in my head …Its just crazy how someone they said they love just forget you…like you were the worst person to them.
Omg I see signs everywhere too!!
She’s an ambo and I swear to god I’ve never seen so many ambulances in my freaking life! I hate it!!!
Life sucks… Ppl suck…
Lol…don’t worry…just try to focus on yourself and don’t look on social websites…because that’s what I’ve been doing and it just took me back to day one on how I was feeling…we have to learn to be happy by ourselves first so we can be ready for the next heart break…I love ex like no other and he knows that,he even said the love I have for him is something he can only dream of…but he’s just not there in the relationship.
A part of me want him back but a part of me will have the worst feelings about him if we got back together because I’m going to feel like he’s losing interest in me and leave me again…
All of my emotions our everywhere and its hard to not think about but when you think to yourself one day. And say I never want to have any doubts in my relationship…and you want that person to love you equally as you do…
And the fact that he gave himself to another women will stay stuck in my head every night we well fall asleep with eachother…
Just stay strong because that’s what I’ve been trying to do everyday…even when I feel like calling him but I know its going to get worse because he’s not going to answer because he giving this women all of him…Just have to move in if they come back just know the ball will be in our court this time
She sent me this last night word from word “So you should know I got a job offer for a vets office. I interview tomorrow. They asked for vet techs but I told them I’m not certified they said they’ll find a position for me since my plug told them my passion for animals is one in a million. Buuut yeah interview tomorrow morning. In the meantime I know your pretty good when it comes to research but I’ve been trying to call my recruiter for a week now. Left two msgs he’s not calling me back. Is there another Chicago office near by cuz I called the number off the website,…no help.”
Why tell me this and ask me for help lol
Am I friend zoned lol like super friend zoned …wouldn’t a girl loose all respect and interest if there ex become there friend. As I stated before she said she will date or mess around idk if that’s true or was to hurt me and get a reaction idk. But she asking me for help I’m a friend lol
I think she still want you in her life that’s why she telling you things …I think you should go read relationship rewind they have it on the internet for free somewhere …It’ll help you better than I can because your both so far away so its hard to tell you what to do next …and I don’t want you to be friendzoned forever lol
Noooo not friend zoned for life lol as a female what would you suggest I do ? I’m playing a role to get her cool and see me positive. Today she kept texting I kept it short and simple. She got the job and said thanks for helping I said congratulations glad I could help(pretending I didn’t want her to talk about it) and she responded yup thanks again. Idk if that was her trying to get me to talk more or was a surprise reaction I didn’t continue talking. Was that smart to respond so nonchalant? I read most of it and it’s kind if confusing just like this girl I’m dealing with lol. Monday she thinks I’m unattractive and etc Wednesday she telling me about a interview and asking for simple help etc. it’s ass backwards because when I’m done I’m done. Will I stay a friend if I continue being cool and talking to her 1-3 time a week or does that work to my favor?
Just keep talking to her but keep it short and simple…I know when I talk to my ex its usually because I miss then but than again I talked to my ex just because I was bored and didnt have no one else to talk to…
But you have to make her jealous some type of way but don’t let it be obvious I’m for sure she wants you back …like say if she text you and reply back like 30 mins later and be like out with a friend…and just reply to whatever she text you…in her mind she’s going to be wondering what friend your out with and what your doing…when she think you moved on its going to make her want you more …I know because that’s how must females are…
And base off rewind do you think I’m in drift or death door. Her controlling mom and insecure loser friends don’t like me anymore lol
I think your in drift or the one before drift don’t remember the name…But she talking with you so you can’t be in deaths door…shes letting you know what’s going on in her personal life so she don’t want to get rid of you…follow some of the steps they say to get you back into the bliss stage
Ok and what about the she not attracted to me or I’m not her type anymore talk ? The guy name she mentioned is the opposite of me when it comes to skin completion and looks. Was that just talk or she really interested in another type(she said a guy that look like me “same skin tone” try to talk to her and she said she don’t mess with those kinds anymore to him" as childish as that sound lol
Sorry in ranting again lol but after reading it I messed up but it’s not that bad because I remained calm even when she was being a d*** and I established a friendship. Than next day she texted me at 3:30 in morning talking bout a interview at a dream job and help with a simple task. I than replied but very slow and plain while she responded quick. I think it’s manageable now just contact her Tuesday on her b day. Is it to much to send a funny video of her when she was trying to dance and I say turn up or is that funny and to my advantage because of the memory?
I think the attraction stuff is just a game she playing…She tells you all of this just to get a reaction…next time she does that just laugh and say there’s someone for everyone…and just ignore her until her birthday…and when you text her happy birthday say it like later on in the day like 4 or 5 act like you forgot and if she get mad just know that’s a good thing…and if she ask you where you been just say you been busy…this should work because she’s going to contact you everyday but you can’t give in…and yeah send the video the day of her birthday round 4 or 5 …
You have to make it seem like your not going to be there for her for long…even though you may want to don’t…So even when she ask you about a job she want or anything ignore…She’s going to miss your advice and everything …and when you send her happy birthday she’s going to remember that moment …
I’m thinking bout giving up. She told her cousin I’m irritating and why the hell I’m trying to talk to her and she done and will never talk to me again. I haven’t talked to her since that day. Everyone say walk Away but I don’t want to but look how she acting. And they say the texts is all a game but the harsh stuff " I’m done , I’m not attracted to you, I lost interest" is her saying she done. It’s been a month and she still like this. Is this normal after coming back from nc or no