I’ve read multiple articles saying that often times there rebound relationships turn out into a very serious relationship, can’t this happen in my scenery? I really can’t stress it enough how much we fought like it was just a daily thing we did. And the last time was extremely serious and I even apologized and said that I owned up to it but claims I treated her like shit. I’m actually doing good tbh but that fight is always in the back of my head
Ofcause it can. That would be scenario number 2 in my last post.
Here it is again:
Do you want to improve so much, and become better boyfriend material, so that she cant stay away and want you back? Or do you want her to think “Oh shit, I really made the right choice here“
She WILL start to compare him to you sooner or later. Who is going to win?
So far he has the upper hand because of the fighting between you and your ex.
You better start acting. And the sooner you act the better.
Please tell me what you have done so far to become a better and more interresting guy (and boyfriend)
ive been hitting the weight room, which means i gained more muscle, in my high school’s track time, reading books which i dont normally do, taking therapy, be more nicer to people around me. So far thats what ive done but it doesn’t seem like she sees it and i know it.
I hate that feeling of " what if it’s not a rebound" it’s killing me!
It’s killing me too man.
She might see it already, you dont know. 
Remember: our ex’s wont tell us anything and will do what they can to hide their feelings… We just have to guess… But trust me… In the long run it will only benefit you to improve.
How about your looks? This is a very easy way to imrove. Some new clothes, teeth whitening, new hairatyle ect
My ex texted me and said “Lol I feel it shelden,I can’t believe you did that. I will never speak a word to you again. " and I never even did anything! And she finally unblocked me today! Also she said " I’m sorry I just have to make myself happy” I think im screwed man:/
She broke up, she found a new guy. At this moment she should just go on with her life and never give you any thoughts at all.
But that isnt happening. You are clearly still on her mind… She cant seem to let you go. Maybe you didnt do anything, but she is just overanalyzing something very small.
I go to a school where I have the wear uniform so my outfit doesn’t really have any effect but my hairstyle is a little different I just don’t know how to choose a good hairstyle for my looks
Well all I did was add a ex girlfriend on Facebook and I hungout and got drunk with my old friends that she thinks is trouble last night
I doubt Ill get her back
That’s how I’m feeling
Guys honestly it’s not as hopeless as you sound but the ironic part is acting like its so hopeless is killing your chances. Girls NEVER like negative people you gotta put a big confident smile on your face and keep it there no matter how fake it is at first. Go out more, work out, pick up a hobby, whatever you need to do to get some confidence but damn you can’t sit there and feel bad about yourself. We have all been there it does so much more harm than good.
Oh I know trust me I’m doing very well and I’m so much happier but whenever I think about her that’s when it hits me which only occurs at night and such. Other then that I’m always smiling posting so many happy pictures on my social medias and even going out a lot.
It takes time man if you are doing all that then you will get there eventually, but good keep going out. Go on a few dates and while I hate to sound like I’m saying go move on don’t treat other girls or dates as just a means to get back with your ex, if they are nice enough girls you should give them as much a chance as they deserve. But overall that’s good that you feel better, a positive mind frame is key just keep looking forward. If you ever are feeling down come here and use the boards, that’s usually what I am prone to do if I’m having a rough day.
My ex called me and said this is the last time we talked…
its crazy how we literally have to see each other everyday and we live right infront of each other, there has to be some feelings for me there in her
Will you get your exes back? I dont know. But you have as much of a chance as the rest of us. But sitting around wondering about it, thinkin about why they do this and that wont do you any good.
This is the hardest task of all, but you need to get them out of your head. They are not you ex, they are just another person, and that is how you should treath them.
You have to move on so you can get back on track.
Has there been a case in which the dumpee moved on quick? I really want to move on but the feelings are just there and it’s hard to get them out.