Can i get her back?

It was a little blip and like I said we have all done it. Concentrate on you.

I’ve been reading and its really interesting and weird :slight_smile:

Day 9 for you and day 17 for me :slight_smile:

Ha. If outsiders read What’s going on here we would be locked up. I’m really enjoying this site. We have a new topic page. Bonds and stuff. Join in. Good night

hahaha you would!

I’ll have a good read.

Get some sleep night

How are you today Caz? Still no word my end since the texts during the week. Maybe over the Weekend.

Hey, I’m good thanks! How are you? Nothing my end either it’s Day 17.

Even if you don’t hear over the weekend don’t stress she will be back in touch.

I hope so. I hope i’m not pushing her away. I hope she wants me back soon, if at all

Your not pushing your giving her space to see what she wants.

It will take time and patience is key, I feel like that also but I will do the 30 days and if I need to I’ll do more.

I suppose. She seemed to be already thinking during the week. As you said, they were not the texts of ‘friends’. Another week of NC should have her thinking. Or not.

You are doing so well

She was thinking and Her angry response should emotion, exactly the more you keep away the more she will think.

Sometimes I don’t feel like I am

You are doing well. The advice you are giving on this to everybody is fantastic. It will leave you prepared for such a healthier relationship next time around. Be you, the old bubbly you. Think of yourself more often, if not always.

Thank you for your encouragement. I will continue and see what time brings. But the Emotion in the Messages i received give me good hope. But I am realising every day that I can survive without her. That life goes on.

Thank you means a lot, you are also doing the same and it’s nice to have the support.

I felt like myself last night! I was laughing and joking and I didn’t think of him for a good 10 minutes I know that doesn’t sound a lot but when you have gone through what we have 10 minutes not to think of them is a long time :slight_smile:

It is good, always have hope it’s a wonderful emotion to have. You can do it and stay strong

Thank you. I have hope. Maybe falsely, but I am now fairly sure that she is not over me at all yet. The Emotion showed that.

And yes, 10 minutes is a Long time. Can’t remember when I went so Long last

Oh. Oh. More contact. You there Caz?

I’m here! OMG what has she said?

You should definitely not have false hope now!

She sent a photo. She has a work experience in a Hospital in Berlin in the emergency department (A & E to us). That would be something that we have celebrated.
That is the first time in months that she has told me about anything that she is doing. She wouldn’t even let me know when she was travelling away with her Family for Christmas.

I’m so happy for her. Good on her. That’s a great opportunity. But me not replying might take the gloss off it. I miss her so much right now. I feel like crying

The photo was of her Computer Screen of the message saying that she was accepted

This is so positive, she’s defintely missing you and wanted to share this experience with you as she knows how happy you would have been for her.

Please keep strong and don’t reply, cry if you have too don’t keep the emotions bottled up.

She is defintely reaching out but your doing all the right things.

Keep talking to me