It’s so difficult, Ive not been put in that position yet as he hasn’t text 
It’s not strange at all you know her better than anyone else.
He won’t because she won’t want to upset him also! They might not even be together anymore (do not ask her)
I’m in work too but it’s quiet! This helps keep my mind busy and it’s nice to help others.
I’ve completely lost all hope now
So maybe send the Smiley? Some others said that because he is on the Scene don’t push her to him. Maybe if she gets really angry today she might run to him.
I don’t talk about it anymore because I’m exhausting myself trying to figure it all out. I go the gym and cinema and go for walks a lot, just helps clear the head.
Do not send anything, she’s starting to feel bad the way she treated you this morning, NC means do not fall back into to the trap of constantly texting your ex.
If that’s the case and you feel she will run to him, that proves to you that she’s not just thinkibg about you.
Don’t give up hope. But he won’t take you back unless you are positive. You have to Show big signs of Change. The drinkwas a massive first step that slowed the Progress on everything else. Did the same to me too. But now start doing things. Go to the gym as hard as that sounds. I havent gone yet but I walk 20km a day. I’ve seen couples get back after months and years apart. Do things he wouldn’t expect. Drama and arts are one sure way to impress anybody.
I’m sure that he still has Feelings for you. But you have to knock him off his feet some day. Use that thought as a boost to Keep pushing yourself.
I’m not sure about this stuff, but did you ever read about vibrations? Google it. You know when a place or Person has a bad vibe about them. It’s about that stuff. Build up your Vibration Levels and he will come back. Up to you whether to believe or not
OK. I won’t text anything. Defeats the purpose of NC. Thinking again, she might feel comfortable then with a Smiley and feel ok this evening. But no reply will bother her more.
What do you mean about not just thinking about me? Sure if she has him then she is thinking of both of us.
You are right. Text nothing. Now she will start to think that I am gone and really look at him and whether he was worth it.
I’m usually quite positive just having a bad day
I’m already doing things I’ve joined a choir even though I sound like a bag of cats but it keeps me busy.
No I’ve never heard of it but I will look into it know, anything that helps. Thank you 
It will bother her more why your not texting!
She’s thinking about you even though she has him that’s a good sign, it is a rebound because if she was happy and trying to move on she would have never texted.
She will think of you more because it will drive her crazy with what you are doing
I know a couple at home. Really Close friends. Unbreakable couple. Together 5 or 6 years. BUT…After the first year, he told her that he didn’t want to be with her. That he never loved her anyway and so on. He was fairly cruel. She cried and so on for a few weeks. Then her mother brought her to some man who explained about vibrations. He asked her if her negative thoughts might have caused the break up or something. Anyway, he said that things can be retrieved with hard work and belief. That her vibrations when strong enough would drag him back.
So, she went to work on herself, building up her vibrations every day. 3 months passed. She felt great. Almost high with life every day.
Then, out of the blue, after 3 months, he phoned her. She said to him that she has no interest in being friends with him etc. He begged for her back and I have never seen a stronger couple.
I’m leaving the Office now. Im here whenever you Need a rant. Or i’ll reply as soon as i see it. Gives your friends a break. Spend time this evening talking to them about something else. Build up yourself.
Be strong
Thank you I’m going to look into it now.
You also be strong.
@caz15 balls. I sent the f**king smiley. Ah well. It’s a long time since. Not sure if full nc is the way to go. But I sure won’t be texting first anyway. That was a slip.
I need your advice. What’s the point of full nc anyway? Surely if she wants a bit of contact then minimum and cut it there. Acting like a tool won’t help things? If she thinks I am an ignorant ass then that might stick in her head? No? Yes?
We’ve all made the mistake of texting so don’t worry!
The point of NC is so you don’t act needy or desperate and she will constantly know that you want her back, it’s for you to heal, it you keep in contact you won’t move on, I know that you don’t but you need to get back to the person she loves.
She won’t think your being ignorant because you have kindly asked her for space which she ignored.
I’ve read elsewhere that you should read the situation yourself. As I know her, she can get stubborn. I probably wouldn’t have heard anything again. I don’t know. I’ll keep going. She messed my head today a bit. No biggy I suppose. She gets the message. I won’t be there anymore at the end of the phone
Everyone’s relationship is different, of course you know her better than anyone.
That’s why the NC is also a god thing because they cannot mess with our heads.
Would that count as start again or a finish to the earlier messages from her? I feel bad. I shouldn’t have done that. Lesson learned. But I’m not really enjoying this. I hope she starts missing me. Do you reckon she has from her earlier messages especially the inside joke one. I read that as her reaching out big time. As in I miss your silly things
We have all done it so don’t put yourself down, NC is difficult but it does get easier.
She is already missing you by texting you, so you have been on her mind, she thinks by sending the inside joke you would respond to her.
You did respond and now she has the power again, start reclaiming it back day by day! You need the space or you will go crazy if you stay in touch
True. She has the power again. That was a clever move. She is not stupid that’s for sure. Next time no response. So I must start again?
I’m afraid you have to start all over again, if she texts again dont respond! I know it’s easier said than done but she has to come to the conclusion she wants you back.
Once she knows that your always there it will make it easier for her to keep doing what she’s doing!
Balls. Ok. Until the end of February then so. This will be the lesson learned hopefully. That’s a long way away. What if this doesn’t work? What if she forgets about me? What if she begs to meet up in the meantime?