Can i get her back?

Couple of weeks? Oh god. Can’t help but Feeling bad about those Messages. Misunderstood means that I felt like I had a Chance. I’m sure of that. She might have really meant friends and nothing more.

But on the up side, she was texting. And the negative things are surely still in her head. To text earlier saying she was worried was good i suppose. And getting angry is better than saying ‘ah well whatever’. What’s your honest take on it?

It’s hard doing NC but it does get easier I promise you that. Do not feel bad about those texts it what you need to do!

Exactly she is texting and asking you how you are if she just wanted friends she wouldn’t be angry by you asking for space.

All in good time but I think she will be back for a relationship

I hope you are right. I really do.

Patience & time are the key ingredients and getting back to you

Always here if you wanna rant or talk

Thanks so much. And the same goes to you too. Could do with some Lyons tea now

I have a box here with me, took some back to the UK :slight_smile:

I should have done the same. Regretting it since I left. And McCambridge Brown bread. Do you know that?

It’s lovely bread, I do miss the little things of home but always stock up when I go home to bring back with me?

How are you feeling now?

Feeling worried to be honest. She is angry and that is tough for me. I don’t want her to start getting bad Feelings about me. She was thinking about me at least until last night and now she might be thinking that I am just an idiot that won’t take no as an answer. But as you said, maybe she is angry because I am saying no for the first time. I can’t deal with false friendship right now but I am guessing that she wanted a Hand over of letters somewhere. That’s something anyway

Don’t feel worried, the NC states that their is a possibility that they will get angry because we are ignoring them but this passes in time and they start to realise.

We have to stop being the needy desperate ones, theirs a saying “become the hunted not the hunter”

If you feel your not ready for a false friendship don’t, don’t give her something that will make her happy but you miserable.

That’s a good saying. I felt hunted today a bit. Where are you from anyway? You don’t and maybe shouldn’t answer that. But my guess from the way you write is northern half of the Country midlands?

And it’s nice to be hunted, you know she is thinking about you. Because you haven’t contacted Her in 7 days she was wondering why you haven’t text or called.

I’m from dublin but live in liverpool now.

Christ she is texting again. This time with an inside joke about eating bananas. ??What the fook is going on? I am being hunted maybe

I’m from Cyavan but live in Berlin. Liverpool is a great City. You should have lots to do there in the evenings. You probably find going out hard without drinking. A tip; Drink non alcoholic Drinks. You get used to it and they are a lot better than coke etc

She’s trying to open up the lines of communication with you and be friendly now as she was angry with you today.

Your doing everything right :slight_smile:

It is and all my friebds here are keeping me busy but I feel I’ve exhausted all of them talking about my ex.

It’s nice to have people to talk too who are going through the same thing.

It’s so hard not to reply. I can almost see her worry. Is that strange or just me imagining that?
Surely to God the new man doesn’t know about her texting. If i was him I wouldn’t like it.

I work but nothing to do today in the Office so on this. What’s your excuse?

I know exactly what you mean. My friends won’t ring anymore. When they do i just don’t talk about it. That’s why it is so important to get active. Do you Play any diddly di? Get into that for a laugh. Big community there

I’m so tempted to send a simple Smiley face back. Just to let her know that I acknowledge the joke. And ease the Tension from earlier. I havent gone into the message yet so technically I haven’t “seen” it