@aamals yes he is very funny and jokes around all the time. I think he had some serious issues and fights an what not and thats why he is not ready for anything serious.
I ll give him some time to be comfortable again. I hope it gets better.
I am sure he cares for me and love me but not showing it right now.
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@cassie yes I ll concentrate on my studies and I ll give him his space.
I ll talk to him normally if he wants to talk. But I won’t ignore him for sure.
So wait - he wants to be in a relationship but doesnt want it to be serious?
I meant any serious talks or something like that.
He was not like this before the break up and thats why I feel he’ll be normal again.
Oh yes, for sure! He just needs some time right now
Yeah, don’t ignore him but also don’t go looking for him.
Yeah thats my plan ![]()
I didn’t text him when I reached home so he valled me just to check if I am safely home or not.
Fingers crossed ![]()
Thanks a lot ![]()
And good luck for tuesday
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yes do that and keeping doing you. focus on your exam.
its good that hes at least still humorous. thats most likely the reason so just give him space. it’ll get better with time. and he does love you and care about you or he wouldnt have gotten back with you. stay strong your doing great. ![]()
Thanks aamls ![]()
I feel so confident after discussing it all here
thanks everyone for supporting me ![]()
no problem.
Im glad your feeling better. stay strong and keep it up, your doing great. ![]()
We didn’t talk much tonight. Maybe half an hour or so. He didn’t even wished me good night. And so didn’t I. I wont even text him first in the morning.
Am I doing the right thing?
hopefully he notice that something is wrong and would start to realize ya need to talk. let him text you first. stay strong. dont be mean or anything but be nice. keep us posted. ![]()
Lol I know him. He won’t realise anything. Idk whats wrong with him. But yes, I wont text him first. And thanks aamls ![]()
wow lol. but you never know maybe he will. lol no problem. stay strong divjun. ![]()
Do you know the secret of DIVJUN? lol… I joined this when we both broke up but see what have I done.
I took first 3 letters of my name “div” and first 3 letters of his last name “jun”
div+jun =divjun ![]()
I love him so much ![]()
I hope he becomes the person I knew or even better than that. I just wish that to happen. ![]()
He’ll come back around, just give him some time ![]()
Yeah @cassie I am giving him time. Its funny that I got him back but its still a mess ![]()
Yea really sucks
Maybe you’re playing into it too much. Maybe just pretend as though everything was as before. Text him in the morning, do what you’d usually do and see if he slowly comes back around. He might be nervous around you and doesnt know where he “has” you.
If that was the case, then trust me I would have done anything to make him feel comfortable.
But thats not the case.
These days, all he wanna do is go to the college then gym and then with friends. He is not at all interested in spending time with me or talking to me. When we talk, he goea away every 10 mins to check his game status.
I am not saying he doesn’t care about me or does not love me. But he is not showing any of these emotions.
This is so unlike him.
There was a time when he cant even take his eyes off me in the gym.
He used to kiss me passionately and hug me so hard. Whenevr he hugged me, his heartbeat gets fasten. And now, he just gives me an okay kiss and goes away. ![]()
He didn’t even wish me good night. He didn’t even told me that he loves me ![]()
But I know, if he didnt love me, he wouldn’t be with me. !!
makes sense what cassie is saying.
I kinda was thinking something similar lol. just give him time, like cassie said he’ll come around. ![]()
@aamls yeah I am actually giving him time. I am giving him everything he needs for now. I just hope it gets better ![]()