So, my ex pretty much admitted that we wanted me back. I asked him if he was serious about it and he said yes. We were talking last night and this morning. This morning he decided that we were going to hang out tomorrow. He sounded rather happy to be talking to me again, calling me babe a lot, sending all these hearts. I called him dork face (to make him smile, not to be mean) and I guess he got pissed and said “Don’t. It’s not happening now.” I apologized and he said “We aren’t there. Not yet. Goodnight.”
I feel so bad for doing that. I’m so confused about what he told me…
And I just didn’t talk for awhile. He randomly flirts with me sometimes. We’ve been broken up for 4 months. I replied to one of his snaps and he called me babe after that and confessed that he missed cuddling with me and missed spending time with me and said that he wants me back. All last night, he kept calling me babe and this morning. Until I called him dork face
He did most of the reaching. Or all of it. We never stopped having contact. Well, I did NC for about a month and he got mad cause I wasn’t replying to his snaps. Can you explain what he meant?
calling him like that probably made him mad. let him cool off a bit and when he will be ready and not mad anymore he will probably text you. if you apologized, good. now remember, next time when u talk if he calls u sweet call him something sweet back,or dont say anything that might be lovely or sweet, even less rude.
he wanted tomeet up and he was sweet to you, but i think u ruined it with saying that. u need to understand that… just let him cool off a bit. u did apologize let him get over it now. you need to choose ur words more carefully.
if he calls u like that he wants u to call him something sweet too, not dork face or wahtever u said…
I said it be funny. We used to call each other weird names too. He called me lemur once, liek the animal lol. I didn’t mean it to be mean. I just wanted to make him smile
ja at that point u were together and all… now u are trying to win him back and this is not the right way i think. also dont over think too much just…accept that u did wrong with calling him that and remember next time to call him smthn sweet
i got my ex back the strangest way, tho not ready to commit yet but also that will come. oh btw… what did he say to u when u aologized?
I guess he wants you back, but only on his terms. Sounds like he thinks it’s okay for him to instigate a relationship, but when you’re flirty he gets pissed. I would tread carefully - I’m not sure he’s in a place where he’s ready to have a relationship, even though he’s trying to. I could imagine my ex acting the same way if I brought up anything from the past.
Exactly, we’ve called each other sillier names. He’s still mad at me. I do feel bad for it, and I do agree that we aren’t at that point of calling each other super silly names yet, I just don’t want him mad at me anymore
