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[Rihanna]

Hahaha… That’s what I say “my beloved” so yes I agree… And merry Christmas to you 🙂

[Robot 3]

Thanks Rihanna! Merry Xmas to you too!! Thanks a lot!!

[Daniel]

Merry christmas everyone! Im so busy preparing.
Im kind of surprised that yoy guys havent totally moved on yet. Coz before it i felt i was being left out and you guys are already doing good. I think i havent moved on totally. But rather accepted the fact that she is no longer mine. I dont have the urge or feeling to greet her merr christmas. Coz it doesnt matter anymore. And i dont care anymore. Its pointless now.

Rihanna,
Damn youre torturing yourself by watching couples this holiday season. Youll just realize how alone you are. Its painful but the pain feels good. Its like you want to really feel it. Hahahaha! Youre not alone honey. We are here. 😉

[Loreley]

Merry christmas dear survivors. Hahaha. May the joy and happiness (sooner or later) be with us. Stay blessed. Be ready to enter 2015 as an awesome single. Haha. I’m lucky to have all of you!! I think we don’t need to wish our exes a merry xmas :p

Much love,
Xx

[Robot 3]

Lorely,

Though survivors fit the best, but we may not consider ourselves survivors anymore because it’s been too long and we have all accepted our breakups and that there might be no unification anytime.

Daniel,

I haven’t moved on! It might be the day that I date someone and I date her consistently. At this moment, there are still off and on in my feelings! At this moment, I am chatting with a girl and we talked about the city we loved to live–it reminded me the same topic we talked with my ex over and over again. I think all I can do now to feel good is to become a better person–maybe one day my ex might regret losing me! LOL

I have things t add, but I’ll do it later! Later guys!!

[a.z]

Merrrrryyyyyyyy christmaaaaaaaaaaas oldieeeeeees xoxoxoxo

Rihanna,Raed,Daniel,Robot3
I’ve been reading your posts and I’m happy to see you guys here again.

Rihanna,
Its been so long, I’ve missed you xoxo I’m sure everything will be fine. You will find a perfect guy and a relationship you deserve. The best things are yet to come xoxo

Robot3,

I think its normal that you haven’t forgotten all about her. It shows how much you loved her and I think its good. You are strong and confident and I’m sure everything will be fine xx

Raed, Daniel,

You guys are doing great. I love you xx

Festivaldavid,steve
Xoxo

Big love everyone xoxo I wish you love, happiness,a marry christmas and a wonderful new year xoxo

[RAED]

A. Z.

I just thought about you a while ago and there you are now! I miss you so much honey! You’re no longer a frequent here. How are you and your baby now? ☺☺

[a.z]

Awww, thanks buddy x
Tbh, I haven’t been posting here cuz I have been really busy lately. There is no baby anymore :). Everything is fine and I’m really really happy xxxx

[Daniel]

Az,
Hi az! I missed you too. I also started thinking about you since yesterday because everyone has been active lately and not seeing you in action hahaha! I hope youre doing great! Share new stories if you have the time and if you feel like it. You know that we are here to listen. 🙂

[RAED]

A. Z.

Uh what do you mean there is no more baby? What did you do?!

[Robot 3]

Happy Holidays everyone!

Rihanna,

I like that attitude of going out and giving yourself treats! To be honest, when I meet couples I also think like “why things don’t go wrong with others?” but that is not true. About using inappropriate words, she used to call other females b!tches and I would ask her refrain doing so. Maybe 2 or 3 months ago I realized that maybe she deserves being called by phrases she used on others. Anyway, you are right–this is not justified.

It’s too complicated but I sometimes feel rejected and this feeling forces me to “anti-rejection” countermeasures. I wish to be in your position and be available for a fresh relationship but I also have my plan–I have made myself busy for next 3 months! I am sure that I will be in your status by that time. At this moment, subconsciously anger has taken best of me.

I also felt intense loneliness but I think there is an acceptance phase–it seems I have accepted the fact that I will be alone these days and I don’t feel that bad anymore.

Lorely,

I wish you special happy Christmas! Chin up buddy!

a.z.,

I’m glad that there is no baby. I believe that it is a crime to give birth to someone whose does not get the best. Happy to see you here again.

Daniel,

I hope you are doing great in these days!

RAED,

I have always enjoyed reading your posts here! You are right being single is better than being with a wrong person.

Steve,

I guess you are reading our posts here. Let us know what you feel after a couple of weeks of knowing the news that she is dating someone else. Do you feel like she never existed?

Everyone,

I feel great today. I cleaned my house after 2 months! It feels good living in a clean room! Also, I have decided to limit my drinking. Drinking helps emotions to take over someone.

[Loreley]

I’m glad I posted something on oldies few days ago because then everyone in here reunited again hehehe.

10.17 am here. I woke up with a little bit pain in my heart. Realizing I am alone. I mean there’s no guy who loves me the way I deserve to be loved. Such a hard christmas..but luckily I went to church last night and had christmas eve dinner with fam..i would die if i didnt have them around lol!

I didn’t greet him a merry xmas etc. I feel like no contact forever would be the best. I was talking with one of relationship coachs, I talked what happened with me and him and so on. She replied that my ex has problem with being selfish, he doesnt know how to give and love. From the stories that I shared, she said my ex was verbally abusive and he doesn’t know how to respect. I was just shaking my head. Unbelievable. Why oh why I havent totally moved on. It sucks.

In a meanwhile, happy holidays peeps! xx Sorry if I ruined your holidays with this drama again. I just feel lonely..

[RAED]

Robot 3

Wow man. I haven’t clean my room in like… Ah, let’s forget I opened about it. Ha ha! Happy Holidays man! Make drinking responsibly your new year’s resolution

[RAED]

Loreley

There is no problem if you feel like having drama for Christmas. I am not sad nor missing her. My ex was the most selfish person I know so know regrets. The only thing I am thankful to her is that she broke up with me first, at least I don’t have to deal with the guilt. And I’m glad she broke up with me bec I would never have the courage to do so. She’s like a cloud that when she disappeared from my life, it’s a much brighter day. Ha ha!

I understand what blues the holidays give. But maybe the other person feels the same way too but it is never a good reason to get back together. What I do is I go out this holidays.

Tomorrow, I’ll be going out with family. The day after, with my high school friends. And college friends the day after that. You can just ask your friends to go out with you and do partying, in that way you don’t have to snuggle with yourself in the corner and feel sad. If you live someplace far from friends and family then you can just go out and meet random people (w/o attachments of course). Some people will be more open to having a small talk since the christmas ambience is very widespread. You’ll never know

[Rihanna]

Merry Christmas to all of you my dearest… Thank you all for being the silver lining to a cloudy year I’m blessed to have come here and meet you all… Thank you also for all your love and support this year <3

AZ!!!! So happy to hear from you again and thank you for your so encouraging words and support …

Sending my good wishes for a great new year ahead… Love you lots xx

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