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Rihanna,
Its funny and interesting! Hahaha. But im bot sure about the attractive part. A bit maybe. A sexual burger us hilarious. HahaI’m glad you laughed Daniel,and good to see you again 😀 … I hope whoever reads this laughs out loud as well hehehe… the whole point is to be funny and bit sexy lol, the sexy burger might just work haha… and if not, che sera sera 😛
Anyway, how have you been? Still come here often?
RIHANNA
Hi baby! I’m glad you are back. With a new guy, I guess? Ha ha.
If I were to receive such text from a girl I am interested in then it might be a bit attractive since it seems that she feels comfortable making such joke.
But if you will send it to douche guys then it might give them a hint aboit something sexual and hit on you without taking you seriously. So use it with caution.
And if I am a conservative guy, anything mentioning the word sexual is a turn off.
I don’t know. Ha ha!
DARA
Why did you become a robot? Hahaha
I have the same page as Daniel and RAED
It was months that I would simply delete any notifications from other threads here. For some reasons since a couple of days ago, I felt like missing something and read some comments on the thread that Steve had made previously. I made a few comments too. I remember those days but I frankly have to say that I cannot 100% empathize with someone in first couple of weeks doing NC.
It “Robot 3”–not “Robot” RAED
I don’t like robots in general but there was a chess engine that I like called Robot 3. Also, I thought that there are chances that my ex is dating someone and might one day come to this site–I believe that her mind games were too professional to be her own ideas totally. I also know that she takes her opinion from net. So there were chances for her to come here and read the comments made by me.
I mentioned earlier that she probably saw me walking near her house around 1 a.m. while she was driving back home. A couple of days ago, someone fake sent me a friend request on FB. I could not find any motivations from others to make a fake FB profile and spy my FB life. Just an ex might be curious to know what I might be doing 1 a.m. there.
TBH, her last action made me think that she might be thinking of me!
PS: I think my ex is somewhat retarded. She is probably one of those girls that made funny stories about. She got attracted to me the first time probably because she found other girls are also flirty with me. Later, probably 6 months down the road she realized that I’m probably not attractive because I kept saying her how I loved her, etc. I also, think that she realized that this guy might be attractive otherwise why should other girls ask him to dance with him on the picnic we went. That is why she probably introduced me to her friend. She is so retard. I just want to erase the slightest clues that I was obsessed on her after the breakup! By the way, she will never see me again–I’ve been saying this sentence to myself since 3 months ago! She will never!!
ROBOT 3
I know it’s robot 3 but I’m too lazy to type. Haha! So your ex knows you as your previous name that’s why you changed it?
So funny your ex is still retarded up until now. Ha ha! Just don’t mind her. You are way way way better off w/o that btch.
It’s been 7months since the ex dumped me. And lately she’s been making group contacts. I mean, contacting us (our common friends) as a group to hang out. Which honestly I’m not interested in. But since it is a group there is no harm done if I will come since I will not be talking to her but to our friends only.
I believe we should also stop calling our ex’s as EX because they do not deserve a spot in our life even if it is just an ex spot. Ha ha!
Hello Raed 🙂 So good to hear from you Robot3 haha… Well, The text did work with the new guy and he responded with ‘Must have been a good burger!!;) ” hahahaha… at least he must think I have some sense of humour after showing him a much standoffish dry side of myself… So from your point of view, what would be a good reply to his? something sexy but classy… Also, I’m not planning to answer for few hours at least cos he hasn’t called me in a couple of days hehehe…
So yes! New guy= New headache!
Just be yourself Rihanna! There is nothing more amazing than being wanted for being oneself.
lol thank you… myself is not working at the moment hahaha… but I’ll try and bring my ‘best’ self forward 😉
Hope you’ve been well… I miss you so much you guys xx
All,
I am feeling good again! A few girls confirmed me that I’m sexy! Yeahhhh!!
My feelings in last couple of days were not about wanting my ex back but it was about the how someone would become opportunist if you be frank with. I normally don’t feel bad because I believe that I am great in most things! My anger is/was also nonsensical! I some times think why should she breakup with an “all-rounder” like me! I know that it does not make any sense in reality–but this is how I feel about it! I feel like I might have been the best–strong-tall-sexy-horny-intelligent-expert–unique combination of different traits that one could ever find. I think she was a retarded hoe! I’m sure that she is a loser now!
(don’t take me serious friends–I’ve lots of things to work on to make myself better) I’m just drunk!
Drunk! woohooo! hahaha… I’m glad you feel good about yourself and you so you should 🙂
So, I gather guys like to hear girls tell them they’re sexy?! ummm… I might try that one some day 😉
I think guys like to hear it more because they are told less, especially when it comes to random strangers. I think it’s human nature liking compliments. I think those who are great in making relationships are the one who come up with a right compliment, at right time for a right person.
I was blackout level drunk last couple of nights and today’s email notification made helped me realize that I’ve posted something on this website.
I think I should I should find a website in which I can talk anonymously about everything–tired of reading these breakup stories here and I truly feel bad for people coming here. Lately, Steve’s thread has become active and I tried to warn them about the side effects of holding a “false hope” but they seem to be liking reading hopeful stories about NC.
Oh! I’ve read a few articles lately which talks about the relationship myths and the realities. One of those interesting ones said guys are more effected by a good or a bad relationship. The other one said men do more stalking than women–but in real life women are made fun of for stalking men on internet. Strange facts!
I just realized that my ex deleted me from her Skype! She was my friend on Skype till last weekend! I could see her coming online! See guys! My intuition about her thinking of me was correct! She was there online last week but today Skype says that she does not share any information with me! It makes me think that the fake FB friend request could be hers! It makes me think that all my theories and hypothesis about her that she could not move on despite dumping me is true! Believe me that she is now regretting on dumping me! Don’t laugh at me RAED, I can read her–no kidding! Yeahhh!!
Yeah!! She will never find anyone like me–she knows it!!
Now I reached the 30 days of NC and out of sudden last night he contacted me again. Asked how am I doin and so on. He said he’s fine now with himself and come along if we could have a bit contact. I was like wtf. I said after ups and downs for a month, I cant be friends with him. Never will be. Because I think he’s just not worth my time, tears and so on. I do still have feelings because our time wasnt easy but well no no. I feel regret to reply his email. But I took that as a closure to myself. He said it’s pity that I cant be friends and he said I’m unmature. Who cares?! He said I am still special for him and no matter if he would already be with new gf or even have a wife, i am always welcome to contact him. He’s crazy.
Good luck to everyone. Even sometimes I still went to bed with tears.. At the end I’ll be fine.
Hello Loreley,
I’m glad I checked the site and read your comment. So proud of you for taking that step because it’s the right step to take. No, you’re absolutely right, you cannot be friends and don’t even consider giving him that advantage. I know how hard it is to let go of someone you love and we all struggle/have struggled like you. But after many sleepless nights, tears etc… time will heal your pain. I’ve even met someone new recently and just been blown off, the feeling of rejection is killing me especially after we’ve introduced each other to our families before he just went silent (weird!) … What I’m trying to say is that life is never easy but love should not be complicated and should not hurt if it’s true. We’ll go through many hurdles and many pains still in order to catch the right one 🙂
You’re doing great! you did it with self pride and dignity. You will be more than fine and will find true love for real next time… I pray for you xxx
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