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  • #15398
    Daniel
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    Az, tbh. That was a surprise. Goodluck on telling him! I hope he takes it smoothly.take it as a blessing. 🙂

    #15406
    a.z
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    Thanks Daniel xx

    #15413
    RAED
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    A. Z.

    OMG, honey. Who is Julian? Not your ex I suppose? So you are pregnant, that would be a bigger (i don’t want to call it a problem coz it is a blessing) move to think about. Since it is not just about you but about the baby as well. I wasn’t able to keep track of your story with regards to Julian. But we are friend, and we won’t judge. So skip the dream wedding. Let’s throw some baby shower

    #15414
    RAED
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    Joe

    Wow, bro. Just as you thought that it is all over that it worked. Ha ha! She was so desperate to come to you for another chance. Lucky you (or maybe not?) Just because she came back doesn’t mean it will be easy to decide since the power is now in your hands, choose carefully if you still want her for something long term or you want to explore other fields. But congrats to you bud!

    #15415
    RAED
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    Dara

    Wow. She seems like a psychopath really. How manipulative. It’s like you don’t know where to put yourself. Glad you found a permanent way out!

    #15416
    RAED
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    Daniel

    So bud, we are the only one who didnt get our ex back. Ha ha! But no regrets! I am able to see more

    #15417
    RAED
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    Val

    Oh wait. Am I mistaking you for Joe. I’m confuseeeeed!

    #15418
    RAED
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    Whena

    We are all friends here. Our exes broke up with us last May so we were helping each other since

    #15426
    a.z
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    Raed,
    Yeah it is.It makes me feel good and bad at the same time.I’m 23 and everything is freaking me out.thank you for always being there for me guys x

    #16500
    WHENA
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    oh just want to share i was doing nc rule well i ask my ex not to contact me anymore…he have new gf..but something happen there is a girl he met on his country and add me on fb asking me about my ex saying he likes my ex but my ex have a gf..i feel mad bec. i was moving on and this girl asking me advise about my ex bf?

    i just dn’t understnd why this crazy girl asking me about him and asking my advise since she know im his ex..

    i feel hurt but i hide it.. TT

    whts ur opinion guys.

    #16563
    Joe
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    Everyone,

    Ok so she back in my life… Everyday she tells me she loves me and wants to marry me. I’ve been playing hard to get and really haven’t been giving in to her. I dont wanna fall into being that doormat again..

    So for now I’m taking things super slow…I’ve even been refraining from having sex with her… Although, I’ve failed at that a few times already..

    Anyway, I’ll post more updates soon.. I’ll also welcome any comments or questions.

    It took 4 months of absolute NC and she came back with “I love you so much, I can’t live without you, I wanna marry you!!”

    Whena,

    I think its your ex pretending to be someone else and just trying to make contact with you….

    Ignore everything that has to do with him…if someone emails you or anything having to do with him… JUST DELETE IT!! Don’t respond don’t and acknowledge it..

    From what I remember, he was very bad for you…. and you don’t need him.. I know its hard but don’t worry the right guy will come along..

    Ignore everything that has to do with him… Someone new will come!!

    Joe

    #16565
    a.z
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    Joe,
    I’m so happy for you.Congratulations xx I remember when you first came here and you really tried and you became stronger and stronger every day.I’m so happy this worked for you and I’m really proud of you.

    All the best buddy x

    #17021
    Loreley
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    Hey everyone,

    I am in no contact day 16. I dont think my ex will contact me anymore. We both are stubborn. He knows why I left him. But he didnt try to contact me at all these 16 days. Sometimes I feel like completely in pain. Sometimes I feel like I’m ok. It’s really hard everytime to go to bed to cry myself till asleep. 2 years together. We were engaged. Planned to get married next summer. All just gone. Crazy :'(

    #17074
    WHENA
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    aw sorry to hear that hope everything will be ok soon..

    #17085
    Loreley
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    Thanks @whena 🙁 I don’t think he will realize his mistakes and will contact me after NC period is over. Because for the last 17 days he didn’t try to. I feel so unmotivated to go to uni. My mid-exams await me next week. Gotta focus..

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