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November 7, 2014 at 6:44 pm #15112
All,
I have to keep this brief… I’ll go into more detail later…
She showed up at my house yesterday unexpected (I had another girl there at the time… tell you more about that later). Pretty much telling me that she loves me and that we should try to give it another chance.
I CANT FUCKING BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING!!!!
Don’t know if I want her anyone… She’s still on the crazy side!!
Joe
November 7, 2014 at 8:20 pm #15115Joe,
This is the opportunity. Assess of you still want her back. If you do tell her that you want to take things slow just star dating again but not the real deal yet. Do you get me? A lot has happened damages has been done. Ofcourse you want a new kind of relationship with her but for the good. Tell her that you cant promise anything. But you are willing to give it a try somehow. Just take things slow. No sex yet! Juat go out on dates and check the chemistry. Good luck joe! You are a lucky guy to have this opportunity! I envy you don’t waste it. 🙂November 8, 2014 at 12:01 pm #15156RAED,
…yeaah! I think I am not the loser anymore! When she came downstairs to workout (in front of me), I left the gym–thanks to my workout program which was almost over.
Something funny… I had a short nap right after I posted my last comment and dreamed about my ex. In short, I told her to get out of my life and woke up! LOL
Joe,
I’m eager to know what you did. I’m sure that your best approach took you to this point. If you acted more clingy after the breakup or did not see your therapist she wouldn’t appear! Glad to know that this makes you feel better about your breakup now. Eager to know what happened/happens next!
November 10, 2014 at 9:31 am #15290Joe,
OMG I’m happy the plan worked for you and I’m sure you can make the right decision.Can’t wait to hear what happened.Daniel,Raed,Dara,
I’ve missed you guys xNovember 10, 2014 at 1:02 pm #15310Az,
How was the trip? Are you back home? We missed you too! What’s new??? 🙂November 10, 2014 at 1:48 pm #15318Nah, not really it wasn’t that good,we kinda broke up 2 weeks ago and he went back home alone:D
I’m staying with my friend until I figure out what I really want.Something happened and I’m not in a very good situation. trust me you don’t wanna hear anything about it.How are you doing?
November 10, 2014 at 6:32 pm #15345Oh i thought you were having a good time together. I wont ask if you dont wat to talk about it.
Pretty good. Been busy lately. My ex has a new boyfriend now. News about her still reach me sometimes. Like she has a new car now also. Well it still makes me feel something. But i dont really mind or care at all. Have fun there az!
November 10, 2014 at 8:32 pm #15351@Val your right reality hurts 🙁
@Raed yeah i relate to @val advise seriously i lost my hope i don’t want to treasure my feelings for him even he still sending me message since now.. long distance relationship is sucks 🙁Thanks guy’s to all your advise im looking forward to start my life without him acceptance is a key of moving on let go and start life without them.
all of us will be okey and it will be a memories soon if we finally forget our damn ex heeh..
November 10, 2014 at 9:16 pm #15360A. Z.
Hi, sweet pea. I missed you! I hope you really find what you want in life. I wonder where Rihanna is. I miss her so much. God bless!
November 11, 2014 at 4:20 am #15390Hi guys, sorry for the late reply. Had a week of hectic work and crazy partying.
Dara
Well, I guess you’ve got some good looks going on too. Haha. Yeah man, I’ve got some good partying moments and had some ego boost this weekend too. I do get what you mean, even after getting their numbers, you didn’t even wanna call them the next day. Haha… It sure is some good technique to elevate my ego and confidence. Only thing weird was that out of a sudden, I had dream about my ex came back to me after realizing that I’m still the best for her after all these while. Hahaha… Still half hearted about such a situation if it ever comes true.RAED
Yup, thats right, its me the one who got shitfaced. Hahaha… Its the first time ever I could “harm’ myself bodily and damn, she didn’t give any concern about it. Yeah man, I totally agree with you and it only took me less than a week to realize that my rebound aint even close to my ideal/acceptable type of girl. She’s good wifey type material, but has no other goals in life except me, saying she wanna marry me after a week of dating. Oh man, this definitely made me run fast and far. I’m beginning to feel the high level of clinginess and neediness and its not something I could hold on to for long. Guess when I was needy after the break up, I ‘attracted’ someone of the same short too. Just got to know that she broke up with her ex two months ago.November 11, 2014 at 4:26 am #15391Daniel,
Its not that I don’t wanna tell you,Its just really weird and everyone else can read it but I will write it here anyways.I’m pregnant with Julian’s baby and he doesn’t know.I’m really happy to see you so strong buddy,its really normal that you still feel something but the important thing is that you are doing great and the things you hear don’t make you move backwards.
Raed,
Thank you buddy,what I want is no more about my ex or Julian or anyone,its about the baby.I still can’t believe it.
How is everything going with you?
Yeah,I miss Rihanna and Steve.November 11, 2014 at 4:29 am #15392oh im just reading all your messages its so nice to know that all of you find friends here hehe..you find a friends when the time u need someone to comfort you that no one will understand for being broken 🙂
so close together 🙂
have a nice day everyone just saying 🙂
November 11, 2014 at 4:37 am #15393Hi AZ, Glad to have you back here. I remember those days when you were my most supportive cheerleader during my darkest moments. I’m sorry that I aint good at expressing about your situation now, however I just want you to know that I’m cheering and praying for you in everything you’re going to undertake.
Yeah Whena, I enjoy reading this post now, kinda liften up my mood a little too. More upbeat and positivity.
November 11, 2014 at 4:44 am #15394Aaaaw thank you VAL,I’m happy i’m here too x and I’m happy I could help a little 🙂
Tbh,I’m fine,I just need some time to make my mind and tell him.Thank you so much Val xxNovember 11, 2014 at 4:45 am #15395@val yes so true its looks like some of member here having a good changes to there life and feeling better 🙂
this blog is really helpful i find this when the time i feel so lonely and depressed and lots of opinion and advise is really helpful its near to reality and experience..Thanks to you @val for sharing your experience you wake me up :)..
i feel better now and the best way to move on and to forget our ex is acceptance instead of feeling hatred and ask our self why its happen?
try to improved yourself to be a better person ,changes is a must not just we change just bec. to show to our ex that its there lose losing us..its help us to become a better one ..learn to our past :)..
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