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  • #13980
    WHENA
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    AWWW SO SAD STUPID GIRL WHO IS ON MATERIAL THINGS THEY REALLY DON’T KNOW WHT ARE THE PERSON THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE…WISH MY EX LIKE YOU GUY’S DOING HARDWORK FOR THE GIRL..YOU USE TO DATE SOMEONE AS REBOUND? WHY DID U DO THAT JUST TO FORGET HER? SO UNFAIR TO THE NEW GIRL U DATING..SHE LOVES YOU SINCERELY..BUT I UNDERSTND YOU..LOVING SOMEONE SO MUCH IS TAKES A LONG TIME TO MOVE ON AND FORGET THEM..

    I WILL YOU DN’T NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP SINCE U STILL LOVE UR EX.. YOUR LIKE MY EX GRGRG..I FEEL YOUR SINCERITY LOVING YOUR GIRL..BUT DID U EVER TRY TO TALK TO UR EX FOR CLARIFICATION? WHT IF YOUR EX LIKE ME I BROKE UP WITH MY BF BEC. I WANT HIM TO DO SOME EFFORT ,SOME TIME WITH ME..EVERY GIRLS IS NOT SHOWY BUT WE LOVE A GUY WHO IS MORE IN ACTION..YOU GUYS’ JUST BEC. YOU ARE SO FOCUS ABOUT FUTURE U FORGEET ABOUT GIRLS NEED OUR BF TOO.

    #13981
    RAED
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    Daniel

    I think the name’s Edward not the other David ☺

    Whena

    I can say at least 6months. It’s now my 6th month since the breakup. I’m still affected but it’s hatred I feel. I haven’t talk to her for 4months since even if she sometimes initiates the talking I don’t respond. I cut her out of my life because she is toxic to be with. The best thing the breakup taught me is to stay away from toxic people and if someone makes you feel uncomfortable then don’t try being in contact with her/him. It’s not titally bitterness. I call it self-worth.

    Dara

    Yeah, i remembered how bitch your ex is. My ex too. I’m glad we are no longer with them. I just miss the free sex that’s all. Ha ha!

    #13982
    WHENA
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    OOOOH… MAYBE something happen between you and her after your break thats why she is acting she doesn’t care for you anymore?

    #13986
    Daniel
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    Edward was it? Sorry haha.

    Whena, are you mad? All caps? Hahaha.

    Val, you dont deserve him man. Shes still young shes probably undecided with her life yet.

    #13988
    WHENA
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    ahahhahahaha im not cuz im here at work using capslock hahahaha

    #13989
    Robot 3
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    WHENA,

    As I said, time will fix most of the things! You seem to be smart and have good understand of the point where you are now! In long run, you will be good!

    Val,

    Nice seeing you here (oh maybe not!).

    Shit happens to everyone! Breakups are just bigger shits. You will be fine just like everyone on this planet.

    I got drunk and fell asleep in a party about two months ago and my buddy said that I had a breakup lately and I am not my best! The next time I met them, the girls were much friendlier to me! I am even thinking of dating one of them! LOL

    Catch you all later!

    #13990
    WHENA
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    oh have fun buddy

    #13991
    Val
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    Yeah, she felt like I neglected her because I couldnt spend more time with her. But I’m just making sure I would be in good shape to provide for her in future, damn cost of living is raising like crazy during the past few years. Yeah, during the end I was kinda cold towards her as we were still hanging together and doing what a couple would but without the status. I continued to give her the gf privileges till I couldn’t do it anymore as she slowly distanced herself emotionally, felt like a riding aid till she found someone new and damn she did.

    Yeah, it feels kinda unfair to the new girl at the moment as I’m still thinking of my ex occasionally, yet I’m just going with the flow. I tried and did all things to win her back, but her wall was high as the sky and cold as Pluto. I was treated like I’ve never existed anymore.

    #13992
    RAED
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    Dara

    Thanks man. I still feel uplifted with Train’s music video you sent me. Haha!

    Whena

    Dara is right, bitterness helps. It’s our defense mechanism to never allow to make the same stupidity with the same person ever again. I agree with you that you cannot fully move on if you are still bitter. I have moved on with the love bec i no longer love her. But i still haven’t moved on with the pain. It is hard to forgive someone who isn’t even sorry at all.

    Some day the bitterness and forgiveness will come into the picture. 6months may be a long time but I’m telling you, sometimes I feel hurt and angry as if it just happened yesterday. Bitterness is not at all good but it is a process. Dara and I will soon get to a point when we no longer really care and are no longer really mad. As they said, never hate what you want to forget. But for now, just let it be. In our own time we will fully move on from this hatredness.

    Don’t be in a rush to make yourself feel good. You must go through the wholeoving on process. Acknowledge and feel the pain. So that by owning all the pain to yourself, you may never want to feel the same kind of pain again

    #13993
    Daniel
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    Btw whena. Where you from and how old are you? Im not familiar with you sorry. 🙂

    #13994
    Robot 3
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    Val,

    This is for us!

    #13995
    Val
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    Yeah Dara, shit happens all the time and glad to know we are in the same shit. LOL. Lets work hard and get our ex to regret mane… Hahaha…

    #13996
    Daniel
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    I hate that the most. Girls tend to slowly pull away emotionally from you even before they break up with you. Damn tht hurts. It’s like theyre 10mos ahead in moving on.

    #13997
    RAED
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    And oh btw, my ex is just like Val’s and Dara’s. She just used me and she’s materialistic. She found a job and I’m still having my review classes. She dumped me bec she had found someone rich maybe on the company she’s in. I helped her reach her dreams. I’m more of a personal assistant to her than a partner. And now she is already in her dream life, she dumped me. Gold digger bitch.

    #13998
    WHENA
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    oh im from philippines 25 😛 nice to meet you guy’s where you from too.?

    this sites help me to forget him and his new girl hehe..

    i know im prettier than her but poor me i can’t nver win his back unless he decided to get me and we cn be together for real.

    @val oh she hates you..even im in her situation il be mad to you i was thinking bad cuz girl are so sensitive when it comes to our bf who is cold.. me and my bf i got at him bec. he is wrking hard and nver chat to me he dn’t want me to disturb him while chatting and talk to me when his going to bed.. i feel your girl.. how long did u get together?

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