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After the breakup i’ve been chasing girls but i cant get anything serious. Im also planning on focusing on muself for the time being. A girlfriend will come at th right time. Most of the time they come when you’re not looking for one haha.
Daniel
I did that too, man. I was chasing girls. Some I’ve hooked up with for a short while but yeah, nothing serious. At the end of the day it depresses me more. Much better to be single than to have a girl for just a night.
Our brah plan now is too better ourselves first. We do it physically first, then the rest will follow. Abd then they girls will be the one to come.
That’s my personal goal
WHTS UR REASON GUY’S DOING THAT?
I THINK MY EX CHANGE too cuz he is not a flirt really but after our break up he was talking with lots flirting commenting on fb but he didn’t do that before..he didn’t add to much friend on fb but now he is adding lots i was confuse bec. i ws asking myself why he chnge? so strange the way he act.
Whena
Because people change. It’s a fact of life. Just because you know he isn’t like that means he will never be. It’s his life. His decisions. Sometimes, people grow and when they grow, they grow apart. All we can ever do is to wonder why. Whatever he does, whether on purpose or not, he still chose to do it.
My ex used to be someone loyal as well but she changed. Stop trying to fool yourself into thinking that he isn’t like that. Stop trying to defend him to yourself and stop trying to understand what he means. Because it’ll only confuse you. Whatever you see is what you get.
Before when I was in denial stage, I try to defend my ex to myself. I tried persuading myself that she isn’t like that before. That maybe she’s just lost or whatever. But guess what, whatever he choose to do now is a reflection of him, not of you. Stop trying to figure things out.
Instead, focus on yourself. I know it is easier said than done but don’t wallow and let yourself get stuck on things you can’t change. The only thing you can change is you and your attitude towards the situation.
Raed is totally right whena. But i have a simpler explanation. Maybe its his way of coping up with the break up. But it has nothing to do with you now. So leave it be dont overthink things because of his behavior. Every advice and everything you hear after the break up and during the moving on process is EASIER SAID THAN DONE but possible.
Hey guys,
I don’t think anymore about being with my ex and I no more regret things that I could do! It is was I was thinking impossible! I feel great! I’m sure you guys a little close it too!
Enjoy this one!
Im not sure myself. I guess around 6mos. When you finally accept the fact that your ex will no longer be a part of your life and you’re ok with that.
cn i ask a question being a guy your opinion before my ex got a gf he ask me on monday if i still love him and care for him.. and then last wednesday we talk i ask him if im nothng to him anymore he say thats not true i still of you even im working and get mad of myself bec. i can’t sleep w/o thinking of you..he said he still love me..but tomm. morning when i woke up he said he is dating with someone else who is wrking to his country..i feel so down i was thinking why he saying that bullshit word to me ..he said bec. i still love you and care for you.. in my mind why he got a gf already after all he saying 🙁
is he lying? i cn feel he still have feelings to me bec. when im not talking to him he is always send me msg asking if im ok.
My breakup was about 6 months ago! I had a 3.5 months of NC! In fact, at the end of first month I wrote the magical letter but no response! I emailed her around 100th day and we exchanged some emails but in the last ones she had taunting language; it seemed she thought I am the same doormat! F**k! Becoming doormat killed me! I wasn’t a doormat towards the end, maybe I had some chances! I went to her office at the end of 4th month to talk to her and invite her for a coffee but she was mad from the beginning and threaten to call police! I was like “damn you @$$hole, you wasted your time on a b**ch”! Two days after this we saw each other in the gym and she come downstairs where usually guys workout and she never comes and started flirting with a guy a worked out right in front of me! She was pretending like he is her boyfriend! This made me sure as ever that she is a b**ch and I am an @$$hole for fantasizing reunification with her! F**k her!!
oh that so sad to hear that sometimes too much love cn make us so stupid and being broken hearted will give us a chance to see to the person we love most the negative side of them ..
so you really mad at her now? you hate her and think his a bitch?
ha ha ha ha… I am not sure that how much I am mad about her but I better be as much as possible! It has worked so good so far that I do my best to not bump into her if I smell her around! Yet, sometimes I am really mad at her because it was really unfair! She was really not a good girl! She was a gold digger and she realized that I have nothing at this moment! Even in our good days, she used to talk about how rich we will become in the future and she can have a lavish life later! Maybe I become rich in future but at this moment, I am nothing! My conclusion is that she found it hard to wait for future! LOL
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