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[FestivalDavid]

Hey a.z

Thats sweet :), is this the same new guy in you both had a little disagreement about your ex tricking you etc and meeting up etc?

Thats good though, hes cool with it and yeah I totally get what you mean.

its Great news that you are travelling together, where is it you are going?.
It dont matter if you think hes “the one”…I dont think ive ever thought about that with any of my ex’s apart from my most recent (but we knew each other 6+years)….so it just takes time to develop feelings etc.

He may or may not be the one, Dont think it really matters at moment as long as your happy and enjoying spending time with him etc 🙂

Im going to China for 4 days or so on a business trip in about 2-3 weeks…and ive got some holidays to take..so guess what!..im going to be taking a weeks holiday and heading over to Taiwan on my own :D….so Ill have about 10 days or so in Taiwan…got that to look forward to haha.

Youll have to give me your email or FB so can speak to you now and again
xx

[a.z]

Yeah he is the same new guy haha.We are in Georgia right now and we are going to Burma and then Germany.oh,China an Taiwan ! Thats cool good for you x I love to go to China someday.
I have deactivated my fb account but we can ask kevin for each other’s contact info.I’d be glad to be in touch with you xoxo

[FestivalDavid]

Haha Awww that sounds great :)….Drink lots of beer in Germany! haha.

China is for work though so again no sight seeing..Ill need a holiday after going there trust me!! ha.

Sweet, not sure how to get in touch with Kevin….but Ill try haha, if you can do the same you might have worked it out before I do 🙂

xx

[a.z]

Lol right:)).
Its ok i’ll contact kevin x

[Joe]

A.Z.,

How long have you guys (the new guy) been dating? Seems really fresh to be taking a trip to Germany, Did you already have a passport? lol …. Either way..you GO GIRL!!

Joe

[a.z]

Joe,
Haha we started talking almost 3 months ago and he asked me out like 2 months ago.yeah i know its kinda weird.

[sunshinegirl]

David!!!

I’m originally from China!!! What parts are you going to in China?

I’m currently in the states for school though…

[FestivalDavid]

Hi Sunny,

Ill be going to Xiamen 🙂

[sunshinegirl]

I’ve been there too! Hope you’ll like it a lot 🙂
Maybe right now is not the perfect season, but hope you will enjoy!

[Smily]

Please help me guyz..i need your advices. I think i spoiled everything. Please look over my thread,

[RAED]

OLDIES

Hi. How have you been doing? Did anyone get to have his/her ex back? We had a friendship reunion and after months I saw my ex. I igbored her. I am still affected not because I love her but because I am fucking growing in hate with that bitch. Am I normal? Lol

[Edward]

Hey RAED, I think you have a choice to let it go or not. I hope that you’ll have happy memories in the future and forget the bad ones. Hope you’re doing good!

[RAED]

EDWARD

Hey bud! Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I know I have a choice but it is hard buddy. I never knew it would be this hard to forgive

[Robot 3]

Hi all,

I hope every one is doing great!

I should say that I am doing good! I go to parties once in a while and had 2 hookups since I cut her off my life. The first one was a bit uneasy because I dreamed about my ex on the same night but I was the only moment I dreamed her in last two months.

My mental setup has changed and I don’t chase girls like I used to previously. Though it was fun asking a girl her number after exchanging some smiles and eye contacts in a bus while she sat on the other end of the bus but it was too desperate. I enjoyed it because it made me feel like James Bond at that moment but would mess it later I had all I wanted–just an approval that I’m not into a dumpster! I even asked a lesbian for her number even though I could guess that she is already a lesbian.

Anyway, I do my best to avoid anywhere my ex might appear. In long run, it makes me feel good–I smile and laugh at nothing when I walk alone thinking about funny things that happened to me lately. I had lost this habit in last months of my relationship and during those NC days.

Just to cut it short–the girl I was dating (and loving) was not a good girl. I was too blind to see that I am harming myself by being around her. It was really self-harassment trying make someone happy who had no intentions to be happy. It f**king killed my self-esteem. F**k her! She did her best to make me think that best of me does not even put a smile on her face–f**king liar!!

Though I know, you guys are trying to avoid this website because it reminds you the excruciating suffering you went through lately but if you have something new to share, I promise you that I’ll enjoy reading it.

Cheers all!!

[Daniel]

Hi guys!
Dara, im glad you’re doing good now.

Yesterday a news came to me that my ex has a new boyfriend now. It hurt a bit but just like a sting. I dreamt of her last night but i’m not really tgat hurt anymore. Im totally fine now actually i wih her the best.

Anyway havent hooked up for the last 8mos. Maybe its time to get some action im still in the process of restoring my confidence and ego.

How about the others? It’ll be nice to hear from you. 🙂

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