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[sunshinegirl]

Hey az. Can I have your email address? I don’t wanna vent too much negative thoughts here… but I feel like I wanna help…

[sunshinegirl]

Ok I’m feeling better now 🙂
I just always want to convey positive vibes here rather than negative emotions 🙂

I just felt the way that he really moved on and wanted nothing to do with me anymore. All my friends told me just this only shows that he doesn’t even want to have even one connection with me. What am I supposed to do..?

I was thinking that I wanted closure that I just wanted to see him for the last time. Seeing how cold he is may help me to forget him completely. Because I’m the kind of girl who loves imagining a lot. As long as i don’t see him, I can’t believe he doesn’t love me anymore. Not knowing he doesn’t love me anymore just couldn’t let me let go.

But deep down I still want to be back with him..

[sunshinegirl]

A.z.

Also, what do you think made him want to go back with you eventually?

[Daniel]

Sunnh,
Just like you. Your ex is trying to maintain his emotions in check. He doesnt want to meet you just to give your things back because he is avoiding getting emotional. Hes not fully recovered yet and he is avoiding you becausw hes still feels somethingfor you. Atleast you know he is noy indifferent towards you. But im not saying that he still loves you. Its kind of good actually.

Az, i miss you too and all the other guys. How are you? Did G made contact with you already? Hope you’re doing good!

[FestivalDavid]

Hiya 🙂

Im still here and doing good, been thinking a bit about my ex the past 2 days, not sure why ha

BUt yeah I still been seeing this other girl and thats not reason why I aint been posting, just had no update on my ex since my last post coz i never replied to her and now shes on holiday.. and I have been coming here but no posts really and been busy working!

Hope all is good with you too a.z

xx

[Robot 3]

I took revenge!!

Today I went to a hiking trip. My ex was also there! More importantly there were some beautiful sexy girls too!

I did not pay any shit to my ex! Instead, the most attractive girl of the group asked me to dance with her! Maybe 3 boys asked for her number and she asked for mine! A guy invited this girl for dinner and she said she’ll come with me! Unlike me who was center of attraction, no one talked to my ex and she was left alone! Yet, she fairly deserved it!

Question: Is white beard attractive? Today, I did not shave!

Anyway, in short, it was awesome and I enjoyed it a lot!

[a.z]

Sunnyinthegardn,
I’m glad you are feeling better.You can ask kevin to give u my contact info.
Doesn’t matter what everyone says,you do have a chance.

Daniel,FestivalDavid
I’m fine :),no i haven’t heard anything from him but its ok,it doesn’t really hurt me.

Daniel,
Hope everything is fine with you xoxo

FestivalDavid,
You are doing well.I’m happy for you.Its really normal that we still think about them.You are doing the right thing and i’m sure she will contact you soon.xoxo
So how is everything going with you and this new girl?

Dara,
I think its really made you feel better.I’m happy for you.
Honestly i have no idea about the beard part.Its sometimes really sexy but i can’t imagine you like that so i have no idea.

[Leslie]

Please check out my thread and if you have any advice for me please comment. Sorry to bug I just desperately need advice from Others.

[Daniel]

I miss my ex! Her face when we had our last date suddenly crossed my mind. She was sad. I should’ve known something was wrong. We had sex but i knew something was off. I should’ve felt that! If only i could’ve paid more attention and did things differently. Then maybe we’re still together. I will regret losing her but i won’t let it get thw best of me. It’s normal for a human to have regrets right? Best i can do is learn from it. Im kind of down today. Moving on really takes a lot of time. 🙁

[Val]

Yeah Daniel, I totally get how you feel man. I’m having my fair share of regrets and wish I could turn back time. Well I aint sure the type of situation youre in, but some times we only have that one chance to make things right yet we missed it. (least that was my case and I wish I had a second chance). Yeah, we are just humans and we error, and its a continuous learning process from our mistakes.

Heard this from a drama and it felt so true:

Some times in life, what we do not see is more important than what we actually could see.

[Robot 3]

Daniel,

I mistakenly opened two of my ex’s pictures just now while I was trying to open some other files! I changed my mood a bit but all that gone is gone! I downloaded one of them from a page day before yesterday in the memory of the even we attended last year and this year on the same occasion, I had to piss her off to take revenge of her pissing me off earlier!

Regrets are natural but should avoid them! Apply Joey’s recommendation! Think of her negative characters whenever her memories haunt you! It works wonders! You know what I regret more these days? I regret that why didn’t I search for sites on how to forget your ex instead of this site! Anyway, Joe’s trick is great! Apply it!

I feel happy and accomplished these days! I started feeling like I am in heaven again! Believe me there is a very nuance border between happiness and sadness! When you become happy again, you’ll wonder why you were sad previously!

I wish you happiness my old friend!

[Daniel]

Val and dara,
Thanks for the response. It’s been a little over 6mos since the break up. Dara, the thing is she doesnt have hateful bad qualities. I was really lucky to have a girl like her and i blew it. I took her for granted. I became too comfortable and it never crossed my mind that i could still lose her. And there, we broke up. That’s why i have a feeling of regret. But i have already accepted the fact that i messed up and that maybe somehow this was all a lesson and preparation for another relationship. I swear i wkll never take another girlfriend for granted.

[FestivalDavid]

Hey A.z

The new girl seems very keen, I been seeing her a few times and going round to hers etc she talks to me everyday and always wants me to go round, but I dont see her as gf material if im honest and tbh i just dont want a relationship just yet!

Few other girls talking to me too, but again im just talking to them, im not too fussed about rushing into a relationship just yet 😉

My ex got back yesterday but not heard from her yet, but we will see!

How are things with yourself nowadays then? xx

[Robot 3]

Daniel,

You should take girls for granted! This is the law of attraction! Maybe you did it too much last time!

Last month I started talking to a girl but since I was desperate it was only me who called her or texted her and she would only reply me. Maybe two weeks ago I said, “well f**k her! I’m not gonna call her again!” Guess what! Two nights ago I had 3 missed calls from her and in last week I had texts from her inviting me to different places! I attended non! See! When you don’t pay attention, they’ll beg!!

You were in the right tract Daniel! When you pay too much attention, little become big Maybe you took her for granted too much but a little is essential!

I’m sure that you can find thousands of negative things in her! No one is perfect! Simply break that idol image! I also had hard time in finding negative things in my ex to begin with! It was because I did not want to think negative of her! My mind tricked me on saying that I would be fool if I say I love someone with so many flaws! Don’t let you mind trick you! There is another thing that amplifies this sense–that you don’t see anyone else around! Improve your self-esteem! Convince yourself that you don’t need anyone to make you happy! In fact, others need you to become happy!

For now wear a blue jeans and a white shirt! Drink some beer and go to somewhere social! Don’t forget–listen to this song!

[a.z]

Daniel,
I’m sorry buddy x.you are right moving on takes time but focus on yourself and accept the fact that you will find someone better than her.

FestivalDavid,
Yeah i know what you’re talking about and you are doing the right thing.
I’m sure your ex will contact you soon but are you gonna answer her?
I’m ok,the new guy contacted me yesterday.We went out,we talked and he asked me if my ex is still calling me.I said yes and again he asked if i’m sure i don’t want to get back with him.I said yes and he said he wants to trust me.He said he wants things to be stronger between us and that he is sorry about that day.
Tbh,i don’t really think that its gonna be a healthy relationship or whatever.A part of him doesn’t like the fact that my ex is contacting me,he knows that i care about him and he is just trying to hide his true feelings from me.I’m not comfortable with that.I’m going out of states for 1 month and he said he is going with me.I don’t really know what to do.He is a good guy but i really can’t handle being in a stressful situation anymore.I have been through too much and i just want to be free and happy.I thought he was mature enough i mean he is mature but he is taking everything too serious and its really not normal.Its too soon and it kinda scares me.I’m sure my ex will contact me and he will get mad at me again and i just don’t want that to happen again.I don’t really know whats going on with me.I’m really confused.

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