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I’m thinking of Rihanna too ๐ I have seen some of her posts lately and found out she’s even nicer than I thought! ๐
Dara –
I am living in Michigan ๐Joe, sunshine, dara,
Ill let a week pass. After 4mos of NC. This is the first time im gonna try to maintain contact with her so i must really prove to her that i aint needy anymore. Goodluck to all of us. Hang in there guys. ๐
Daniel –
Wow I just knew you have been through 4 months already!! I am so proud of you!
You are not needy anymore! I know you can do this! Good luck :)!Daniel,
that’s perfect…
Wow! 4 months of completely NC?? How’d you do it? Man… I hope i get luck and have another chance with mimne
Sunshine,
Yeah. Its been 5mos and a half since we broke up now. ๐Been through hell multiple times.
Dara,
I aint champion you are.Joe,
Want another chance? Move on! I did. I accepted everything and moved on removed her completely. And here i am now not affected big time. I talk to her but not to get her back. I talk to her just like another girl. A prospect, an option. I kicked her off the pedestal. If i get her back or not its fine. Yea she is perdect but only in her own way. Remember dude. You will never find someone better that your ex. Everyone is perfect on being themaelves thats why. But you will find some one that is perfect for you. More compatible. Thats it. I dont want to break my heart again over her. Im tired. I’ll try just to see if my hardwork will have an effect on her. Goodluck joe. Its gonna get tough but it wil lall be fine in the end. ๐HI EVERYONE!
Omg I woke up and there are pages to read here so I thought I’d check up on you guys before I go back to reading the posts lol…
Sunshine Girl,
Thank you for your kind words, You may think I can be tough at times but i’m only looking out for you. I know a.z has given you golden advice too, I hope you’re keeping strong and you’re doing great with your exams ๐ xxxDaniel,
So happy for you! you did the right thing and see? Don’t just assume things about people you’ll never know unless you try. Had you not sent her your number you wouldn’t have had a chat with her and known that the reason she’s been distant may be due to her exams. and YES do check up on her today to see how her exam went, perfect opportunity for a chat too! also, it shows you care ๐ Carpe Diem my friend ๐Dara, you seem in two minds lately. I feel for you but I know you’re a strong guy who has pride in himself and that’s what i love about you. You don’t take crap from your ex and that’s it, it’s over! whether she cheated or not cheated blah blah… Seriously, put an end to it, she’s leaving anyway and you’re a hot hunk with so much to offer you’ll have women all over you once you let this one go for good… Trust me, you’re only not doing so well with women nowadays because you’re going after these women for the wrong reasons but once you become whole again and you’re genuine about finding a new gf it’s gonna be like ‘Move over everybody, hello beautiful ladies, Dara’s here!’ Can’t wait to hear new stories about that hot chick you met ๐
Khine,
How are you beautiful? I hope you’re doing well and you don’t think my advice is too harsh but I’m only looking out for you. Anyway, a.z has given you some golden advice and hope you keep doing NC… We’re here to love and support you, you’ll always have my love and support so feel free to say whatever your heart pleases… Keep strong, you’re a great girl! ๐Sinaed, I sent you an email and i hope you have received it… I can’t wait to be FB friends with you I’m really trully excited ๐ … That’s something I haven’t done before and one day you’ll come and visit me in Sydney YAYYYY!!!! And perhaps teach me a thing or two about ‘how to be independent’ hahaha…
A.Z, YOu’re doing great girl and I’m happy for you ๐ … I agree with Dara give the guy the chance, you have nothing to lose. BTW, I’m sick still and at home ๐ but I hope you’re doing much better and gone home too… Big love and hugs your way ๐
Steve, How are you? I can’t believe you thought I didn’t email you back straight away cos of your photos can I just tell everyone here Dear all, Steve sent me his pics and WOW! he’s a hunk!!! Beautiful blue eyes and great physique! hubba…
So, no it was really my pathetic-ness that delayed my reply. But I did reply to your last email immediately and i hope you received it… Can’t wait to hear from you again soon ๐ ๐Joe, How’s you NC going? I read somewhere that you’re struggling a bit and that’s ok, we all went through it and it’s normal… keep strong! You always have love and support here so whenever you feel down feel free to share your thoughts here…
RAED, Where are you? I miss you and I want to tell you more stuff or just go to page 33 or something like that and read the statement about how I broke NC cos my ex called me then please by all means judge me again hahaha…
Ok Oldies, I’m sorry if I forgot anyone (I know Festival David is still somewhere having fun without us lol), But for all of you I just want to say I love you, you are amazing people… xxx
Hey Dara and everyone else
Yeah I’m around Dara, just really had a couple of uneventful days of missing my Ex and work. In other words nothing new for me. I could possibly be one of the most boring person around. Not much change happening with me unlike all of you folks
Dara – That’s gutsy to visit your ex’s work place then her house. Just as long as you are not camping outside her house all the time. I remember hearing a story about a man who had broken up with his ex and he called her one night and asked her to move the TV four paces to the right as he couldn’t see it through the window from the street and he was getting bored of watching her be on the phone all the time. Hopefully that’s not you
Daniel – Great work on contacting your Ex and keeping it light hearted. Agree with what Joe said. 4 months of NC and you are back on speaking terms. That’s a dream for me. However in say that I’m day 52 since I last reached out to her so that is nearly 2 months
Rihanna – Thanks baby for saying I’m a hunk. Honestly I have never felt like I’m a hunk, just average looking, other then those blue eyes of mine. My Ex said she could spend hours looking into them. I have the same type of blue eyes as Daniel Craig, but I look like Steve Carell.
Sinead – My Irish friend, missed you and great to see you online again. That sucks to hear you lost a lot of things with your ex, even your job and home. I lost my social circle and have been slowly rebuilding it with new people I am meeting. But at least my job was unaffected and I have my own place. Makes me a little bit more thankful
Sunshinegirl – Hi, hope your study is going well
A.Z – Post count of 963, so close to the 1000 mark. I hope you and Dara are still on good terms, looks like he is encouraging you to get back with your Ex, not good bro. Really what Dara should be saying is “Dear A.Z, forget about that jerk of an Ex, I like you and want to be your boyfriend. I would love to move out west soon, please block your Ex and listen only to me baby and I can’t wait to hold you in my arms and kiss your mouth” ๐
Guys!
I went to her office and her rooms door was open! I went in 3 times but she was not there! Her boss saw me every time! The second time I ran so that she did not see me but she saw me running! F*CK!!
The third time, I stayed calm and told her boss that I’m there to talk to my ex.
Anyway, I am persistent to see her in this week!
Steve,
a.z. and I still talk to each other!
a.z., :* :* :* :*
Daniel โ Iโd leave it until next week if I was you and then drop a very casual text like โsomething reminded me of youโ โjust wondering how the exams wentโ. Keep it cool, I think!
p.s. why was your nc period 4 months? Mine was 4 months too (badly needed) but I sent the RR letter instead of a casual meeting / text, which I now think I should have, maybe, done instead…Dara โ How are your acting skills??? I think when you see her you should treat her like an old friend who you have no romantic feelings for at all ;-)… Work on it…
Rihanna โ I havenโt checked my personal email today yet, weโve been so busy in work, this will be another long week for me, but Iโll check tomorrow ok ๐ In the mean time put on Beyonceโs single ladies and have a dance around the kitchen for me thatโll empower you ๏
Steve โ Hello big blue eyes, howโs NZ treating you these days? I was a bit over dramatic saying I lost my home and job because of my ex. The thing is it was only indirectly because of him. My job finished up and I had to move for work so I also had to move house (seeing as Iโm in a new city), I havenโt officially lost my old house (yet) but it may just be a matter of time because Iโm struggling with mortgage repayments at home and rent here, I canโt keep it up for too many more months… Itโs just the timing of all of this linked into when we broke up so I indirectly blame him… I did however realise a lot of my friends were actually his friends so I do feel Iโve lost out there because of him…
A.Z any update since he contacted you???? How are you feeling?
Rihanna,
Thank you so much,i haven’t been here that much and i really missed talking to you and everyone xoxo Actually i’m not feeling food.I’m still sick.Rihanna i don’t really know why i can’t give him another chance.Maybe i’m scared or maybe i can’t remember that terrible nights or maybe i think that relationship was not good enough,or maybe he hasn’t asked me to get back with him.He didn’t contact me after that and i’m kinda glad i didn’t answer his calls/text.. ,It kinda shows it was nothing serious.I’m done with his stupid games.
Get well soon my lovely friend <3 <3 <3 <3 :* :*Steve,
hahaha,you made me laugh.Actually we are friends and everything is ok .We are good friends:) .
How are you doing these days? Hope everything is going well for you.Dara,
:*:*:*:*:*:*:*Sinead,
I think he meant nothing and i’m feeling good.He can’t mess with my head anymore.I know i’m making him look like a monster.He is actually a really kind guy but he is always confused and i really gave him so much time and i felt a terrible guilt for a long time but i really tried to make everything work again and it didn’t.I have made so many positive changes in my life and i have really changed.I guess its not fair if i try to hurt myself more than this.I can’t let him make a fool out of me with his confusion.I do love him but i’m done feeling guilty/sad/rejected…. .I still miss him but i’m happy even without him in my life.Daniel,
You did it well.I’m happy for you.Just play everything cool and take it slow and act like friends.You can contact her again after her exam.Wish you all the best everyone <3 I love you xoxo
Everyone,
Thankyou for the support. I really dont want her back as much as before. Idk why but it just feels like it. Another prospect girl plain and simple. Or could it be tha im just stable now? I hope you are all doing well. Thats all i want for us. Doing great and at our best. Take care everyone.Anyway i have an interview later for my internship. Wish me luck!
๐One and all,
It’s a f*cking sad day! I am in a dilemma! Should I drink or go to gym! Don’t worry by the way, sadness and rage makes me stronger! Emotionally, I’m somewhat like Zach but I have all under my control!! How many of you remember him?
By this line, I made my choice! Vodka!!
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