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Thank you so much Dara.I know he means it.He misses me and he has feelings for me.
But i do believe if there is something serious on his mind,he will contact me again.Az,
Not sure about giving him a chance. Will being with him again make you happier? Or fulfill something in you? If not then i guess there is no point. Especially if it only brings tou more confusion. This whole situation is stressing you out in a way so i say relax and examine the situation.a.z., Daniel, Steve, Rihanna, Edward, RAED,
Last night I attended an event which my ex and I attended last year! The memories haunted me all the time! It was my roommate and me! It was so immense that I did care about any girl! However, a hot girl in reply to my “excuse me” said “you are welcome baby” in a flirty tone! I simply turned towards her and looked at her. She grinned but looked down implying that she means it! It was a gloomy flirty night!
I decided to see my ex. Today, I went to her office. She was not there. I was eager to know if she is working there anymore and I asked my ex’s new colleague about her and she said that she is graduating but she is supposed to help them these days.
I don’t care if asking her colleague (who probably has no idea about us) was wrong. Oh Sh!t! I guess from my questions it was not hard for her to at least assume that I have crush on her! Anyway, I will go to her office more to see and and talk to her!
Hello everyone 🙂
Its sooooo nice to be back! God, I was just away for a couple of days and there are pages and pages and pages to catch up on – it’s great
Rihanna – Yep that’s my email. If you email me I’ll try find you on fb
Steve – I hear u man, I get day’s like that still and they are the worst. Yet, other days I just think fu*k him I can do better anyway and I’m not wasting any more time on someone who doesn’t want me! And the crazy thing is I know as soon as I truly move on and meet someone else (if I ever do) he’ll want me back. I know this without a shadow of a doubt because I’ve only ever been the 1 girl he’s loved. Ever since we were kids, there was never anyone else for him. Even though he’s been back from holidays for a week now and my letter is still not marked as ‘seen’ in fb and knowing him (which I do) he hasn’t actually read it. I think he’ll leave it there for a few weeks and when he’s built up enough courage he’ll read it (fear of it being something bad or desperate no doubt!).
But all this just makes me angry with him because he always drags his heels and I’m always the one to move things along he’s just so fearful of putting himself out there that he opts out you know? His approach to conflict has always been to avoid it at all costs and when an issue does arise he will act sorry but won’t discuss it! I’m the opposite, but he was always like this, even with friends he is like that, actually now that I think about it, his whole family acts this way – just ignore the problem until it until it goes away…
Dara – I lost everything when I lost my ex too. My home, job, friends. It sucks but if she cheated on you your better off without her. Especially if she didn’t tell you and let you try to make her happy EVERY DAY for 4 months… That’s a really shitty thing to do to someone!
Any enough giving out from me 😉 and I hope everyone is doing well today…
Sinead,
She said that she never cheated on me. From what I knew about her personality, she did not cheap but that’s not a proof. For 3 days I got over-drunk and criticized her. Anyway, my feelings about is different now and I am not trying to defend her against myself.
It is a stronger and “more” neutral version of me. Moreover, I am curious to know how will I talk to her when I meet her after 4 months of NC. Just like you, I am a problem solver and I don’t rub off the question marks!
My aim is to not going to ask her to come back but I want to take this chance to solve the questions in my head.
I did not lose anything but some extra pounds after the breakup which makes me happy. I think it’s a lie to say that I did everything to make her happy for 4 months though it is correct in general. There were some moments that I tried to make her jealous by acting flirty with her friends.
Anyway, I am going to talk to her as a friend. I am curious to know where is is heading towards in her life!
Guys,
I messaged my ex in facebook. I managed to kept the conversation light finally! Yaaaay!
So we talked about some things. Her school, she even mentioned that today was her exam week and that she is having a hard time reviewing. It went well but she didnt asked anything personal about me like whats new with me.Should i talk to her again today? To ask if her exam went well? Or should i wait for a week after all her exams has finished? Suggestion guys? Thanks.
Dara,
Goodluck on meeting with your ex man. I know you are not trying to win her back or hoping. There is hust this feeling that wanting to see them after a long time. Like closure i mean. But although its not really necessary, if its not gonna harm both parties then i guess its okay. Goodluck. 🙂Daniel –
Congratulations!! I am so happy for you!! If the conversation went well, I feel like it’s ok to ask about her exam. Just keep it light and don’t get personal, like you already did! 🙂 Or you can contact her later, I don’t think you need to wait as long as a week tho… 🙂 Good luck!!!Dara –
Good luck with the meeting! You’re much better than her! Just stay cool 🙂A.z –
I didn’t stay updated, but I hope you have fully recovered already 🙂
Also, could you recommend similar books with The Secret to me? I feel like watching that movie helps me so much! It makes me stay positive and confident in my studying, life, and love life as well.Everyone –
I was studying these days since the schedule is so tight.. Hope everyone is doing really well and i miss all of you!!Sunshine,
Well you know, she has an exam everyday for this week. So if i ask her today about it. I have to ask her again everyday this week? I guess it woul be redundant. If i ask her at the end of the week it will be like asking how all her exam went well. I gotta limit myself coz she might think that after a long time i suddenly becomw to friendly speaking with her everyday now. So what do you think?Joe,
Thanks buddy! Im leaning towarda that idea. Anyway how are you? How are things on your side?Oops I didn’t realize that.
Then I agree with Joe, ask her after all the exams are over. If I were her, I would love to focus all my energy on exams these days 🙂
sunshinegirl,
I also know that I am better than her! Even her friends except a Lesbian knows that I am better than her. Whenever they see me, they talk to me in vibrant tone! Even her boss is like very nice with me and I am sure that it’s not a grim. I am real confident these days.
Daniel,
Good job dude! It depends on your understanding of the situation. It might take a day or a week for you to start a new conversation! It you’re gonna talk/text her tomorrow, keep it very short.
I think my ex wanted to make me feel jealous by saying that she is going to go to Oregon! Today, I was thinking that maybe she lied to me about that (just an idea)! This meeting will help me find it out!
I went to her house, she was not there but her car was there. Her new roommate opened the door for me. I went to her house again around 8 pm. This time her car was also not there. She probably went to an event we went last year. Did she go alone? ha ha ha… I don’t care and don’t obsess my mind with it.
I WILL go to her office tomorrow again!
sunshinegirl,
In what state do you live?
Steve,
We are not honored by your words lately! How is everything?
RIHANNA!!! How are you?
Thanks everyone!
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