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  • #4601
    a.z
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    Daniel,
    He should go f****k himself.It didn’t even make me feel good.He thinks i’m waiting for him to contact me whenever he wants.

    #4604
    Daniel
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    Az, you know your exe better than us. If you think he really is doing this to string you then tou are probably right.
    You’ve been great without him. You dont need him like how you needed him before so if hea playing with you then dont get caught. And i know that is what you’re doing. I like your attitude az. Its good that you dont feel emotional anymore when it comes to him.

    #4615
    a.z
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    Thank you Daniel x
    I do feel emotional when it comes to him.I still have a strange feeling for him but i don’t want him back.Its not that he wants me back but i’m done with anything about him.I did everything i was supposed to do and he rejected me:).I can’t take it anymore.

    #4681
    Rihanna
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    A.Z- I’m very happy for you πŸ˜€ … I agree with Dara and Steve here, All the best to you my darling πŸ™‚

    Steve, Hi! πŸ™‚ I love Roast lamb that dinner sounds Delicious! that’s my favourite thing to cook also YUMMY! lol… Hope you’re feeling better today and your heart towards your ex is calmer now that the weekend is over…

    #4683
    Rihanna
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    Daniel, I think you have a good point there about a.z ex as well. I feel strongly that’s what my ex is doing to me and I pray to God that i have a/z’s strength and good attitude to put myself first… and I think I might. But Steve and Dare are right in one thing, at least give him a chance to fail before you give him the cold shoulder. Just one chance a.z, if he doesn’t stack up say bye-bye- ‘baby’… But things are looking good for you either way cos the ball is in your court… Play it right πŸ™‚ … hope you’re feeling much better now emotionally and otherwise πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

    How are you doing Daniel?

    #4688
    a.z
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    Thank you Rihanna x
    I’m really not strong enough to start everything all over again.If he really wants me he will find a way to be with me.I tried everything and he knows how much i love him but i can’t let him play with my emotions anymore.I love him but we are not really good for each other.We can’t have a perfect relationship cuz his parents don’t like me and i can’t accept that.I can’t really take any more pain.

    #4689
    Rihanna
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    Hey a.z,

    OMG I have the same situation with my ex. His family LOVES me but my family is indifferent towards him because of his religion mostly. Like you, although there’s deep love between us I don’t think we can have a good relationship unless he’s willing to prove otherwise by becoming more responsible and has stability. I wouldn’t care about what my family thinks of him based on his religion alone but other factors make me doubt he’ll make a good life partner. My heart’s had enough… But I love him still πŸ™

    #4690
    Daniel
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    Guys can i ask for your opinion.
    I changed my phone number last week. I informed all of my friends and contacts. But i didnt notify my ex. Is that alright? She doest know that i changed numbers or what ny new number is. Am i bitter for not letting her know?

    #4695
    Rihanna
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    Well Daniel it depends,

    Are you truly willing to move on for good? Then, don’t send her your new number.

    Do you still hold on to a little hope? Do send her your number but make it look like it was sent to her because your phone sent it to ‘All your contacts’ so you didn’t send your number to her especially… if she ever wonders or asks

    #4701
    Robot 3
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    Daniel,

    If you have a Facebook account put it there!

    Well, my suggestion is that you can make it look like you have forwarded a message to everyone!

    “Dear friends, this is my number…. Please delete the previous one!”

    a.z.,

    I am sure that he does not know that you are looking for the phrase, “I want you back in my life”. I wants to play it cool, as if you too are dating for the first time! Believe me that there is a good chance that he is thinking about taking it slow! Meet him and see what he wants to say. Give him one more time!

    #4704
    a.z
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    Daniel.
    I agree with Rihanna and Dara.

    Dara,
    So why the hell did he tell me not to think about a future with him?Why did he tell me to move on? Do i have to give him another chance to repeat these once more after a month or so?

    #4707
    Robot 3
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    a.z.,

    Tell the same thing to him!! He will probably apologize for it.

    I believe, it’s just like the letter we wrote; I accept the breakup, it was for the best blah blah blah.

    At that moment he wanted to move on but could not. It’s all up to you but I suggest another chance for him.

    #4709
    Daniel
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    Guys,
    We did say we can be friends so i guess its not a bad thing to let her know. Im not expecting a reply anyway. So ill just foreard to ger the group message i sent my friends last week. Thanks guys. πŸ™‚

    #4711
    a.z
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    Dara,
    I can’t tell him why did you say that out of the blue :O He didn’t even ask me to get back with him.If he really wants me back he needs to do something serious.To me two stupid texts mean nothing.He called me but why?To tell me he misses me?I already know that.I don’t need to hear it again and again.I do miss him but i never say it to him.It has nothing to do with him.I miss him,He misses me but why do we have to keep bothering each other when we can’t get back together.I love him .If he feels the same way,why doesn’t he want to get back with me?Because of his parents or my behavior? So why the hell is he doing this to me.
    I’m so sick of this story.

    #4713
    Robot 3
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    a.z.,

    I have no other comments! Your situation is a stalemate apparently! I see that you both don’t have clue on what the other person’s expectations is in a relationship especially at this point.

    One thing I can say is that no guy friend will talk for another guy friend if he is asked for. So, I believe that the Italian friend of you ex wanted to update him! Plus, see how is this texting for guys here after the breakup? So, if texted, I believe that there are good chances that he really meant it.

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