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August 24, 2014 at 7:50 am #4551
Khine and Rihanna,
I’m doing well, thank you. It feels like honeymoon stage again and this time around I have become a more understandable person. I’m back at her place and will probably stay here for another month or unril school starts in October. I hope that you guys are doing well.Dara,
I hope that the assumptions you’ve made are not hurting you like it did to me when I’ve made assumptions. The best way to do it is be nice and be yourself. Let her play her mind games, you’re just trying to be nice and wanted to meet her before she leaves. Mind games lead to unhealthy relationships anyways and it is not attractive. You’ve known her for so long and if she doesn’t even want to have a lunch or drink with you, then you know you deserve someone better. I believe that if you went up to a girl you like and asked her out, she’d most likely say yes! Keep up the good workout (: I can’t wait to join you.Lots of sex talk while I read the past conversations lol, hope everyone is doing well and are happy (:
August 24, 2014 at 8:49 am #4553Thanks everyone for input regarding my .. situation haha π
Edward –
I am so happy for you! Best wishes!August 24, 2014 at 8:56 am #4554About this guy, she said that he is a friend and friend of all her school mates that they spent time with. I reprimanded her the night she came back and she started crying. For this reason I had no clue that if this rusting relationship is because I took it too hard on her or it was because of the reignited feelings or possibly some promises that guy has made to her.
Guys,
It’s been a long time that I’ve moved on! I don’t care about her! I should say that even in the first day, I knew that I have to move on but the feeling of rejection worked against it. Moreover, she was the only one I hanged out with. Losing her meant that I would lose everyone I hanged out with.
I remember that after our first argument, she posted an album on her Facebook introducing the place she stayed in for those 10 days. Its was this girl and a couch she slept on. Nothing exciting! A couch and a lonely girl. Anyway, I concluded that I acted too rough on her and tried to be polite with her. She took advantage of it later and tried to retaliate. There were some instances that were great to build everything again but I was so frustrated that I did not hit the nail on head!
Unfortunately, I could never conclude that she is good or bad! There are a lot of evidence to prove me that she is bad. There are also a lot of evidences to prove her good!
Moreover, I had never seen anyone like her (mind games). I took advantage of this opportunity to learn more about her style of games. I am an adventurer. Even though I knew that I need some time to heal, I wanted to see if this NC will work or not! As I mentioned long ago and a.z. might remember, I can never marry this girl because she is too much in mind games but there were some urge wanting me to play her for a win! I can read minds! I think I am convinced that there is no chances of playing with her anymore!
I feel so relieved today! I had never told this story to any of my real life friends! I think my brain is empty with the feeling of playing back with her and taking revenge! I think, if I meet another girl, unlike all other girls I met, I can really play it cool!
Thanks everyone!
August 24, 2014 at 9:07 am #4555Dara –
Although I’m a girl, I feel you. I never played mind games, so I don’t really understand the girls playing with it.
To be honest, I admire very much that you are able to let go and move on. That’s very brave and awesome. You must be an amazing person.
I don’t know why but I feel a little sad when I saw you mention that you still need time to heal. Gosh it’s been long and you’ve moved on but you still need time to heal. How hard would it be for us who got “dumped”? π
I always believe everything does get better tho – like everyone says here. I am really happy for you that you feel relieved and I wish you the very best.
π
August 24, 2014 at 9:19 am #4556PS: there were two parts of me that wanted her back; one wanted her back to take revenge and another to rebuild everything again. While most other parts did not want to see her again! Yeah! Confusion was a lot!
August 24, 2014 at 9:25 am #4557sunshinegirl,
The feeling associated with being dumped and cheated on are different. I was never cheated on before. However, to confuse me more, I was/am not sure about being cheated on. I was not sure if I acted rough and I deserve punishments or she cheated on me and she deserves punishment! Confusion is horrible!
Thank you so much!
August 24, 2014 at 3:47 pm #4586Oldies,
My ex texted me Babyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?
And then one minute later sent another text and said I’m dying without you.
And then called me four times in 10 minutes.
And then called my best friends and asked her where i am and said that he wants to talk to me.
My friend called me and then he called me one more time.
I didn’t answer him.
Guys i guess i still have strong feelings for him.I felt like my heart was jumping out of my chest.August 24, 2014 at 4:07 pm #4587Dear Rihanna and Khine,
I feel really good thank you so much xoxo.I haven’t been online that much and i’ve really missed everyone here.Love you everyone xoxo <3 <3 <3 :* :* :*
August 24, 2014 at 4:38 pm #4589Dara,
I read all your posts and i totally understand you.But don’t think about any of that.Its in the past.It doesn’t even exist anymore.If she really did that to you,you should be happy that you are not with her anymore.You deserve someone really really better than her.You are an amazing person and you will find a perfect girl soon.
You have moved on and you are doing well.Don’t let anything mess with your head.
Don’t think about anything she did/didn’t.She wasn’t perfect for you and you will find a perfect relationship.
No one likes a mind game player. Thats not attractive at all.I was one of them and i understood that if i ever want to have a perfect relationship,i need to change.And i did.
She will show her real self to anyone she meets after some time.I don’t think if she can find a perfect relationship cuz she is the biggest problem.And i’m sure she will regret losing you.August 24, 2014 at 6:11 pm #4593Thank a.z.!
Talk to your guy! Don’t allow him to have enough time to regret calling you 4 times! Call him back and talk to him! Believe me, he won’t take you for granted! That’s my suggestion! Do it now!
August 24, 2014 at 6:16 pm #4594A.Z – Sounds like your Ex did No contact for a period and feels like he is in a better place, he stuck to the plan and has improved his life. So he sent you a text to remind you of some bliss moment, like all the times when he called you Baby. Knowing that you would start missing him after being in NC for that period. Guessing he has been following Kevin’s plan. Give him a couple of days and you will get his hand written letter in the mail telling you how much he loves you and wants to be friends. His cunning plan is to be a false friend in the hope of reigniting bliss memories so you guys can get back together π
August 24, 2014 at 6:20 pm #4595Steve, are you kidding? He called a.z. 4 times! Kevin’s plan does not have calling 4 times. He wanted to do some cold turkey but fail. I think this is the best time to drug him again! π
August 24, 2014 at 6:21 pm #4596I agree that you were joking! They will reunite again! Go ahead a.z.!
August 24, 2014 at 6:51 pm #4599Im jelous with you guys. Your exes reached out to you even after a long time.
August 24, 2014 at 6:54 pm #4600Guys he just doesn’t want to lose me.He doesn’t want me to forget him.I know he misses me but that doesn’t mean that he wants me back.I’m not gonna call him back.He needs to take a serious step if he really wants me back.I really did try everything to get him back.I’m not gonna let him make a fool out of me .
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