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[sunshinegirl]

Daniel,
Haha I’m actually Chinese 🙂

Rihanna,
I love you said “we’re all friends here”!

[Rihanna]

Hi sunshine girl, so how’s the exams going? lol. Yes we Are friends here and we know a lot about each other. I’ve shared more on this site than I’ve ever shared with anyone and I’m an open book haha!

[Rihanna]

love

[sunshinegirl]

Rihanna,

My exam went ok 🙂 I’ll have another pretty soon tho.

So now I just wanna put all my energy on my exam and not think about my ex even one second, although it’s much easier said than done.

🙂

[Robot 3]

Friends,

I need your advise on this:

I have some stuff at my ex’s house. It’s also been almost 4 months since the breakup. She is extremely into mind games, really ugly ones but I am not sure if her friends really know the depth. Now, I have come to the conclusion that her friends think that I was a good guy. At least I met her best friend and she said that she he happy that I am doing well. This said, I need your advise on getting some of my stuff back. Almost all food in her kitchen and fridge belonged to me and most of them are probably finished by now but I have question about four items

eyebrow tweezer
deodorant
condoms
maybe 15 free subway 5.9$ coupons

I want them back and wrote two emails to my ex a month ago and 2 weeks ago. She did not reply both of them. I want to write an email to her best friend and tell that I seriously want these items and convey this message to my ex. Since 4 months have passed, should I write it to her or should I forget about it assuming that my ex has used them up? Will she (I mean her best friend) think that I am cheap for asking these things after four months? should I forget it?

I feel bad about myself. I think that I have been used (that’s serious!). Maybe I have cooked 100 meals for her and she has hardly boiled me 10 ready made cans, and now she is not replying my emails on the stuff I want back! I even know that she stole some candies from my house, but I never cared about it. I don’t care about what she thinks about me but i care about what her best friend may think of me!

Suggestions are truly appreciated! Maybe just one sentence! I want to have a toll.

Thanks!

[Joe]

DARA, come one bro your a Vet. here……

forget about those things…Not worth more than $30 altogether.. It will just look like your trying to find a reason to contact her.

I have things at my exes house, I don’t think I’ll ever get those things back..

I too, used to cook for her all the time.. she hardly ever did.

[Joe]

ALL,

From your experience here.. How many people have successfully got their exes back following the plan?

[a.z]

Dara,
I don’t really think if you should ask her friend to get those things back.
You want to meet her but in this case she may give all of the things to her friend so your gonna have to get those from her not your ex.
And i think no one thinks if those stuffs are worthy enough to get back from an ex.

If you really wanna do something,call her or text her and say now that you have both moved on,you would like to meet her before she leaves.
But i think meeting up for the last time is not a good idea unless you have truly moved on.I didn’t do that because i was sure i couldn’t handle the depression after that.

[a.z]

Joe,
There are too many people who have got their exes back. https://exbackpermanently.com/testimonials/

[Robot 3]

Oh! You guys are misunderstanding me. I don’t want to meet her (I have been screaming this maybe since 50 days ago in most of the posts that I talked about her). I am simply asking you guys, does it worth asking for those stuff? My point is that why should I give someone who dumped my a penny? I wanted to suggest her that she can give those stuff to a common friend. I think its unworthy: I got my point!

[saoirse]

Rihanna,

How can I link you to fb? I’m sinead m dunphy@ gmail. com
Also, a.z how are u? I’m curious because ur feelings / symptoms seem similar to mine (before my diagnosis) I know that seems like a shit thing to say because ur situation is yours and mine is mine, but I just want to let you know that I know what it feels likes to be stuck in the hospital

[Robot 3]

Maybe I talk to her before she goes! I am not sure but maybe today was the last day she was an employee here. Maybe I should ask these student staff at gym! I don’t know what has made me feel angry/enraged/aggressive last couple of days, maybe this is reason!

[a.z]

Sinead,

Thanks for asking.Actually yes.It sucks but i’m home now and i feel really better but sometimes i can’t breathe well,i have sore throat and painful swallowing,sometimes headache,fever… .
I’m in bed like all day and all night and it sucks but i feel way better.

Dara,
If you wanna talk to her,go for it but make sure that you can control your anger.
You don’t have to show her your feelings.You should show her the new you so she will see the better version of you,she will understand that you really are better than her and she will regret losing you.

[Robot 3]

She’s seen my a couple of times at gym (I especially liked the last time when I had cut the sleeve off) and she could see new me! I have also talked about my accomplishments about a month ago when we talked through email. I am really confident but I should say that I am rather distracted.

Maybe I am also sick, I feel like breathing is hard!

[a.z]

You should think about it and then you can make your mind.I said that because if she feels your anger,she may think that you still care or you still have feelings for her.

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