Thats what you nees to find. So talk to her then decide what you gonna do.
What do you mean talk to her and decide? I’ve already talked to her and she said she wants to be bestfriends and for me to be there for her and stuff?
Then nc is the only option left for you!
You think so?
So where do you think I stand? Is there a good chance of is getting back together? Or have I truly lost it?
What to do?
Anybody??
We’ll just found out she has another man
I know you have a ton of questions. But she’s clearly very confused about her own feelings and won’t give you straight answers. Do NOT let her know you’re jealous of this other guy. Just keep calm and do NC. You’ve been with her for much longer, and you have way more of a connection with her than this new guy. She needs to realize what she lost. You being needy and jealous will only push her closer to her new guy. My ex and I were broken up once before and I had another boyfriend during that time we were apart but trust me, I was still very much in love with my ex and I was just filling the void in my life. We got back together a few months after! It can happen. Do not lose hope, but do NOT get desperate. I know it’s really hard not to.
I’m feeling hopeless
Nobody has any input on this?
If she has another man it will be a rebound and won’t last!
I want to believe it’s a rebound but then again she works with him so I don’t know how long this has been going on!
Okay so now I’m back being bestfriends with this other girl who is like a sister to me! Ive known her forever and when me and my ex were together she made me drop her which I think was dumb! Anyways now my ex is steady trying to talk to me and get me back but idk if I can go back? She’s hurt me so much and she keeps using this excuse “the only way we will get back together is if you drop her” I shouldn’t have to drop a girl just because we are bestfriends and have always been there for each other? Guys should be able to have girl bestfriends? My ex just needs to mature and realize there’s nothing going on between me and my bestfriend? What do I do?
She’s getting angry now because your close to someone else. Isn’t that just typical
Right but she’s with another guy?
Mate, relax about it she can’t control u. If she’s with someone else then why can’t u just be friends with another girl.
Okay so I talked to my ex the other day in person and she was crying on me and wanting me to hold her again and she kept trying to kiss me but I wouldnt! So she told me that they were all lies and that she still has feelings for me and she said “you can’t have another girlfriend or I will kill you”! She said she kept the bear she supposedly got for this other guy because she said she couldn’t do it and wanted something to sleep with. She said she has her standards high now and she feels sorry if she gets with somebody else because of the way she acts. She said I turned her into a monster and she’s mean to everybody now. But she’s super jealous of my bestfriend which is a girl! Anyways what do you guys think?
Feel for u dude your situation is messed up
I don’t know what to do now man!