So she broke up with me over a month a ago and I started NC about 3 weeks ago. Anyway about a week ago I changed my profile pic to a pic of me smiling all dressed up in a suit (since I know she likes men who dress nice). The next day she changes her profile pic. Keep in mind we are not friends on facebook so me changing profile pic doesn’t come up on her news feed. My friends said this was a coincidence saying girls change their picture all the time. But she hadn’t changed her picture since August and then just happened to change it the day after me?
Also yesterday I posted a picture of myself and made it public for my friends of friends just so she could see it. Just minutes after she made her instagram public.
Is this all in my head or is she doing this on purpose? If so why and what does it mean?
continue your no contact. it could mean many things or nothing at all, dont pay to much attention to this. just focus on yourself. who knows what she has in mind. :-/
I am continuing my NC. I just checked whatsapp too and she unblocked me yesterday. But I posted another pic of myself today and after that she changed her profile back to private. Do you think she’s thinking about contcting me or something?
keep doing no contact it maybe that shes either checking on you and trying to see what your up to or could be confused and or playing mind games. :-/ just work on yourself for now. take it day by day and dont worry about what she does, you should really stop stalking her for yourself. good luck.
Thank you for your tips. I kept away from her social media as much as I could but after I changed my profile pic the first time I just wanted to check hers. When I saw she also changed I wanted to test if it was random or if she was checking my facebook. It was a big deal for me since I thought she didn’t even care. We were together for 4 years. She dumped me and got into a relationship with another guy about 2 years ago and then came back after about 2 months after she dumped me. I did some stupid things and hurt her but we stuck together. I just hope she will contact me. I miss her so much. I am focusing on myself but I would give anything to have her back.
