Hi there. I had been seeing a woman for 5 months. She is 23 and im 28.
Everything was going so well between us and we really connected on an emotional level. This connection was stronger than with anyone ive dated before. (even more so than my ex I was with over 2 years). She told me she loved me after 4 months and I couldnt have been happier.
One morning after she had been at my place and we had been drinking she said I had been “too pushy for sex”. I certainly didnt force myself on her and when she said not tonight we just ended up going to bed and cuddling. Nothing happened and she never said anything at the time. I knew something was wrong in the days following as she didnt talk to me for 3 days and then ended the relationship with a text message. She wouldnt even talk to me over the phone saying she “may be over-reacting but she saw a side of me she really didnt like”.
I tried to call her twice that day texted her 3 times trying to talk about things but she replied with a text saying " We can leave on good terms but I have nothing else to say". After that I didnt try to contact her and she hasnt tried to contact me. This was 3 weeks ago yesterday.
Earlier this week I noticed she had unfriended me on facebook which I didnt think too much of as we werent speaking and I wasnt trying to contact her. I had actually started to feel Ok about life in general again. Then today I found out through a mutual friend that she started sleeping with one of my friends.
I had been thinking about trying to get back together with her after No contact as I really did love her but now I am not sure what to do. Is she just sleeping with my friend to make me jealous or hurt me and if so what does that mean? I seriously need to consider how I feel about her now I have this information however Im just not sure what to do at this point and any help/advice would be appreciated.