My boyfriend just broke up with me, we’ve been only dating for two weeks but we were talking for about 2 and a half months, everything was going so well but one of my best friends who is a guy snap chatted me frequently and I didn’t think of anything because I see him as a casual friend but he broke up with me because I didn’t stop it the minute we started getting together official. Some of his friends told him that I had snapped him and it bothered him but the snap chats were nothing but casual. He was upset that I didn’t catch it sooner even though we’ve been dating for two weeks. He got upset that I didn’t notice it but he didn’t tell me that it bothered him. He agreed he doesn’t want to be together right now, I want him to be able to trust me again, he said he needed his time to think and reevaluate himself and for me to do the same since he doesn’t know what he wants, Its been only two days and I am very hurt, its a situation that can be fixable but I don’t want to push him away. I want to see if we have another shot because I really liked him and saw something long term with him. He’s going to Europe next week and will be gone for two weeks, when is the right time to talk to him, wanted to wish him a safe trip, do I text him the day he leaves on the trip cause it will be 8 days since we broke up, the middle of the trip or do I wait til he comes back.
hi, I’m sure you like this guy, but two weeks isn’t such a long relationship and if he’s upset because of some snaps then it’s okay, give him his space, I suggest you don’t contact him for a while let him go to Europe and when he comes back just casually ask him how it was, be subtle and nice don’t beg him to come back nor anything like that, you’ll be okay 
@lauren9695 - I’m guessing you’re both very young and don’t know how to interact and solve problems together by simple discussion. Snap chat is mostly for very young people and can easily cause jealousy in a relationship. Jealousy and arguments are among the top reasons for break ups. Maybe write a very short text or call him the day before he leaves on the trip to wish him a fun and safe trip.
Pleaseee help :((((
This is will be long, but anyhow I really need your opinions 
I just broke up with my ex bf 5 days ago, so it means less than a week. He broke up with me after 9 months of relationship. I need to add that for the last 2 months of our relationship, there were lots of arguments and turmoils going on in our relationship. It felt like after fight there was another fight, and i admit that mostly it was my fault. He’s been really patience in handling the situation. Until finally he snapped because I was drunk and I can’t control my self and my parents was mad with him, because that happened when I with him. But actually the one that invited us for drinking was one of my best friend. After that he said sorry directly to my parents and my parents forgave him. He also said that he didnt mad with my parents, that was a normal reaction, but he clearly disappointed with me. Well we still takk after that and eveything seems normal, but Ia few days after that, I felt something wrong, so I decided to confront him, why he changed etc.
Note: Before this i’ve always been a pushy person (but he always understand me and tried to calm me down).
And he said “it’s normal because there was a big arguments before and he knows everything’s going to be alright”, but I kept pushing him and even said Im not happy with him, and always bring up the “separation” topic which he hatessss, but I kept repeating it whenever I had a problem with him, in hope he will try to calm me down and begged me that he doesnt want it. It worked at that time, although I could see that he got tired. We kept going on with our relationship, but again I kept pushing him all over again. And finally after that we hadn’t met for almost 3 weeks, and he said but we’re still texting. Until i can’t cope it anymore and when i brought up the topic again and pushed him, he said “maybe its better for us to end it” and that was the first time I tried to keep our relationship (before it is always him). And I decided to come to his house, and we make up. Buttt after that, again I felt he changed. And I confront it again, i kept pushing him, at first he said “i’m sad you know, but i promise i will do anything to make our relationship back as it used to”, but maybe im dont have enough patience, and kept pushing him again and again, untuk the third time i pushed him, he said he was reallly tired and we decided to have a break (not a break up just a break).
Note: he’s been wanting to go overseas for working purpose. At first when our relationship was fine, he said it only for one years, but after he said the words “end it” for the first time he said he want to go forever, and when I tried to win him back (at his house) I said I’m willing to go with him. But, a week after that (after we make up) I said it’s really hard to leave, and he though i didnt wanna go with him, but i have explained it to him that i wanna go, and that’s all just a misunderstanding
Okay, so he said, that besides he’s tired of our relationship, he felt that i was lying when I said I wanted to go overseas with him. And i have explained it, it was all misunderstanding. So we had our first break (mutual break). It was 3 weeks ago.
We didnt chat or call or meet for 5 days. At the day 5 during our break, i said happy 9 months to him. And he didn’t reply. Right on the 12th day during our break, I chat him, i said “how how are you? I miss you”, he replied my text, and i told him i also doing fina, and what are you doing right now? And thats it. He said he just watching and he break up with me. Of course i didnt just say yes. I try to keep us together (but this time not pushy, i’ve been trying not to be a pushy needy girl during our break), and he said during these past weeks we didnt chat or meet he felt nothing. And thats the end. We break up.
And we haven’t chat or talk since then. Do you think is it possible that he completely forget about me now? And is it possible to get back with my ex? I dont plan to text him first, since i know it will be futile. What should i do? I love him and i can see my future with him. I really am sorry for all the things i did in the past.
Ps: my ex boyfriend said before, if its already break up then it’s a break up (when he told me about his friend that broke up and get back together), he doesnt like the idea of get back with ex. So i’m really afraid he wont text me nor get back with me.
But on additional note, he said he never did the things he did to me when he was with his ex (for example talking about marriage, lowering his ego to the point he always apologizing eventhough im the one that did the mistake, he was really selfish before, but when he was with me, he was really sweet.
Ps: this is my first boyfriend. And my friend said that if a guy asked for a break, means he already got a new girl.